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so I am 4,9 147cm last time I see my height but I think I grew taller to 149 cm or 150 cm.I am 16 and my sister 170cm always laught on me because I am short and call me drawf usually.So I ask my mother,father,another sis and my brother to pray for me.To grow taller because they are religous.but when I told my brother .He said: why you want to grow taller your sexy just the way you are.So I am confuseing.I am short and my personality is like little girl .So would a man love short girls (link)
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Im six feet one inch. Don't do metres. I've never had a problem with tall girls, they look elegant and attractive. But shortish guys can feel self-concious when they're in company if their girlfriend is towering over them. In private, maybe not. I like petite girls too. They sort of make you feel protective about them and look small and neat and sexy-cute. But don't let a guy treat you like a baby or an idiot or anything because your not so tall. I don't ever recall a guy saying 'I don't fancy her...she's too short' plus you won't intimidate short guys. So it's win-win for you!
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As my marriage is breaking up around me,I've pleaded and begged,but no-ones listening,I've got 6 small children ,I feel like ending it and leaving them all to enjoy there life with their mother,I'm 47, I had everything,bus,house,holiday home,financially stable,don't owe nothing,yet the most valuable thing I have,I'm losing like water running through my hands,
It just seems the only way out.........
I'm based uk. (link)
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When things look bleak the mind often turns to thoughts of suicide as a sloution. A way out. The last word. A kind of revenge maybe on those around you, and the world in general. A cry for help? I'll only ask one thing. Have you got a plan? A real, practical plan in your mind of how you intend to commit the act? If the answer is yes, no more websites or friends advice. Seek professional help straight away.
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I'm 13 years ols and I have fingered myself and I have used a dildo but I need sex I need to have sex with someone because I am horny all of the time .....
I don't no what to do ! (link)
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I'm not patronising. I hear what you're saying. But I reckon what you actually need is a boyfriend. A real flesh-and-blood one. Then you'll start all the normal, proper relationship stuff, getting to know each other, dating, going to concerts if you like music, movies...you know, stuff like that. I guarantee the random 'I need sex cos I'm horny' stuff will seem far less urgent & less important once you're focussed on a real-life person, not a fantasy image. You might try a few different guys. You don't want a jerk. Eventually you'll find one you like, trust and feel comfortable around. And you'll both want to have sex. And quite right too! Meantime, stick with the fingers & dildo, and enjoy it as a fantasy. It'll relax your tension and there's no chance of a disasterous outcome. It's not unusual or freaky to feel like you do right now. Not by any means. Women in their 20's, 30's and more who aren't in a relationship at the time find themselves feeling 'horny all the time' & deal with it by pleasuring themselves, and enjoy it. So don't get yourself wound-up about it!
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I am a virgin girl n had forplay with my patner n his sperms enter in my vagina.Is there is any chance of getting me pregnent???
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I'm confused & a bit worried for you here. Did he actually 'come' partly or wholly inside your vagina? If so you could definitely be pregnant. Did he come outside and you deliberately (and pretty well instantly) somehow inserted the fluid inside yourself. If so you could be. But I can't really see why you would do that. Or did he just come. You made him do it by hand maybe? Or your mouth?Possibly some splashed on your body? And you're wondering if they could somehow get in? If it's the last case you're not pregnant. Sperm won't 'make it's own way' to your vagina and creep in. And it can't even live long in the air. Have hope, even if he did actually come inside you it isn't ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN that he made you pregnant.
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14 / Female
I know I might be to young to have sex but I still have questions .. I've almost had sex a few times but I was to scared too . Why am I so scared ? How can I get over my fears ?? My insecurities ?? How do I know if he is the right one ?? Im confused because i want to have sex with a friend so if im not good they wont leave me but i want to have sex with my boyfriend of a good amount of time so i know its special .. I dont want to mess up or anything .. Any advice I would apreciate (: Thanks (link)
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Well. Cosy sex with a 'friend with benefits' or real passion with someone you're hot for? But are they the one? And, God..don't let it be a disaster!
OK, you are young. Don't rush into things. But you'll ask yourself these same questions MANY times in your life, not just at 14! They're adult insecurities, so don't feel childish about having them. In many ways, they prove you ARE growing-up, but there's no rush. Best wishes.
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I don't know how to pleasure my girlfriend really fast during sex,, we want to try some new stuff and I want some tips please!!! (link)
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'Pleasure a girl' & 'fast' don't really go together all that well. We're guys, we become fully aroused quickly and if we don't do anything to delay it, climax comes quickly too. Then we return to the un-aroused state. After the initial 'getting wet' bit it takes a girl much longer to become highly aroused. But they can remain in that state MUCH longer. many can remain on this 'level' after a climax too, and carry on. Unlike us! Don't think pleasure her fast, think pleasure her well. You could try plenty of prolonged and intense oral sex before you even think about getting inside her. Ask her where, and what feels good while you're doing it, and listen to the answers. See if she can come herself, or get close before you have sex. During sex, you might try a firm, steady and predictable rhythm, and stay with it. If you hit a good groove, as you might say, don't suddenly change what you're doing. Stories of 'magic' positions are usually nonsense, or we'd all just do it like that all the time wouldn't we? But if you find one you both like and enjoy, of course, carry on! Some positions allow you to stimulate her with your fingers as well, or for her to do it herself. Could be well worth a try? So forget 'quick'. Think 'marathon' not '100 metres'. Take your time. Enjoy. Best bit? It delays your climax, but when you do come it'll be LOADs better...literally!
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We haven't had sex, but after he ate me out I started having symptoms of a yeast infection. Is that possible? (link)
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I'll second Razhie. Over scrubbing with scented shower gels, body sprays and stuff can irritate and spark it off. So can tight shorts in hot weather. Any of this apply? Relax, they're easily fixed but like she said, get it sorted and nothing too intimate till you do. Blokes CAN get them, and it's no fun for us either. If any of the above do apply, you don't have to do plaster yourself with strong scents down there. Pleasantly clean but natural scent works for most guys!
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Hi in female and I'm 16
Me and my bf are gunna make love at the weekend x
But I really don't know what happens in sex or how you know when to bj a boy or when he wants to finger u xx
Cos like you read stuff in books but it doesn't really tell you
So any advice welcumed xx
Thnku x (link)
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Christ, you could fill a book answering this. You mean this weekend? I'll have a go. As far as fingering, well make sure he spends a nice long time feeling you up before you have sex. You want to be nice and wet and ready. He'll probably want to start pretty quick, but don't let him rush you. Get some condoms, soon as poss. Forget anything you might have heard about 'not needing one first time'. You DO! Make sure he uses it, and that he puts the bloody thing on properly as well. If he refuses to use one REFUSE TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. FULL STOP. No 'starting off bareback' crap boys talk either! I'd suggest you lie on your back, lift knees a little and let him kneel over you and come gently as he can inside you. I suggest you look up some other questions & answers about losing your virginity. You'll probably ignore the 'wait till you're 21 and married' answers! But have a look. It could well be fairly painful and you could well bleed a little first time. Relax. You're not abusing or damaging your body in any way I can assure you. You're just losing your cherry like all sexually active women do. OK, he's inside you. He'll likely be VERY excited and start pumping away quite energetically right from the off. I'd be surprised if he isn't on the short-strokes and coming in a couple of minutes. Don't get stressed. He should get better at controlling himself and giving you longer to enjoy it each time. (If he doesn't, get rid of him!). You'll know when he's come, definitely. Make sure he holds that condom at the base as he 'pulls out'. You can guess what might happen if he doesn't, eh? Don't expect a super-slick performance first time. That'll come with practice, and the practising's FUN. Oh, yeah. Give your guy a bj as a special treat when he's took you shopping & paid the bill himself or taken you out to dinner or something! Have fun!
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can i get pragnent even if my boyfriend only insert his dry fingure into my vagina?he didnot ejaculated but about 10 minutes before he touched his precum little bit.but when he inserted it it was completely dry. (link)
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If you do phone the newspapers. You'll make medical history!!!!
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18/f
I've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months and can honestly say that I would like to lose my virginity to him. We've done everything but sex, and we've discussed protection and such for when the time comes. It will be his first time as well. I'm at the point where I think I'm ready but I'd just a little bit of advice on what to expect, making sure you're prepared, etc.
Also, we haven't said the L-word yet, and I'd really like to before we have sex. I do honestly love him but I'm nervous about taking that step and telling him so.
Any advice would be much appreciated! Thanks so much! (link)
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Being prepared emotionally is the key. You'll see your boyfriend in a different light. The act often appears agressive or brutal to girls at first. It's certainly very physical. Arousal and agressive reactions are similar in guys in some ways. You should enjoy him being quite forceful and showing how much he 'wants you' after a while. But it might be a bit of a shock at first! There's always the painful/some blood loss fear. OK, you might have a bit of both, or you might not. Just keep in mind you're not damaging or abusing your body in any way. You're just 'losing your cherry.' Like all sexually active women did at one time. When it comes to it, make sure he spends lots of time on foreplay first and makes a real fuss of you. You want to be nice and wet and ready. You'll no doubt be mentally wound tight, but try to let your body relax. You've discussed protection, so great! You'll probably feel pretty emotional afterwards. You might want him close, or you might be sort of mad at him and want some space. You could mention that to him before you start. Hope you personally have a good experience. If its not so good...you won't be the first or the last...don't let it put you off either having sex, or him!
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Hi everyone so I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 months ( i am 16 and he just turned 19) and we have not had sex and we both want too. But neither of us try. We've been friends for a few years but I am very very self conscience of myself. I don't know why but I am. How do I build up confidence in myself? And one other thing which I know is strange and bizarre but you know how some girls shave everything off? Well... What do girls do with their butt ... Hole... Hair? Do u shave that too? I don't know how to word that with out sounding like a Moron or disgusting .. Sorry! But please help me! (link)
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Re. Answer.The age of consent in the UK is 16.Always has been.Having sex with an older guy certainly isn't rape here. Re. YOU: I figure you're self-conscious BECAUSE you're old friends. And I'll bet it's the same with him. We've got a saying here. 'Never lovers...ever friends.' Now you've suddenly got to be hot and sexy. And he's got to come on all manly. It'd be easier with someone you've just met for sure. But it'll almost certainly feel more special with that old mate you know & trust. Getting over it? Well, you've got to sit down and admit you've got the hots for each other..badly. And go for it! As for the hair thing. Go to a salon and get the full wax. Front and back. If you hate it, it'll grow back anyhow. Bet your guy'll LOVE IT!
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Hi, I'm 16
I have a boyfriend and we r really close and talk about everything. He always brings sex up tho and asks me when we can have sex and stuff like that. I know tht I am of age so if I wanted to I could but I don't know if he's hinting or what but I'd love to I just am too embarrased to tell him tht straight out.
How can I tell him that I'd love to have sex and do other stuff.
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Like the other replies say, you GOTTA talk. If you get over-stimulated making-out together and just blunder into without discussing it first it you could end up in a REAL mess. Reading between the lines...I should try plenty of 'other stuff' first. Handjobs, fingering, maybe some oral? You can't get into any real problems with these. They can all easily 'just happen' without a discussion first. You'll become less shy with him real quick once you start.
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while i was over at my guy friend's house we were talking about fingering. we started kissing but then he stop and was like your turn. what was he talking about and how do i get him to do it next time. Ive never been finger before. (link)
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In my opinion and experience a girl expects to be pleasured first, that is the guy fingers her. And most guys are happy with the arrangement. Afterwards the girl would satisfy him, with a handjob or oral (or full sex, but I assume you haven't started that yet?) There's a good reason. Guys lose their erection and lose interest in sex (only for a while!)just after they come. Next time, when the kissing stops and you're waiting for the next move, just begin to open your legs and give him your best sexy smile. He'll get the message. I mean, saying. 'So..do you wanna finger me now?' sounds gross!
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So I wouldnet no diesse from that (link)
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No chance fella! Not even if you've got a cut on your finger.
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Well I wana know if I coulda got any disses if I fingered my girlfriend a day after she had a period and if I had lil bite of skin pilled of close to my nails and a lil lil cut on my finger and blood from her period and my blood touched would I get HIV or anything but we both healty no disses in are blood (link)
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2nd opinion? I'm certain there isn't one documented case of HIV being passed by fingering. Bacterial & fungal infections can be passed. So it's always nice to be very clean. It's more likely you'll introduce bacteria into HER by being intimate. They're easily treated if you're unlucky. Forget about it.
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What does sex feel like? I'm obviously a virgin, and I'm just wondering how to have the best time and how you feel, bcos I'm just getting ready to do it with my boyfriend and it's his first time too and I want to make it perfect. Any tips?
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A stinging or painful feeling and some bleeding are physical things. I reckon virtually every girl goes through it but they quickly get over it. Being ready emotionally is maybe more important. OK, your boyfriends a nice guy, but the act can seem pretty aggressive or even brutal first time. Guys get a bit like that when they jump up on their girlfriends, it's a hormonal thing. It doesn't mean he's become some sort of animal. He certainly still loves you. Have a chat, ask him to be as gentle as he can, but bear what I just said in mind. You might well burst into tears and yell at him afterwards, so warn him! It'll be much the same whenever you start. All the best. I know wait two or three years ain't the answer you had in mind.
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do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥ (link)
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Hi. Girls of 13 have been fooling around with lads and giving them handjobs behind the bike-sheds for a LONG, LONG time. They weren't sluts, they didn't have their childhood stolen or their lives ruined.They grew up into normal adults like your parents believe it or not! I think it's a 'too much information' and media thing nowadays. Relax sweetheart...you're OK!
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a cupple weeks ago i had sex with a 15 year old, now hes telling everyone that i was good so other people have came up to me and asked to sleep with them im almost 14 my older sister said that i should becuz im atlesst good at it but i dont want to be known as a slut. i mean i kind of want to but i know that sex is only for that one guy but how do i find him in this mess? (link)
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Hey! It's not just guys who get obsessed with sex in their teens. You say yourself you 'kinda want to'. I think you'll meet a lot more guys before you find 'the one'. Relax, move on. Do what you feel is right. Any help?
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