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so i need help please!! i got my hair highlighted in the summer blond some of it was like a pretty caramel and then i have some whitish strands of hair because the lady did it so light. i want to change the color of those strands but my sister said that it will dry out my hair and my hair will fall out if i do that. is that true? what can i do to take the white out of my hair? i hate it, it looks so fake :(
thanxx so much
hey, well dyeing your hair is bad for you in general. it was bad when you first died it and if you die it again its going to be just as bad. i would just get your hair back to your natural color.
i have a gross stomach that has so much fat i hate it. what exercises can i do? how many times a week? and what foods can i eat that will help my body lose weight?
thanxxx
hey, well you could join a gym. i found that if you exercise with a friend you get more done because you set your goal higer for yourself because you dont want to seem weak.
13/f i've been having my period for 10 months now but anyways, when i woke up this morning there was this HUGE spot of blood on my pajama pants and now i have another dot about the size of a quarter on my shorts. how do i make it stop going thru? i switch like 3 or 4 times a day but it still goes thru, and im worried that it will happen at school one day i use thick pads already.
hey, well when i first got my period i used to wear huge very thick pads. i found that they were very uncomfortable. then i tried like slimfit petite sized tampons. i read the directions on how to insert them correctly first. once i got used to wearing a tampon i moved up to regular sized ones and wore a thin pad. once i got responsible in changing my tampon in school as needed [depending on how heavy my flow was], i ditched the pad. on the day when my period isnt very heavy i use regular sized tampons. on the day when it is very heavy i use the super size ones.
Okay so I'm dating this guy and we have been for about 4 months. This New Years Eve we couldnt hangout beacuse we we're both busy, I had some girls over and he went to one of the guys houses... we're all friends. So anyway , we havnt kissed (its not that we're prude or anything.. like we just wanted it to be speacil) so anyway, this guy's house that he went to has an older sister who is a junior and she had all of her friends over on NYE too ! Now my boyfriend lets call him edward, he thinks thinks his friends sister is amazing liek he thinks shes funny and cool and it used to make me jealous but i got over it... so to the point, SHE KISSED HIM . On the cheek but still it makes me mad and i dont know what to do. I explained to edward how upset I was and he just thought i was over-exaterating. Is this silly? I just dont know what to do. I want him to know im mad but not break up with him, i really like him. BTW, we're 14
hey, well it was only a kiss on the cheek and she did it to him. i wouldnt be too worried. you are over-reacting a little bit tho. i would do the same and so wouldnt most girls. its just a thing that we do. if you trust him then just tell him that it upset you and that you wish that he wont go out and get kissed on the cheek, lips, or anywhere again.
13/F
I went to camp in a different state and met a guy I really liked. He really liked me too but we didn't want to start dating because we live far away from each other(opposite ends of our state.)He gave me his number but wegot ina fight so I threw it out. Is there anyway I can find him online so I cant talk to him again. I have his first and last name.Thanks in advance.
hey, well didnt you give him your number? if he wanted to talk to you i think he would have called you by now. but maybe hes just shy - who knows? anyways call 411 and tell the operator his name and city. search his info on myspace too.
I've ordered Friends 1 - 10 0n dvd which hasn't come yet and i've just been reading the reviews on a website.
Someone has said that there's an extra episode on one of the dvd's that was never aired on TV and that it's rated 15.
Is that true? No one else has mentioned it.
Thank you x
hey, well you can never tell or not if its true. if your looking at this item on ebay see how many stars the seller has. if they have a lot then its probably true.
my boyfriend and i want to start having sex. im thinking about the pill. how to i get it? do i have to ask my FAMILY doctor or who? and will they tell my parents??
hey, well the way my mom told me to get it is this. go to the gyno and get an exam just to make sure that everythings okay in there. then just tell them that you want birth control. since me and my mom are open to this kind of stuff i dont know if they would tell your parents. i think you should tell just your mom about it. if you didnt want to tell her that you want to have sex just tell her that your period is overly heavy. they give it to you for that too.
okay, so i woke up this morning like i normally do and i went to take a shower. when i got out of the shower i went to brush my hair. but i noticed this huge (well..for being on an ear huge) bump on my ear. it kind of looks like it could be a tick or something. but its the middle of january so i don't think thats really possible. can someone help me? its kind of grossing me out...should i go to the doctors or what?
hey, yes go see a doctor. also if you cant see one today tell your parents about it.
so i've had this girl i've called my "best friend" since i was 5 (im 15 now, she's 20) we've always been really close but a few years ago she was dating my brother (she's always been in love with him, still is even though she has a live-in boyfriend) and i decided i didnt want to be her friend anymore (that resulted in her cutting herself really deep and she still has a huge scar). we weren't friends for months but then i got lonely and a mutual friend decided to have us start talking to each other again. we haven't been as close as before since then. she always has little messed up things to say to me now. ever since my family started making more money she has this bitchy attitude. she's always sad about something. its pointless to take her anyway. she's trying to sabotage my relationship with my boyfriend who i've been with for over a year now. im starting to cut her off slowly but im just wondering how i can stop being her friend without hurting her too much? i'm her only friend, seriously, and she has a lot of problems with her boyfriend/life in general. i know why she is the way she is but how do i cut it off with her without her killing herself? (because she would)
hey, well for your friends sake i wouldnt say that you dont want to be bestfriends anymore. that would be putting her life in danger. i would just slowly start not being as close to her. like if she invites you to go somewhere 3 days out of a week only go to like 1 thing.
ok so im in 7th grade and 13/f i have average sized boobs but my mom only lets me buy bras that have no padding or anything its just really thin like cloth and when i change 4 p.e. it seems like people look @ me alot and since the bras are so thin people can c thru them and its embarrassing cus they can c thru it ya know but ive askd my mom if ican get bras w/ padding and she wont let me and she goes thru all my clothes so if i do get some w/ padding then she'll find it and get mad i guess so what do i do? and sometimes u can see a point were my boobs r when i were kindof thin shirts
hey, i have a friend like this too but she doesnt mind it. anyways tell your mom that you feel very uncomfortable changing in front of the girls at gym. let her know that also sometimes when your cold and you have on a really thin shirt your nipples show. tell her that its so embarassing and its not like you want padded bras to make your boobs look biggger. basically tell her what your telling us [=.
[how could we get in touch for the picture?]
thanks :o)
hey, do you have an AIM screen name? if you do give it to me and i will i/m you.
ok, i'll be blunt, i hate my legs. i don't know why, and i'm not sure when it started, somewhere around grade 4 and i am now in grade 10. i have a little extra above my knees and i am self consious because hair grows thicker on my legs. so here is my main question: can you shave your uper legs? is it better to wax? if so how much is it going to caust me? last but not least: how do i get over being self consiouse about my legs?
P.S. i'm a 15 year old female and i weigh 130.
hey, well there both options. i would go with the shaving. either way the hair is going to grow back, so you might as well do it for free. waxing is way to expensive.
i heard somewhere that if u brush your hair while its wet it doesnt help prevent split ends. is this true? bcoz im geting my hair cut 2day and after that i need to really take good care of my hair.
thanks a lot
xxxx
hey, well this is constantly a controversey(sp?) with many people. it actually depends on your hair type. ask your hair dresser whats right for you and if you should do that.
theres this boy and hes been going to my school for like 3 weeks and he is like a thug boy and my best friend really likes him but i do to and he is such a flirt with all of us.i just cant get him out of my mind. he hangs out with us all the time but he has a girlfriend. And just the other day he asked me out when he had a fight with his girlfriend...i said no but deep inside i was thinking yes! so if he asks me out again what should i say? also i dont wanna hurt my homies feelings
hey, okay well this situation is common. as for him asking you out when he is in a fight with his girlfriend -- that is beyond low. when things go wrong you dont just find a new girl if you really like someone. as for hurting your friends feelings, i honestly dont think that this is a guy worth ruining your friendship with your friend over. and yes if you do go out with the guy then she will get pissed and you will be in a fight. i could see that if this guy was a nice guy and he liked you and you liked him, that your friend would be holding you back from going out with him, but he seems like a complete jerk to me. i mean come on he was willing to cheat on his girlfriend with you! what makes you think that he wont be willing to cheat on you if you guys ever get into a fight?!
it's complicated.
anyway, first things first. i'm sort of... ugly. my nose is too big, it's uneven and almost witch-like. i have one of the most pointed chins i have ever seen; it almost goes past my nose when i smile. my smile is ugly too, it's not right.
i'm not looking for an answer like surgery or whatever.
it's just that my looks could seriously affect my opportunities in the future. right now, i have my circle of friends, and everyone knows me and my personality. but i leave for university next year; i'm afraid that my looks will be like a hinderance to my making friends, i'm shy until i get really close to the person before i become myself.
i dunno. i'm probably the most hideous woman i've ever seen.
was there a question in there? there was. i hope this doesn't get deleted... i'm seriously worried about it.
hey, well let me just tell you that its not always the looks that matter. guys and girls both look at the personality of the person before they become friends with you. because honestly who wants to have a friendship or a relationship with a stuck up bitch? im sure your not ugly at all. if you want you can give me a picture of you and ill tell you honestly. i wont lie just to make you feel better. inner beauty is more important.
IF YOU HAVE AN AIM SCREEN NAME GIVE IT TO ME AND THEN I WILL I/M YOU. I DONT LIKE TO GIVE OUT MY SCREEN NAME PUBLICLY.
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and we have a great relationship for the most part but lately we've been fighting a lot...the other day he got a message from his ex gf on his myspace and he replied to it. i told him it bothered me and he told me it was okay and that he was only gonna say that. then today i came home and he left his myspace up on my computer so i checked the messages which i know i shouldnt have done but i found more messages back and fourth with her. i dont know if i should be mad or not but i feel like i cant say anything because i kind of violated his privacy but it really does bother me. i know he doesnt like her i just feel uncomfortable with it. HELP PLEASEEE!!
hey, well what was on the messages? if there was any flirting going on then you should have a talk with your guy about if hes really into you or not. also explain to him that it would be better for you in the long run if he just told you if he liked her or not. dont accuse him tho. just say you feel sort of insecure about it. whatever you do dont tell him that you invaded his privacy. if the messages didnt have anything but friendly conversations then you have nothing to be worried about in my opion. he is allowed to talk to other girls friendly -- even his ex.
how am i supposed to get bigger bobs mine jus wont grow and im getting older and nothing is there any natural at home way icould.. mmake my boobs bigger?
hey, well your boobs will grow over time. if not then theres always plastic surgery. i wouldnt go that far tho. people with flatter chests are actually luckier i think. that way perves arent always staring at you and bigger boobs hurt more. for right now pushup bras seem to be your only option.
My boyfriend is always telling me he wants to hear me moan on the phone from fingering(because he wants to get uhh lets just say "happy")*its our little thing*but I always make up excuses not too because I never moan when I try to finger myself. So I need advice on how to finger myself right so I get pleasure and pleasure my b/f moaning. Please help!Greatly Appreciated..
LOTS OF LOVE.
E.C.
hey, well you cant just moan when it doesnt feel good. if you arent getting pleasure when you do it with your fingers try using other objects around the house. as long as the objects that you choose to use are clean, then there should be no problem. also the venus vibrating razor feels really good =].
Okay, this guy Karl in my biology class likes me, but I don't like him the same way. I mean he's a really sweet nice guy and all, but I don't know what to do. My friend told me that he likes me, and later in Bio. class i heard people her across the room talking with him and two other people about it. I pretended I did'nt hear anything because I was so far away. but anways, If he says anything about it to me, what should I do? I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?
Also im female and 16
hey, well its better to just tell him straight up that you dont have any feelings for him. thats the easiest way out. your other two options are leading him on and pretending to like him. which are both horrible choices in my option.
hey well i need some major help...
im think im kinda fat and i wanna lose weight like 20 pounds!as fast as possible but i dont know how! i tried eating less and i walk to school everyday (as a way of excercise) and somtimes i go on bike rides i dont know it seems like im not losing weight does anyone else have some simple or easy way on how to lose weight at all???
sincerely
wanna lose weight!!
hey, well first determine if you actually need to loose weight. if your about 5`0 you should be 100 pounds. everytime you go up in height you add on 5 pounds. so at 5`1 you should be 105, 5`2 = 110, 5`3 = 115, 5`4 = 120, and so on. keep eating heathy and tone yourself up by doing some crunches and leglifts, or excerises for whatever area you need help with.