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bras ok so im in 7th grade and 13/f i have average sized boobs but my mom only lets me buy bras that have no padding or anything its just really thin like cloth and when i change 4 p.e. it seems like people look @ me alot and since the bras are so thin people can c thru them and its embarrassing cus they can c thru it ya know but ive askd my mom if ican get bras w/ padding and she wont let me and she goes thru all my clothes so if i do get some w/ padding then she'll find it and get mad i guess so what do i do? and sometimes u can see a point were my boobs r when i were kindof thin shirts
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hey, i have a friend like this too but she doesnt mind it. anyways tell your mom that you feel very uncomfortable changing in front of the girls at gym. let her know that also sometimes when your cold and you have on a really thin shirt your nipples show. tell her that its so embarassing and its not like you want padded bras to make your boobs look biggger. basically tell her what your telling us [=. ]
I think the only reason your mom is doing this is because she thinks that the only reason you want the bras is so you breats would look bigger. You need to explain the situation to her. Tell her, when im in gym changing everyone looks at me because they can see right through your bra. If she doesnt understand, then i dont know what to tell you. ]
i would talk to your mom about it first. tell her exactly how you feel changing in P.E. and how your bras can be see through because they are so thin. tell her that you don't want the padded bra so your boobs look bigger, its just because it won't be as see through. if she still won't give in then try wearing two of your thin bras at once, if that works. since i don't know what kind of bras you are wearing. or just when you are changing for P.E. face the wall when you have your shirt off that way nobody can see.
good luck =] ]
well maybe tell her why you want to buy bras with padding. ask her how would she feel if she was changing and everyone was looking at her breasts, tell her how thankful you would be if she got you at least one, because then you wouldn't have trouble about changing. im kinda thinking this is about boys or something like she doesn't want you to seem like you have big breast you know? well try that and if you need anymore help just ask me ]
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