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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
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WHY is it ok for black guys to date caucasian chicks but it's not ok for black ladies to date caucasian guys.
Who says?
whats the different between emo and scene?
Emo people are known for being "emotional". That's where the word comes from. The guys wear really tight pants and girls and guys wear a lot of black. Their hair usually covers their eyes and they wear a lot of eye liner. Scene people are different. They have awesome hair. Tons of color, different styles and they dress very unique. Most cut their own hair, style their own clothing and such.
killing animals, then skinning them for furs/coats/jackets etc. is wrong. is it still considered wrong if you keep the animal until it grows old and dies and then you skin the animal to make a new jacket/coat/etc. ? i'm really curious.
I also think it's very wrong to kill animal's for that reason or for anything else. When they're dead, it's not so wrong. I mean they already died from whatever killed them. I just think it's really sad though.
ok, I need some advice on here. but you please if you not gonna help or say something rude, don't post at all.
So i think Emo hair cuts are cute. so i was wondering if you could show me some. My hair is black and its a litle longer then shoulder. I have found sites, but i can never see the HAIR!!. So if you could show me some pictures that would be fantastic. Thank you!
http://s18.photobucket.com/albums/b140/motherfuckinhair/ Those are emo and scene hair cuts.
do girls go for guys with piercings? if they are good looking that is, and do girls get attracted to guys with piercings,like let's say nose rings?and if they do, can you specify which part of the face or body you find most attractive for a piercing on a guy and how much piercings should your ideal guy have?thanks
A lot of girls have different tastes in guys and I personaly like piercings on a guy but not much. My favorite would be on the lip. I just think it's very sexy. =]
OK, this isn't a "random weirdo" question, it just doesn't really fall under any other category. Any way, on with the question:
Is it normal, for a girl, to shave around the crotch? I don't mean shaving all of it, obviously. Just enough so that hair doesn't stick out when I wear a bathing suit?
It's very normal.
I listen to pop/rock and I was just wondering if snyone had any good artists for these genres. Anything would be helpful! Thanks!
Houston Calls, The Early November, The Format, Head Automatica, Bright Eyes, Armor for Sleep, Funeral for a Friend, The Used, From First to Last, A Heart Well Ending, Madina Lake, Cartel, Silverstein, The Veronicas.
I'm a 15 year old guy. I am starting to grow some hair on my stomach and chest, not thick and disgusting. But the hair on my head is black, and so my chest hair is dark as well. I'm pretty sure that girls don't find that attractive. I was wondering if there is any way to remove it besides shaving and laser hair removal. Thanks!
Your last option would be waxing it. It might hurt for a little bit but it's worth it.
Okay,... I don't know if this is in the right category, but...
I just put in a tampon for the first time. Do you have to take out a tampon before you pee? I have to pee while it's in. Is this normal?
You don't have to take it out to pee if you don't want to. It's normal though.
I am bulimic. Does God hate me for it?
It's a sin.
God does not hate anyone. It's unhealthy and you're hurting yourself. God is looking out for you and he wants the best for you. Try to get some help. It's for your own good.
My boyfriend left my friend a picture comment on myspace that said "your so sexy shortii." I'm really jealous. Should I be jealous? I don't want to seem so clingy but I'm kinda jealous.
It's normal to feel jelous but just think about it. He's your boyfriend, not hers. :] I'm sure he also gets jelous when guys hit on you. Like I said though, it's normal.
Does putting eyeliner on your top lid, bottom lid, or both make your eyes look bigger and bolder?
When you put eyeliner on your top lid it actually makes your eyes apper smaller. People with big eyes do that. If you have small eyes, I wouldn't suggest it.
I have had discharge for a very long time. About two day ago I started getting some werid brown stuff on my underware am I getting my period or is it an infection or something?
It's not an infection but you are getting your period soon. Just expect it any time and wear panty liners so it doesn't get on your undies.
There is this guy in my 6th period class and he is really cute(lets call him bob), well yesterday bob and I gave each other looks. =D. Okay and after class a girl name Abbi told bob I like him and that i think he is really hott. and he smiled and blushed. and then Abbi said you should ask her out. So....today I am hoping bob will ask me out...what should i do if he does?
If you like him then say yes. If you guys don't know much about each other just talk first and then see what happened.
13/f ok so im 5'6" but im slim and most of the guys in my grade are shorter than me or at least a little short. My height at the most. Would they not want to go out with me or kiss me if im that tall?
If any guy doesn't want to go out with you because of your height, well.. they're pathetic. My friend is really tall and she always had a boyfriend. Some were shorter than her, some as tall as her. Eather way, guys will grow. They grow faster than girls, well that's what my doctor told me.
Well...this is kind of an odd question. I weigh a bit more than my boyfriend, and I'm afraid that if I sit on his lap or something that it would hurt him. I heard guys naturally are stronger, but I don't know much about this. Do you think it would hurt him?
It won't hurt him, don't worry. Most guys are strong and hold up more weight but unless he's super tiny, you have nothing to worry about.
okay this is really gross so if you dont like gross questions, dont read this.
when i get my period, i have these like blobs of blood that come out ...and idk what i should do. it doesnt seem normal... =/
It's normal and even though you think it's gross, every girl goes through it. Don't worry though. You're fine.
is there such a thing that you can delete a Question/Answer on your advice column? I really want to delete this one Question/Answer, but I dont know how... Is it possible?
Please and Thank You!
-volleyball2150
If you go to that question and delete your answer and click submit, it will be gone. =]
Alright basically i was diagnosed with anorexia two years ago. Now my question isnt about me being it cuz i know im not ive been keepin an average menstration cycle. My question is should i go on a diet or do you think that would be stupide becuase if i restrict i might become anorexic again. Im weighing at 115 im size 2 and small - medium in shirts..so im not huge but im not very very thin..im 5'3" if that helps you get a vision of my boy type im fit but i wonder if itd be okay to limit my foods. Im supposed to be at 124 but 115 is okay to..id like to be down to 112 im 16 years old. alright now that ive rambled on what do you think?
My opinion, you don't need to go on a diet at all. You're weight is perfect and if you're happy with it, stick with it. You can tone down some of your body parts but that's if you eat healthy and work out so you can build muscle. Don't lose any more weight because you don't need to.
I was over at my friend "Madison's" house and she is kind of well.. young in heart. You see she is 12 and I am 13 but she looks, and acts like she is like 7. So I got my period when I was there and I was to embarssed to tell anyone. Her babysitter called her mom and her mom talked to my mom and I had to go home. My mom got mad at me for no reason, I can't face her what should I do?
Why your mom got mad, I have no idea but don't be embrassed. You have to face your mom sooner or later. Periods are normal and just talk to your mom. Ask her why she's mad at you and just try to settle this whole thing.