sizzlinmandolin answered Monday September 10 2012, 1:00 am: If you have sex, it won't make you less horny. Sex will not cure you of feeling this way. It will do the same thing that the dildo and fingering will do. You will still feel horny all of the time. Your body is filled with hormones right now. The only thing that can cure you of your desire is time. Believe me, sex will not make you any less horny, it will not solve your problem. In fact, sex will complicate your life. Sex comes with so much risk. There are physical and emotional risks. If you can get off by using toys or your hands, stick with that. I promise you, having sex will not make you any less horny. The only thing to do is wait it out. Good luck! [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
lightoftruth answered Wednesday August 22 2012, 8:50 am: These are your hormones. You don't "need" sex. No 13 year old needs sex. You're so young and you shouldn't even bother yourself with things like that. Wait until you're older. There are so many bad things that come with having sex. Obviously things can go wrong even if you are on birth control and using protection. You could end up pregnant or with STDs.
People will definitely find out you had sex. Young boys are going through insane hormones as well and would love to use some girl for sex and tell everyone about it.
It also hits you emotionally. You'll regret it, believe me.
adviceman49 answered Tuesday August 21 2012, 1:38 pm: In any ball game the third strike your out of the batters box. I'm throwing the third strike here and telling you the last thing you need right now is sex.
OMG you are 13 years old, you have just entered your teenage years and puberty. What you are feeling are the effects of the new hormones in your body that eventually your body will adjust too. Then if you were to have engaged in sex you will have major regrets for several reasons. The biggest one is the hit on your reputation.
By my count you should be in the last year of Middle School. Do you want to go through then next 5 years of school with the reputation of being easy? That's the reputation you will get and you will never know if a boy is asking you out because he is interested in you or because he has heard you are easy and he might score with you.
If your hormones are so out of control that all you can do is masturbate then see your gynecologist. There is medication he or she can give you to help your body adjust and make you less horny.
The last thing you need at your age is to engage in sex. There are to many pit falls not the least of which is an unwanted pregnancy. We can't all be wrong in telling you not to have sex at your age so please listen to one of us. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
nonamecat answered Tuesday August 21 2012, 12:54 pm: Stay in school and learn the difference between "no" and "know". Unless you are prepared for the consequences of your actions, which you are definitely not, you don't need to engage in any sexual activity. Try laying off the masturbation. The less you masturbate, the less you will desire sex. [ nonamecat's advice column | Ask nonamecat A Question ]
rainhorse68 answered Tuesday August 21 2012, 12:54 pm: I'm not patronising. I hear what you're saying. But I reckon what you actually need is a boyfriend. A real flesh-and-blood one. Then you'll start all the normal, proper relationship stuff, getting to know each other, dating, going to concerts if you like music, movies...you know, stuff like that. I guarantee the random 'I need sex cos I'm horny' stuff will seem far less urgent & less important once you're focussed on a real-life person, not a fantasy image. You might try a few different guys. You don't want a jerk. Eventually you'll find one you like, trust and feel comfortable around. And you'll both want to have sex. And quite right too! Meantime, stick with the fingers & dildo, and enjoy it as a fantasy. It'll relax your tension and there's no chance of a disasterous outcome. It's not unusual or freaky to feel like you do right now. Not by any means. Women in their 20's, 30's and more who aren't in a relationship at the time find themselves feeling 'horny all the time' & deal with it by pleasuring themselves, and enjoy it. So don't get yourself wound-up about it! [ rainhorse68's advice column | Ask rainhorse68 A Question ]
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