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I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like?

take her out to a fancy dinner, then just get her a pretty necklace. = )

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When I go to the bathroom and get rady to wipe I aways look @ my underwear and every time I do they is this whitish Yellowidh hard crust stuff what is it and what should I do?

perfectly normal, and theres really nothing you can do about it. everyone gets it.

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I have use pads ever since I first got my period and I have never even thought about using a tampon. I think I want to try them, but I have heard very bad things about them. I heard they hurt when you put it in, and that they can give you diseases. I am really confused on what to do. Should i just stick to pads?

if you like pads and there comfortable for you, just stick with them because that's the safe way to go. if you feel like there not though, then try tampons. read all the directions first on the box, and just don't leave it in for too long.

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For people who tend to get cold sores -what works best for you?? I have one now and i have dealt with them all of my life and i need something that works fairly fast becuase I have school tomorrow! And i hate the feeling of everyone always looking at me and this weird, nasty, crusty, bubbly, -um okay thats enough..but i bought abreva once and it was like 20 dolllars! I tried vinegar before, it worked fairly well, but we dont have any, and i dont have a ride to walgreens but i can get one if theres something out there that works good enough! Thanks for your suggestions!!

you can get this medicine from the doctor, it's these pills, and it just makes them go away. so they'll give you like one of those little jars filled or whatever, and when you get them you just take one or two and it will go away.

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do guys like it when girls shave you know where or do they like it trimmed better

i would just stick with shaved all the way. = )

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does any one know were (specific sites are loved!) I can buy a lil red (color can differ) salsa dress?

http://www.jackyjohn.com/Shimmering-Red-Salsa-Dress

http://search.ebay.com/salsa-dresses_W0QQfnuZ1

http://www.fantasiawear.com/dresses-clubwear-rd-28008.htm

http://www.sexylooks.com/Tonysdancewear/Tonydresses.htm

http://www.edressme.com/tango.html

http://lagunafitness.com/index.cfm/act/Catalog.cfm/catalogid/2713/Subcategory/Evening%20dresses/category/womens%20apparel/browse/null/MenuGroup/Swimwear/desc/Sassy%20Salsa%20Dress.htm

hope these help you!

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i need help FAST!!

how does this quote from alguna beach go?
u have a __________ way of making me cry yet a ________ way of making me smile

i'll rate all 5's

amazing way of making me cry yet a beautiful way of making me smile.

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What does 14820 mean?? if it means anything...

doesn't have any meaning.

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if it kind of smells down there is that normal? would shaving help?

yes it's normal! shower everyday and wash with a really good smelling body wash/soap. you can shave it if you want, it will trap less bacteria and sweat and it won't smell as bad. = )

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hi, 13/m
i have hair around my "butt hole". is this normal? should i shave it or something?
all fives.

perfectly normal, everyone's got it. just leave it there. = )

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I was reading a bit on dumping in a book called "the teen survivle guide for guys" and it said that if you dump a girl then beg to get back in the relationship, she will hate your guts and it will be nearly impossible to get back in the relationship. I am asking if there is any safe way to brake up. Like telling her we should be just friends for a while.

http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/breakingup/ht/breakingupht.htm

hope this helps!

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i haven't had my period for 2 months and i know i'm pregnant because i'm a virgin. relatives and stuff think that i have a problem with reproductive system or something and wants me to see a gyno, but i really don't want to do that and i'll make that my last resort. they think it's because i always drink cold stuff and don't eat. my weight is the same as before and idk. help? i'm 14/f by the way

everyone gets there's diferently, so this could just be normal for you. if you really think it's an issue though, then i would just ask your doctor about it.

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does anyone know any stores to buy beanies? (hats)

you can probably find some at vans.

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I have a great life and everything, but it seems like somethings missing. Maybe I need a Boyfriend?.. Like i could get one but idk I'm so confused. and i always wanna cry. please help. ( i'm 13)

crying part is probably just hormones kicking in. if you feel like your missing something, make some new friends, or try getting a boyfriend and see if that helps you out at all!

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okay, i know this is a stupid question, but whatever.
when you make out.. do you only put your/his tongue in his/your mouth, or do like.. you both put you're tongues in eachohters mouths at the same time?

i rate, thanks

at the same time. (go in circles around his) hope this helps you.

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last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!!

he was probably a little too horney. haha = )

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Does anyone know where i can get some music by Fricken'A for MYSPACE. it has to be for myspace though .. NOT xanga. Please help !

http://www.hotcodez.com/ArtistsName/Frickin'%20A

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my boyfriend and I are going to have our 1 year in december so I have alot of time to prepare. I'm going to do something very special in my guest/spare bedroom. It has a couch and a tv. I want to cook him dinner and dessert, decorate it with candles and stuff, but I don't have any ideas. What kind of food can I make that's easy? He'll eat ANYTHING. How else can I decorate besides candles/roses? maybe music? How do I make this room look AMAZING? I'll take anything.

happy one year!! you should make some pasta, or even chicken or something easy like that. then for dessert you could do like cheescake or even chocolate covered strawberries. (very romantic haha) decorate the room with dimmed lights, flowers, make a card, set up a couple pillows on the floor, and just use really really soft music in the backround. hope this helps you!

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ummm what are the first signs before getting your period?

usually lots of discharge, and some girls get cramps.

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well i started writing poems and songs about sucide and dieing and cutting and popping pills! im sucidal?? PLZ HELP!!
(( and plz dont tell me to go see a counslar or therpist because my family doesnt know and i dont want them to find out))

you're only suicidal if you're the one doing these things. (cutting, popping pills, etc.) writing about it is different. there is nothing wrong with you.

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