If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?
o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp ! (link)
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It's ok. Don't beat yourself up just because guys are too shy to come up and talk you. Your friends say you're pretty,believe them. If you're at a party or something,smile a lot and be alone occasionaly and some guy will come over and talk to you. Don't be shy around guys. Always remember girls are in control. Act like you know what you're doing.
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Hi, my names liza im 14... i have this guy lets call him *Bob* and we were goin out for like 16 months, and then yesterday he calls me sayin "yeah liez i have a gurl her name is kelly and laughs and says i know its gonna piss you off, oh well bye" and i cryed for hours, im still crying right now. i know it was stupid and i dont know what love is... but i really did i was seriously in love with this boy and i cut my like my whole arm up, and did a bunch of stupid things. i really dont know what to do anymore with my life i dont wanna live, i wish i was dead. does anyone have any ideas for me to get him backk or something cause i REALLY wanna get him back... and i dont know how to. s0o pleaseeeeee pretty please someone anyone please help!!!!! :( ill rate you, just please help me... xo liza (link)
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Ok don't say shit like you don't wanna live and all that and nobody knows what love is. Don't wish you were dead,that's so stupid,this guy is definitely not worth it. The best way to get him back at him is to find a guy who you like and be happier with him. Then when his other bitch pulls this same crap on him,then you'll have the last laugh. Fuck that guy.
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how do i give a guy a bj and it be really awesome..thanks for the advice! (link)
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Hmmm,well I've never sucked a dick before but ... swirl your tongue around his head and use one hand on his cock and the other lightly massaging his balls. You can alternate between just licking and then taking some in with your mouth. Look up at him occasionaly to see if hes enjoying it and he will be. Remember easy on his balls,they're very delicate. Tell him let me know when you're ready to cum because that's a suprise you may or may not want in your mouth.
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I have a stepmother, her name is anne. She's only 15 years older than me, and my dad is 17 years older than her! I hate her, but i'm still nice to her...She's bothering me!!!! She pretends to be my mom, and i dont want people to think that! I wana tell my dad that he should divorce her, but how? (link)
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You can't tell your dad what to do. You have no right to tell him what to do and you can't tell your dad to divorce her.
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
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Hey look you gotta kiss his nicotined filled mouth. If the cigarette smoking repulses you as it would me,then you have every right to say,quit or I'm dumping you.You can't really make him quit,but you can get out of the relationship if it bothers you so much. He is old enough to do what he wants,but so are you. There's no law that says you have to smell that nasty shit.
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On a family vacation, down at my aunts house, they own a farm in oregon. THey have these beautiful hourses, but one inperticual caught my eye. We rode them all day, and into the early evening. Later that night, my cousins and I were playing spin the bottle . It was my turn, I spun not knowing where it would land. It landed on the horses barn, everyone laughed. I spun again and it landed on my older cousin Bradley. We made out fer a little bit, that didnt satisfy me. I knew what i had to do. Later that night, when everyone fell asleep, I went to the barn and found my *friend* I started to stroke its mane I got aroused. I started to grope it, head to tail. I jumped on top , humping with all my might. That wasnt enough for me or the pony. I hopped back off, and found something i must have missed before, long and firm, it was beyond human. I bet you can figure out what me and my mouth did that night. The next morning, my mom was ?ing me about the encounter, what do I do?! And is it wrong that i enjoyed it? please help me (link)
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Well,you are into beastility. This is enjoying sex with animals. This is highly abnormal and yes I have to say it is wrong you enjoyed it. You found its dick and you're right it wasn't human alright. You need to tell someone you trust and get some help for this problem. People weren't meant to have sex with animals and you could get very sick in doing this. You won't be looked down upon,but you do need some help and you'll find that people make better sex partners.
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Oh, gosh! I have a canker sore, but I forgot about it yesterday after I had already given my boyfriend head. Should I be worried about him developing Herpes or anything else? (link)
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No.
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Me n this guy have been cybering online and its really graphic! Now I really want to have sex with him because its really hot online..(dont worry i know the guy)..but he lives 5 hours away..im confused on wut to do...HELP!!! thankz.. (link)
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Jesus Christ,no! I can be very sexually exciting just talking,but in real life,I don't think I'm near that sexy. When you cyber,you picture it feeling the best. You're leaving out the occasional fart,miscommunication,him not licking the right spot and everything. Don't just fuck this guy because it sounds hott on the computer. Hell if you wanna get off,I'll help you out.
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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Who gives a crap what they think? They're probably jealous you have a better guy than them. These are crappy friends if you ask me. They're not going to stop,but so what? I'd say I'm attracted to him and if you don't like it,tough shit.
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my friend tina looks way older for her age and she is 13 and older guys like in their 20s hit on her. and we went to the movies by ourselves i though we were going to get raped because these guys were following us around all nite and she told them i was 17 but im 13 and i dont even think i look 15 how could i pull of 17!
Older or not! (link)
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If you thought these guys were gunna rape you,I wouldn't go near that place anymore. Don't say you're older than you are,ever. Especially to older guys. Don't try to be 17 if you're not.
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hey katey im 14 years old. i just got back from this away camp. while i was there i met this boy and we toatally hit it off. right from the time we met we flirted and hung out the whole week. when it was time to say goodbye it was so hard for the both of us. i talk to him online and the phone but its not the same. he lives 5 and a half hours away in virgina and i live in pennsylvania..we like eachother alot alot.how do we keep a great strong realationship if we never get to see eachother? (link)
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You don't.
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what does 69 mean cuz all my friends say it and im too embarassed to say anything (link)
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Giving oral sex and receiving it at the same time. Laying down and sucking his cock while he licks your tongue and pussy.
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There'a a guy in my grade that i am BEST friends with. I know everythign about him ( not exaggerating) and he knwos everythign about be. I am closer to himthan anyone else i ahve ever met. Theres jsut ome problem...
I really like this kid. He makes me feel really special. I told another one of my close friends baout it and she just told em that she had figured. She told emt aht me and this kid had flirted so amny times before. including when he had another girlfriend.
I really like him but i dont knwo if i shoudl tlel him or not because i dont want to ruin teh friendship that we already have. I love being his best friend btu i like him so much. please tlel me what you think....Oh also, he sends me mixed signals as to whether he likes me too or not... could you also tell me some of the signals i shoudl look for? thanks (link)
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Tell him how you feel and don't worry about screwing up the friendship. He probably suspects already anyway. I could tell you more about the mixed signals if I knew what they were. If a guy laughs a lot with you,wants to rub your back,likes to be close to you,takes you to a scary movie so you'll be closer to him,looks deep into your eyes,those are a few signs. Just tell him ok?
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OKAY MY FRIEND J.B CALLED JOSH(B/F) AND J.B WAS LIKE MAN KRISTEN IS GETTING ON MY NEVEES AND J.B WAS JUST SAYING THAT SO JOSH WOULD BELIEVE HIM SO THAN WHEN J.B SAID THAT JOSH WAS LIKE YEA SHE IS GETTING ON MY NERVES TOO AND THAN J.B SAID SO U GOING TO BRAKE UP OKAY MY FRIEND J.B CALLED JOSH(B/F) AND J.B WAS LIKE MAN KRISTEN IS GETTING ON MY NEVEES AND J.B WAS JUST SAYING THAT SO JOSH WOULD BELIEVE HIM SO THAN WHEN J.B SAID THAT JOSH WAS LIKE YEA SHE IS GETTING ON MY NERVES TOO AND THAN J.B SAID SO U GOING TO BRAKE UPTO SMOKE SOME MORE AND I TOLD JOSH I DO NOT WANT HIM SMOKEING THAT AND I REALLY DO NOT WANT HIM LIEING TO ME AT ALL!!i really need help now can someone help me! (link)
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You typed the same thing twice honey bunch. I say hell with both of them and somebody else.
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i really like this guy...hes a year older then me..i kno he doesnt like me(at least i think he doesnt).. we flirt sometimes i guess... but how do i kno if he likes me or not? i dont wanna tell him i like him if he doesnt like me back!
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Ask him. What have you got to lose? You say "I dont wanna tell him i like him if he doesnt like me back!". Why not? I've been rejected more times than I'd like to remember and I'm still here.
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17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?
-Sincerely, hopeless (link)
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Hey,join the club. I've never had a good relationship before either,so don't feel bad. Love is the hardest thing in the whole world to understand,even harder than math. What can you do? Well,nothing,I'm afraid. Mr.Right and I'm sure plenty of Mr.Wrongs will wander into your life very soon. But you have to give off good vibes. Go up and talk to the guy if you're interested. Smile a lot and act interested and eventually you'll hit the jackpot. I know you're thinking yeah yeah yeah,this is the same bullshit I've heard for years,but some of the most interesting guys don't come up and talk to you because they think they can't and won't impress you. I fight that a lot and I feel like when I make a compliment they just think I'm trying to get them in bed. So just be yourself really. It'd be nice if I followed my own advice.
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Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him?? (link)
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I think you're exactly right. At 14,you're too young for a serious relationship,especially during summer at the beach. Tell this guy you'd like to go out with him some,but make it clear that you both should see other people too. Tell him just what you told me,that you don't want anything serious right now. He'll ger over it.
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you helped on the question about me liking a kid that broke up with me because some girl would have sex with him . and you helped me on another question about liking a guyy but afraid it would hurt our friendship (link)
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I'm glad I could help you out there.
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What are some things that drive you wild that a girl does? What really turns you on? Thanks (link)
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I don't know why you want MY answer to this question because you don't know me and have no intentions of turning me on. But I will answer anyway. I'm not gunna lie: I love beautiful women. But that's only part of the journey. I like a girl who laughs and is laid back. What turns me on is a girl with average looks,self confidence,a sense of humor,and not slutty,but not prudish. I hate girls who think they're right all the time,talk only about themselves,and expect me to listen to their problems without hearing some of mine. But really if you wanna get a guy going,show interest in him. Flirt just enough to get his imagination going and act interested in him. He won't have to act interested back,he already will be.
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one of my really good friends is always trying to be what shes not. i can tell she just does it for attention, and she really isnt all she cracks herself up to be. my other friends have tried to talk to her about it and she totally took it the wrong way and i know talking to her about it will make a huge mess. im sick of watching her lie about stupid stuff that we all know isnt true and watching her make an ass out of herself. i know its not totally my business, but what would you do in this situation?? (link)
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Personally,I'd enjoy watching my friend make an ass out of himself. However,since you don't,I'd say the following: Listen,so and so,we don't get why you're putting up this bullshit front to other people. You're not impressing them and you're certainly not impressing us,your friends. Take last week when you.... Tell her she's not fooling anybody and the best thing to do is be herself.
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