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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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i'm going to gr10 next year and we gotta pick subjects to take. which one should i take? french or spanish? i live in canada so i guess french would be useful.. but i SUCK at french and i've never taken spanish before so they're going to start from like.. the stuff they teach you on dora the explorer so i guess i'll be okay in spanish.. but i don't know which one i should pick.. people say french is more useful but i guess i should get more people's opinions before i make my final choice. please help =)

I think you should stick to taking French. You're from Canada (Yay!) so you're going to need it when you go out into the real world. If you decided to move some place, a lot of times you need to know enough French to get by if you're looking for a job. Other times they wont hire you if you just speak English, you need to know French, too. So that would probably be the best thing for you to take, French. And actually, French isn't all the bad, once you get the hang of it. Just practice and you'll do great. ♥

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Ok so i like this boy. Hes pretty shy and doesnt talk much in real life but when im online with him he talks so much! He kind of flirts with me and i flirt back but i still dont know if he likes me..my friend imed him and asked me if he would ever go out with me and he just said 'dunno'. :\ what are some ways that i can tell if he likes me :)

thanks

Probably the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge. So, here are a few clues to working out if he likes you as much as you like him.


-- Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.


-- Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you and you like him, neither of you will step back.


-- Make eye contact - if he likes you, he'll get it and HOLD it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else.


-- Be aware of touching - he might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.


-- Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you - but this is quite hard to pick up on and you might look a bit weird looking THAT closely into his eyes.


-- See if he keeps going out of his way to 'bump' into you.


-- Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.


-- Joke freely. Does he laugh even if you aren't funny?


-- Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting.


-- Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.


You should check out the following site; http://wiki.ehow.com/Tell-if-a-Guy-Likes-You They have a lot of useful information that'll help you out loads. ♥

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I'm worrying... So I've had my period for about 3 years and all. I last had my period on Jan 17. But I have brown discharge... Is something wrong with me?

You just finished your period, so your body is basically cleaning it's self out. The brown discharge is just dried up blood from your last period. It should go away and go back to normal discharge within a couple of days. ♥

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Does anyone else think that the banner on the side of advicenators telling people to click here for relationship problems need to be bigger? A lot of the answers to questions that are asked can be found there.

What banner are you talking about? If it's the one on the left hand side, that's just there so you know which category to place your question in. ♥

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What does "Heritage" mean ???

Heritage is simply your family background and where they came from. ♥

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how long does the body bleeds for a girl after having sex for the frist time

Some girls bleed a lot, while others only bleed a little, then you have the odd few that don't bleed at all. So it just depends on the girl and her body. ♥

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i have limewire and is it really bad like.. causes spyware and slows down your computer? is bearshare any better? does it slow down the computer alsooo?

I haven't had either of these downloaders, but I have heard that both Limewire and Bearshare are bad. I suggest downloading a new downloader. Maybe 'Ares'? It's a really great downloader. I've haven't had a problem with it yet, and I've had it for a few years now. No spyware, no pop ups, doesn't slow down your computer or gives off viruses. It's great! I highly recommend it. Just go to http://www.download.com and search up 'Ares'. ♥

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Are you expected to moan while a guy is fingering you? Or do you just lay there silently? And does being fingered usually lead to an orgasm? Thanks.

You don't HAVE to, but I mean most girls do, especially if it starts to feel good. It's natural, so if you do start moaning don't be embarrassed about it. It'll probably turn on the guy you are with, because he knows he's doing his job.


Also, you don't always get an orgasm while being fingered, nor do you always get one while having sex, but that's okay. Everyone is different and the guy has to find that 'special spot', which may take awhile, that's why you don't orgasm everytime. ♥

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how do u make ur myspace private?

Just change your age to 16 or younger and your profile will automatically go to private. ♥

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I can't upload a picture of me because it says that it can't fit-but I want to put a picture of me on my column.

If the picture is too big (which tends to happen a lot), you can go to the following website to re-size it: http://www.imageshack.us Then, just get the URL of the picture you uploaded (the last URL on the page) and put it in the "URL Of A Picture Of You" section, then scroll down and click "Submit". ♥

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Alright im having this pointless little fued between me and my friend and on that song smooth criminal by Alien ant farm.. what does it say? on the chorus?

Annie are you OK Are you OK?


is that what is says? My friend clains it doesnt really say Annie

Yes, it is 'Annie' being said in the song. ♥

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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 months. we hold hangs on the bus [yeah, corny, i know.] and hug and all that.. but what are some things like their girlfriends to do. btw, im 14, so is he. i just want to let him know i do care about him and everything..

Aw, that's so cute. Especially the part where you hold hands on the bus; it isn't the least bit corny, hun. It's adorable!


You can be there for him when he needs to talk. Give him hugs and kisses when he's down. Cheer him up. Tell him how much you like him, everyday. Explain your feelings for him to him. Give him hugs when you see him and kisses when you leave him. Randomly call him just to tell him you're thinking about him. Leave cute notes in his locker, telling him how much you like him. Give him cookies. Bake him some yummy treats. Anything you can think of, do it. I'm sure he'll love it. ♥

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hi,
well i met my boyfriend on our crosscountry team he is a senior 17,male and im a freshman 14,female and we went to homecoming together didn't actually start a dating until holloween and he moved the 28th of december to georgia and i live in flordia and we decided to break it off and everything but i still have a feeling that he wants to get back with me but i dont know and he's soo far away but the sweetest guy ever and i love him but i dont know how to bring it up or how to maintain a great long distant relationship and he's 17 and im only 14 i mean where's it goin to go he's going to go to collage i'll still be in high school but still i love him and want to be with him so basically my question is what should i do and how to keep and relationship going, rememeber where both kinda single but still have strong feelings foreach other!!!
thanks

It sounds like you really want to be with this guy. It sounds like you both really want to get back together. If you really have strong feelings for eachother and like eachother enough, you'll be able to make a long distant relationship work. I mean, yes, it's going to be hard at times, especially since you're not able to see eachother. But if you really care about eachother and you want to make it work, it'll happen.


I think you should have a converstation with him and see if you really care about eachother enough to make something like this work. If your hearts are both in it and you both trust one another, everything will go great. ♥

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why would you get banned on this site for talking in all caps? that seems stupid.

Because in 'internet terms' typing in all caps is consider shouting and/or yelling. So, that's not really right to do while answering a question. People may take it the wrong way and think you're screaming at them because of the question they asked. Plus, it's better to type correctly. People will take your answer more seriously, then they would if you typed in all caps, 'Or LyKe DiS'. ♥

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alright... so i'm 90% over this last guy... and then i realized there has been a man there for me this whole time.. and i have liked him soo.. should i go for it?

Sure. Why shouldn't you go for him? What do you really have to lose? You're over this other guy, so you should be moving on and finding someone new. If you like him, tell him. You never know, he could be perfect for you. And if you don't tell him, you could be missing out on something really special. So, go for it. ♥

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ok for some crazy reason when i am on myspace sometimes it wont let me go to the next page it just says (javascriptnextpage('1') now my question is how can i fix this? thanks so much.

It does that to me all the time. I'm sure it happens to a lot of people, actually. You can either refresh the page and see if it works that way. If it doesn't exit the whole thing, then open up your browser again and sign into MySpace. ♥

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anyone know how to make a picture smaller so i can get it on this site? they're all too big! i dont where to go like i know there is a site where you can go to make them smaller..thank you

First, go to this site; http://www.imageshack.us and load your picture on there. Do you see where it says "Resize Image?", click on the 320x240 (for websites and email), it'll size your picture down to a smaller size. If you want your picture even smaller, just click on the different sizes. ♥

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Does anybody know what stores sell Chia Pets?

Any type of chia's would be great.

Or does anybody know where I can get movie chia's like scooby doo or shrek or something.

You can get them anywhere, actually. Zellers, Wal-Mart, K-Mart. Places like that, you'll be able to find them in. ♥

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Heyyyy Krissy!!
I'm asking your help specifically on this one:
Do you think a stuffed animal would be a good "just because you mean the world to me" gift for a 19 year old male? I'm not sure exactly what type of animal/character it would be. It wouldn't be anything too girly with flowers and bows and such. Something that's cute.. in a masculine way, ya know? Again, he's 19. Think that would fly? I know it's the thought that counts and he would love whatever I got him; but think he would LIKE it? We're "friends", not "dating".. but we might as well be! :)

I think it's a cute gift, actually. Simple and sweet is the best way to go. It's true 'it's the tought that counts', but I'm sure he'll like it. Just because he's a boy, doesn't mean he won't like a stuffed animal. Everyone loves stuffed animals! Just make sure the stuffed animal that you're getting isn't to girly; colored pink and everything else you said. (You know how most guys are when it comes to pink!) Either way, I'm sure he'll adore your gift. Good luck! ♥

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Well i really need some good quotes about love. does anybody have any good ones or good sites? I need the quotes kinda quickly but i can wait a little.
I rate
Thanks in advance
Quotless in Chicago

- - http://www.holliesquotes.com
- - http://www.xanga.com/allthebest_QU0TES


These sites are amazing; especially the first site. They both have a lot of really cute love quotes that I'm sure you will enjoy. ♥

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