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We went to counseling at school and i asked if what you said was truye and it was thanks to you

I have discovered a hidden talent during this time for art where I had no aptitude or interest before. I devote hours to that but being in a really small area 24/7 with these people doesn't work well. I also find that they're all going to Wal-Mart and mother even had hair done wearing a mask a bit hypocritical when they don't want me going down the street even much less the places I outlined. In my country we all go by what the Prime Minister and his medical people say about the nation. What happens next is that we have priemiers (governors) who set up a 4 stage program if you will for reopening. This takes months from stage 1 to 4. Each primier decides differently fo their territory. Some cities in the province can be in one stage and the others in a higher or lower. You also get demoted based on cases. For months we couldn't gather in a number higher than 5.

Trump used to call the virus a hoax and has spun it into a political thing including with masks. I don't want to be political but any leader doing this and throwing his own health experts under the bus and undermining how the virus is combatted deserves wrath. He's touting a medicine that is dangerous and misleading people. That's the reason there is the biggest amount of deaths and cases in world in US.

Thank you!! My question didn't make much sense the way I wrote it but you understood it just great!

You're missing my point. Saying American kids can only relate to European stories is false when Mulan is a Chinese folk tale, Aladdin is a Middle Eastern folk tale, and The Lion King was based on a Mali folk tale. Disney can Disneyfy any story. Even many European stories have been Disneyfied. Just because any kid can relate to the Scandinavian Frozen or French Beauty and the Beast doesn't mean that there isn't more value to a true African princess folk tale than a European folk tale with an inserted African-American.

Thank you for answering the question which has laid my fear and worries to rest.

thanks for your insights- I'm relieved to hear it's normal

I think you dont understand me but its ok, you tried to help me , thanks :)

So you think maybe one more chance? I just don't know when or if things will ever change

Hi :) thank you, but dont you think i tried it, but i will have confidence bc of my brother , i hate him so much, every day, i say EVERY DAY he abuses me emotionally , and my parents wont say anything to him, i want to kill myself, he drives me crazy and i dont know what to do , i dont want to live with him

Thank you

Alright thank you so much for this!

Happy Christmas to you too :) and thank you very múch for all your help :)

thanks so much, I haven't seen him in a while...hopefully ill see him soon.

You're right. Thank you.

Ok, I'll leave it up :)

Thank you!

Thank you so much :)

Thanks so much :)

Thank you for your advice. I will make sure to talk to my doctor from now on about the possible effects of the medication on certain forms of birth control. I feel very reassured by your words. Thank you again. :)

Haha love the advice! Yasss I love it! Thnxssss

For the most part, in African countries there's enough agriculture for people to not starve. The problem is it's distribution. Even in places where people make less than $2 a year people live on subsistence farming, they don't survive year after year on air. I also don't expect foreign powers to give Africa more power back for free. But you missed my point entirely by saying $1 cash is more than $10 extracted in resources, debts, consequences to global warming, etc. 1 is a smaller number than 10. Japan developed through training their workforce to work on their own mines. African countries can do the same, and extract that $10 as well. But after colonialism, would there have to be some kind of war for countries to be able to take advantage of their mines and etc? You didn't address that. It's also ridiculous to say that Africans had no use for their resources before, when they were used for jewelry, tools, etc. that's like saying the Aztecs had no use for their gold so there was nothing wrong with the Europeans taking it off their hands. Your credibility was completely lost to me when you implied there were numerous gold mines owned by Africans of non-European descent. You wrote a lot in response, but I wish your answer was more in alignment with what I was asking about.

Wow! Thanks so much! That means a lot. But having a friend jealous of you doesn't seem to sound nice, I'll sincerely do what I can to include him with whatever I achieve

Thanks, I appreciate the suggestion.

Thank you <3 :)

Excellent advice!! Im ready for either way this thing goes.... Yes,the decision falls directly on him,and I am absolved of all blame,and sadly,when times get rough for him,he reclines,Im usually the first to go... Thank you dear for your time and patience,I truyly and solely appreciate it!

Thanks so much! You honestly cleared all my doubts away :-) thanks much :-D

Thank you very much for your advice! I will try to make it action. It won't be easy but you gave me courage!! Thanks again!

thank you for answering and not making me feel weird or bad! :)

former and continuing colonizers owe more debt to "third world nations" than the other way around. Thanks for your explanation of Greece's significance, but you show your ignorance otherwise

Thanks :)

I wasn't asking for a gold star or gushing thanks. Just a thanks once in a while is good. You make other good points I take into consideration when I offer advice. They can follow the advice or not. The biggest issue was that I felt I was spending all this time and it wasn't reaching my target person.

Thank you for your help. I'll look into that.

(Rating changed by mod)I'm sure prostitution takes a lot of effort, too. Doesn't mean it's of value to a society. If the child of wealthy celebrities, who went to the best school(s) money could buy cannot be a good vet, what hope is there for the majority of us that learn at less equipped public schools? A good example of this phenomenon are models like Kendall Jenner and Gigi Hadid. Nepotism at its finest. No wonder they're friends. It's just annoying to see such behaviors far more encouraged than people actually making a difference in this world.

Most of what I buy is clothes, accessories or movies which I definitely use but I appreciate your opinion.

Oh ok :-) thanks

Thank you. I was thinking it could be becoming an eating disorder because I constantly see myself as fat, but everyone says I'm getting small. If those are the symptoms of low blood sugar that you just gave, then I guess it could very well be it. I have a huge family history, and I'm one of those unlucky people that end up with everything their parents and grandparents have.😞 No, I don't have a personal trainer, but I went to the doctor about passing out, since I've done it quite a few times, and she told me what it was, but wanted to find the source, and has been running some different tests on me. I know, the less I eat, the more I'm prone to passing out, so I have to carry food with me 24/7. Thanks for the advice though. When I see the doctor later this month I'll ask for a blood test. She's just been scanning me so far. Thank you!

Thanks you made me laugh as well

Wow! Thank you so much!

Thank you. When I said about my mom worrying, it wasn't of the constant sad movies, stories, music, etc. it was the fact that I actually enjoy pain. Like how I would pour alcohol over an open wound because I like the sting. That's one example.

He cannot attend, the wedding is far away and the military will not allow him to go that far, but thanks for the advice anyways, just doesn't really apply

Thank you for answering this. I really feel you saved my life since I was sitting here thinking about killing myself. Thank you for helping me!

Thanks so much!!! I do appreciate this!

Awesome answer. Thank you so much.

Thank you'

Since posting this question, my lucid dreams have stopped. Gotta start listening to my gut X( Thank you for your response (:

I suppose I could allow that answer to suffice, though it's far more likely I'll spend time integrating that into what I believe currently, seeing where it stands compared to what others believe, and how it affects religion, etc. Thanks, though!

Thank you so, very much for your great advice. It was extremely helpful and I'm sorry it took so long to thank you for it. I can't tell you how much your help and kindness means to me. Thank you and God Bless.

I guess you're right. Thankyouu^-^

Thank you.

Thank you, there was no abuse, she lied about everything and I got in the middle of it. Lesson learned. :(

Thank you very much. You've made me feel much better about everything. I'll keep everything you've said in mind and I can't tell you how much I appreciate your advice. Thanks again and God Bless.

Thanks for the motivation!

Really good answers, I did have another specific situation I wanted to elaborate on.

Thanks you so much

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Thank you for your response. It was by no means a bore and is very helpful. You gave me some good questions to ponder on. Thank you for your time!

Thanks for the help! Very helpful, still seems like I'm pregnant since I've had sex before that! Very kind helpful answer!

Thank so much for not just jumping down my throat and calling me names! I have been looking into it more and someone I was talking with in person said something that really made sense to me: "Homophobia is a FEAR of homosexuals. If you aren't AFRAID of them, that you cannot be called that." I am not afraid of them, any more than I am afraid actors who have had one wife after another they cheated on. I don't approve of that lifestyle either, but there is no line of people waiting to call me an "scumball-actor-o-phobe!" :) Thanks!

Thank you

You have a really good point. But what if i try to let go , see what happens if i don't break this.Will i end up in like a nightmare.

Your answer made complete sense to me. Thank you so much for giving me a different perspective.

I very much appreciate you taking your time to answer my question. It's always to know that someone cares. Thank you.

thanks for the lecture it helped a lot because i was really worried

Thank you :)

Thank you

Tank u

Thanks, your advice works great and I appreciate it very much. I feel better already.

Thank you this really helped

I can't say how much this makes sense! Thank you for taking the voodoo out of dream reading! :)

Thanks a bunch!

Wow, thanks! Are you a scientist or what? That is amazing! :)

It really helped me just to hear you say that I was normal. You will never know how much you helped.

Thank you for the eloquent reply.

Thank you for your response to my post! It's so nice to have someone speaking with no emotion connection to us as individuals. You really 'hit the nail on the head' so to speak in that he has major self esteem issues and needs the attention that her saving her gets him. It pains me to contact him and make the first move but I need questions answering I need to know where life goes from here. Would you like an update on how things go and can I seek your support again as you've really helped me more than you can ever know? Thanks Mandy

Wow! Great answer!! Thanks, you're right, I guess its harmless, otherwise, I couldn't enjoy doing anything in the dark.

Rain, It is funny how there at the end you said I would likely dislike you intensely. I find this funny because of the way I began reading your response. I was watching a movie online and casually decided to check and see if any more advice had been left for me. I didn't pause the movie, thinking I'd still listen to it as I skimmed through what people had written. Yours was the only new one, and once I started skimming over it I realized that you are the only person I've come across who actually seems to somewhat understand my conundrum. I immediately paused my movie and began reading again from the top. Your understanding, your insight, everything about your response made me want to say 'yes! yes yes!! I need to talk to this person!!" haha. My question is regarding a problem that can't really be solved with a comment containing someone's opinion of the matter, but I find it extremely refreshing to know that you took the time to put so much thought into the underlying issues. The things you had to say about all 3 men I am or was involved with was so spot on, you categorized them in a way I probably couldn't myself, yet they were so accurate. Anyway, I would be very interested in seeing if you have any more to say on the matter. Please email me at bluebug417@gmail.com -Jessica

Hmmn thank you...i guess you are right i okay as u suggestedi wrote him a note which said "I am sorry i know you are angry with me...i was feeling guilty all this since many days..i hope you will forgive and forget for what all happened ..and i'm sorry for causing u trouble..i hipe u will understand me and my situation.... u see i didnt have that "guts" to give him directly so i just dropped it in his bag..i'm not sure what will he do after this......should just talk to him directly (but u see we both are under observation) beacause i feel guilty....and no his parents are still not involed in this... I just want to clear things between me and him... And his cousin idk he is being AWKWARd with me...staring mr smiling like an idiot and doing exactly the same things which his cousin used to do with me !!!!

thanks so much (: you're such a kind person <3

Thank you for your response, reading your words left me with an open mind about myself and what it is that I desire. Merry Christmas and a Happy New years to you as well. -YARETZI

Thank you so much! This somewhat confirms my thoughts, and I like how you speak :)

That actually helps! Thank you :)

thank you

thanks for helping me to see this in a new way. i just HATE MYSELF so much for doing this and being this way. maybe you are right about the time thing but so far i still feel pretty bad! i guess that you are right because i don't want to die right now so time must help some, right? thank you!

Thank you :) What are good well known names of multi-pack of miniature cigars?

Thank you for SO much hope! Before I came here and asked this it felt IMPOSSIBLE to ever stop cutting, but you have given me so much to think about and shared some of yourself with me. I feel like you saved my life because I was already looking for ways to end my life but now I see hope! THANK YOU!

Thank you! This made me feel better. =)

Thank you so much! He defiantly doesn't and won't want to talk to me now (I already tried and it didn't go well), but atleast I can have in my mind that he might feel the same way I do right now. I guess I'll just wait and see what happens over time. I know what is meant to happen will.

Thanks you have no idea how much this has helped me! I'll print screen your advice for future, take care!

Thank you

Thank you so much! This was great. Definitely will be using

What kind of things/risks are they taking with their bodies? I would like to know more of what damage their doing to themselves because I'm pretty certain they're addicted.

I did look up some info and noticed they effects are not all known since they are relatively new but thank you! I know you can get very high mg i have heard of up to 48mg which would knock me down. 16mg gets me a small buzz but nothing too much. Thank you!

Thank you we've tried certain things but never while having sex has he touched my clitoris with his fingertips so him and I will have to try. Thank you!

Thanks - Very thorough advice, and I'll be sure to try it out! Thanks again

thanks! :)

I hope your right cause my bf bestfriend said he does like me soo yeah...

Thankyou so much for your opinion, I really appreciate it! :)

Oh, okay. Thank you! :)

Thank you for your advice. My marriage is already arranged, I just want to see someone elses breasts before I turn 14 and get married. I only want to know if mine are normal. I am also a girl.

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