Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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hi well, my friend told me that his mate told him that my friends sister kind of, gives blowjobs, when she's off to "sleepovers" well i think we should tell my friend because it is his sister, and i think he has the right to know. my other friend thinks he shouldnt know because its "best for him". what shall we do?? oh and by the way, his sisters 16... thanks in advance (link)
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Well if it was me, I wouldn't tell him. If he's really protective of his sister, then nothing goods going to come of it cause he'll be looking out for her probably all the time and she'll get mad and then he might get mad, and it might be bad. Also, it's her business and her life. If you were doing stuff with people, would you want people to know, let alone your sibling or someone in your family? I think not, haha. It would definetely make things awkward and strange around the house. But like I said, it's her personal life, and it shouldn't be spread around. I hope I helped.
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14/f/ 137 lbs. and i am 5'8" is that average weight for my height and age?? (link)
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Yeah, that's perfectly normal.
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my cell phone was dead yesterday so it was off and people keep prank phone calling me and they blocked their number so i cant find it out and i really want to know who it was so is there any way i could find out whos called me?? i think theres a number you dial like *67 but thats not it. i dont really want to call the phone company which is verizon (link)
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if you do *69, you can find out whose been calling, but some phone companies dont give that as a cell phone option like, i can't do it for my phone. which sucks.
anyways, try that and if that doesn't work, try going down to verizon and see if they can maybe print up your recent phone calls and trace it and find out whose been calling.
or you can also take it to the police because it's considered harassment if they're always calling you and everything and they can try and trace the numbers for you and even possibly block them from your phone.
like the other people said, you could also try *67 if that's the number to block people.
i hope i helped.
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So there is this guy and he is very nice and he is always saying to me, you are really cool, you are pretty, etc. So sometimes online he will ask me questions like do you think i am hot, do you think you could ever like me more as a friend and stuff like that.
So usually I say no or idk. Because I don't want to lead him on by saying yes or something else. But then I feel bad, like I am hurting his self esteem and putting him down. What should I do? What should I say when he asks me? (link)
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Well, yes, you might be hurting his self-esteem or putting him down, but that happens with everyone. I mean, you can't sit there and lead the kid on and tell him you like him or anything, cause in the end, that would probably hurt more. Just let him know how you're feeling and the next time he asks if you like him or anything, just like him know you only like him as a friend, so then maybe he'll stop asking you. You just got to be honest with him. just be like,"i'm sorry, but i only really like you as a friend. i wouldn't want that to get messed up even if we WERE to date and we'd break up, cause then it'd get all ruined. i just hope we can be really great friends though." [ or something like that ]
i hope i helped.
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Is it whrong to like your brother if your addopted and your noit really brother and sister? (link)
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mm, it's not really WRONG, but people might find it a little strange. cause for the people who might not know you're adopted into their family, so if they saw you guys like, together or something it might raise some eyes. but no, it seems fine. haha, just as long as you two weren't really related.
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I have start school again on Wednesday, and all the girls in my grade are starting to wear makeup and jewelry, but I am more or the sporty kind, What should I do (link)
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you don't have to do anything you don't want to. just be you. if you still want to wear some makeup though, just put maybe a light colored eyeshadow, some cover-up, and maybe even a little mascara. so that way it looks a little more natural and light, and whenever you're playing sports and you sweat, it won't be like, leaking off your face. i hope i helped.
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What does it mean when someone answers a question and then puts EDIT- and writes something different? (link)
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whenever people want to edit their answer, that usually means they might've forgotten to add something, got a new idea of what to answer, or they're replying to somebodys feedback. i hope i helepd.
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This boy likes me but I only think of him as a brother. He confessed to me but what should I say to him? (link)
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you just have to be honest with him - tell him you're sorry, but you only think of him as a friend, as a brother even. because if you just sit there and don't say anything, he might take it the wrong things, and things could get even worse. i hope i helped.
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I just got my braces off and i have a retainer now. My orthodontist told me to wear it all the time except when im eating or brushing my teeth but i was just wondering, if i go like 4 hours without wearing it everyday, will my teeth actually shift? how many of you (with experience with retainers of course)actually wore ur retainer ALL the time? (link)
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I actually just got my braces off like, a week ago myself so I've been wearing my retainer as much as I can. My ortho told me to wear mine for 13 hours, so I just put it in 13 hours before I have to wake up the next morning. But then I take it out whenever I need to eat and stuff, but then I put it right back in. I would keep it in as much as possible, because I've seen people who ignored wearing it, and they had to go back to braces cause they're teeth shifted. So no, I don't think you have to wear it ALL the time, but wear it as long as your ortho told you to. I don't know if everyone has to wear theirs 13 hours like I do. I hope I helped.
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I think my boyfriend and one of my best friends may have feelings for each other. They've always been friendly with each other, but lately it's more than that. They're always really playful - joking/laughing together, and they've been quite touchy feely of late, too. The other day I watched them when they thought I wasn't looking, and she said something to him and he started laughing like it was the funniest thing ever and he kinda slapped/punched her on the shoulder. Then he pulled her woolen hat down over the back of her head for her....the whole time I watched she was fiddling/playing with his jacket, and she even touched his face a couple times.....
Am I totally over-reacting here? Maybe they're innocent? What do I do? (link)
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I don't think you're over-reacting at all. It sounds fishy to me too, so I'd be the same way if I were you. It can go either or. They could just be really good friends, or not, but it sounds to me like they might like eachother.
I would sit down with your boyfriend and talk to him about it and just flat out ask him,"do you have feelings for my best friend? be honest, cause i don't want to be with you if you're sitting there liking my best friend more than me." and see what he says. If he says no, then let him know you've noticed lately that it seems like you two are flirting and being all touchy-feely, and that it's worrying you.
I would also talk to your best friend too. Just flat out ask her also,"do you have feelings for my boyfriend? be honest, please." And if she's really your best friend, she'll be honest and upfront with you and let you know. And if it turns out she doesn't like him either, let her know what they've been sort of doing and it's coming off as flirting to you and you're getting worried.
I would also try and spend more time with just the boyfriend because then you two can get closer, and he won't be sitting there being all "touchy-feely" with your best friend as much and your relationship can improve even more.
BUT.
If they do admit that they have feelings for eachother, then I would just break up with him, because you can't just sit there and date him and watch him flirt with your best friend. But if that option occurs, then the best thing I'd say is to just let them date because if you try to get inbetween them, you could lose your best friend and a possible future friendship with your boyfriend and it just might get chaotic.
But hopefully, that's not the case and it's just harmless and innocent.
I hope I helped.
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16/m
Hi- I had sex with my boyfriend about 3 months ago without realizing he had HIV.. I asked him..and he lied and told me he didn't have it..
So- When I went for my yearly doctor check-up(last week).. my doctor wanted to give me an HIV test because I'm homosexual..
and it came out positive.. and I know its from my boyfriend because he's the only one i've had sex with.. ever..
So should I be mad at my boyfriend? or should I be mad at myself because I didn't know he had HIV...
Also- my doctor told me that my HIV is going to result in AIDS in about 5 years..
Please help!
-Jason (link)
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I would be really mad. I mean, first of all, he flat out lied, and if he really cares about you and your future, he would've let you know that he had HIV.
And even though he might NOT have been aware he had it, he should've gone to the doctor and gotten it checked out to make sure that if he had it, he could warn others before giving it to them too.
You shouldn't be mad at yourself at all. How else could you know unless you asked him? And he told you his answer, and you trusted him like any boyfriend would.
Just remember to keep going to the doctor and getting check ups and everything, but that's a real important thing to do.
I hope I helped.
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My parents decided to let me get a 70 dollar l.l. bean rolling backpack, because I have so much books that I my back hurts if I get a regular backpack. But before I buy it, I was wondering, is a rolling backpack ok for an 8th grader, or is it like out of style and babyish? Like do alot of people have rolling backpacks? Thanks! (link)
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i've never really ever seen a person with a rolling back pack. i've seen like, one kid all my life in the 6th grade, so yeah i'd say they're out of style. they were said to be better to use then those heavy straps and such, and they are, but they usually don't fit in your locker, trip people, get in people's way, and if it's really heavy you might have some trouble rolling it. so hopefully, the book bag also comes with straps so you can just put down the handle and use the straps instead. i hope i helped.
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I wanted to send an e-mail to one of my best friends have always been there for me no matter what and that I can tell anything to and let her know how much I appreciate her. I've been best friends with her since third grade and I am now in seventh. I was going to put all of our good times in the e-mail, but I don't know what else to put. Does anyone know of something else that I can put in the e-mail? (link)
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just tell her everything you're feeling! let her know how much shes means to you and how she's always been there ; good times and the bad and you hope it always stays that way. and just how its been an awseome 4 years hanging out together and you hope it stays like this for alot longer! and just tell her whatever you're feeling. :] that's so nice of you though, i've never had a friend do that for me. :] i hope i helped.
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14 f .so my best friend has had this boyfriend for almost 20 months now. and i know that its great and stuff and they are really great together but i dont see much of her anymore. last summer was so fun we hung out almost everyday and then this summer she was with her b/f. i only saw her 3 times. alot had been happening with me lately and she doesnt know any of it. i told her that i needed to talk and she said okay. but then everytime i asked her to hang out she said she was hanging out with her b/f. she doesnt even try to make plans with me. i dont know what to do. i feel like im losing my best friend. he wont always be there. and when she gets hurt, she may not have a best friend to help het through it. you have to balance your friends and your b/f. but how do i get her to see that? (link)
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You just need to talk to her about it. She's your best friend, so you can tell her what you're feeling. Just be like,"We really do need to hang out soon, cause I've hardly seen you lately! And I miss you!" And just let her know that it's great she has a boyfriend and everything, but it's just lately she's been hanging out with him alot and you less, and you miss hanging out with her, and you feel like you're losing her.
I know it sounds lame, but maybe you guys can have like "a best friends hangout day" like, maybe you two can hang out every friday or saturday or something and no boyfriend. No calls, no nothing. And then she can hang with her boyfriend whenever. Or, maybe you and the boyfriend can start to become friends [ unless you already are ], and just all hang out together more. And hopefully as time progresses, you guys won't need a "a best friends hangout day" because you two'll start to hang out again more and everything'll be good.
I hope I helped.
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how do i get pics to show up in comments on myspace? (link)
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then you just take the link from Photobucket or Tinypic or wherever you're getting it from and paste it in where it says "URL". I hope I helped.
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okay i am getting a tattoo and im wanting something cute but catchy and unique somthing you dont see very often nothing gothic or skulls or hardcore or anything like that im a girl not a big gang member person oh and if it helps im getting it on my lower back or if you can find a small on im getting it on my ankle nothing trashy please (link)
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There's always the butterfly. Yes, I know it's not that unique, but you can add whatever colors and such you want to make it your own. I've seen people get a moon and a few stars, and then the way they got it on their lower back is they had the moon in the middle with the stars sort of, sitting all around it. You could always get your name. I know you said you didn't WANT skulls, but there's always this one girl skull I think it's cute. It's all cartoony looking and then it has little cross bones behind it, and a pink bow on the top of it's head.
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b250/MELiixMARiiE/skull.jpg
Um, you could also always get your favorite flower, or one girl kind of got this cute bar code looking thing on her ankle. Or just whatever you're into. Think of all the things you like to do, or a moment that meant alot in your life, and try and draw it out and make it your own.
I hope I helped.
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Is there anyway you can type in a username on photobucket and look at their album?
help = love =] (link)
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If they have their profile set onto private, then you can't visit it or anything cause you're not allowed to view their pictures then [ you'll know if it just shows their username and asks you to enter the password ]. But if they don't, then yeah, you should be able to. Or, if you know their username AND their password, then you can. I hope I helped.
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One of my friends killed herself about 9 months ago, and I'm over it already and everything, but last night I had a terrible terrible dream where we were in a pool together and all of the sudden I ripped her hair out and started hitting her and trying to drown her. It has been haunting me all day, and making me feel guilty, and like she's mad at me for having the dream. It's making me feel so bad. Could this dream mean anything? Is she mad at me for having it? How can I not feel so bad about it. Should I feel bad? (link)
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Whenever people are usually killing in a dream, it shows they're angry or stressed about something and are feeling negative. You are probably still a little angry about you're friend being gone, not AT HER, but just the fact that she's gone now. And even though you're over it, you can still feel a little low and negative about it, so that might be it too. Your subconcious is probably just letting you know that you still really miss her and are mad [ like I said, not at her ] over the fact that she's gone. Also, you could be feeling guilty. Whenever most people's friends die, they feel really bad. They feel it's their fault ; they should've stopped them or realized it was coming.
Whenever we're awake, we can hid our emotions and change our feelings, but whenever we dream, all those true feelings and inner thoughts come out and tell us and show us what we're really feeling and thinking.
But, there's no need to feel bad. It's not like you purposely WANTED that dream to happen, and I don't think she's mad at you. She knows people can't force to have certain dreams or control them at all, and she knows you miss her. Maybe to help lift off some guilt, go to her graze, or just sit at home and "talk" to her. Tell her about the dream and how you're sorry, and you hope she's not mad. And tell her how you miss her and everything, and just let your feelings come out, and hopefully some of the guilt will come off of you.
I hope I helped.
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my brother has this thing that he has to be better than me in everything i do. for example we were in a arcade and they had that basketball game where u shoot the balls and i got a higher score than he did and he didnt show it but i knew that it bothered him that i beat him in basketball.. even hate home when we are playin like horse or something he gets mad when i keep gettin them in and he keeps missing also i have been hip hop dancing for 6 years and my bro always has to try and show off dance moves in front of me even tho he cant dance that good and he's like ha i bet you cant do that and i just play dumb and say no i cant do that.. i mean its soo annoying that he has to compete in everything i can do... what should i do i mean its so dumb for a 19 year old to compete with me and im only 14 its kinda pathetic
so what should i do about it??? (link)
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Sibling rivalry is usually normal with every family. The youngest is the one usually to get all the attention since they're the youngest [ idk if you get all the attention though ] but if you do, AND you're talented, your brother is probably just majorly jealous of you. Cause he's supposed to be you know the "bigger older better brother".
There's not much you can do in a situation like this, though. Because it's nothing that you're doing. He's just trying to prove to himself that he's better then you and everything, so he kind of has to realize that and work it out with himself.
But, if I were you, the most I would do is just try and show him he's talented so maybe he might try to back off a little. The next time he does a dance move, be like "hey, that's really cool." and if he goes,"I bet you can't do that", just be like,"Haha, you're right. I don't think I can. But that's a real cool move though." So it shows him he got good moves and makes him feel good and gives him a little bit of "the spot light". Or maybe the next time you two play basketball, just and mess up a few baskets. I'm not saying lose on purpose or something, but make it so it's a real close game and at the end wether you do win or lose, just be like,"Whew! That was an awseome game, we were so close, haha." So it shows he's real good and all. I hope I helped.
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what does it mean if someone says.. "are you a lightweight or can u hold your own" in alcohol reference? (link)
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Different kinds of people can hold a certain amount of alcohol. "Lightweight" people can't contain that much alcohol without getting drunk. And then there's other people who can drink like, a bunch of cans and NOT get drunk yet so they can "hold their own". I hope I helped.
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