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What does it feel like?
What does sex feel like? I'm obviously a virgin, and I'm just wondering how to have the best time and how you feel, bcos I'm just getting ready to do it with my boyfriend and it's his first time too and I want to make it perfect. Any tips?
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its diff. for diff. people ive been told it hurt a little and some people are born without a cherry thingy and some are if you have ever masturbated then it might be a lil better but you are young im not trying to be the fun killer but if you do have sex use condoms and birth control
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A stinging or painful feeling and some bleeding are physical things. I reckon virtually every girl goes through it but they quickly get over it. Being ready emotionally is maybe more important. OK, your boyfriends a nice guy, but the act can seem pretty aggressive or even brutal first time. Guys get a bit like that when they jump up on their girlfriends, it's a hormonal thing. It doesn't mean he's become some sort of animal. He certainly still loves you. Have a chat, ask him to be as gentle as he can, but bear what I just said in mind. You might well burst into tears and yell at him afterwards, so warn him! It'll be much the same whenever you start. All the best. I know wait two or three years ain't the answer you had in mind.
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Well, first tip is that no matter how many replies you get on this question, its different for everyone. One of my friends bled a lot and said it hurt really bad, my other friend said it didn't hurt her. For me, it hurt a lot but I didn't bleed. Next tip is that your first time is never perfect. No matter what you do, it will never be the fantasy in your head. Maybe after you guys have been active for awhile, it'll get more dreamy, but the first time (especially for two virgins) is usually awkward and weird. My final tip is to wait a little longer to have sex. 16 or 17 is the common age for girls to start having sex. Obviously, this is just a suggestion. If you're going to do it, then I can't stop you. But I speak from personal experience that you WILL wish that you'd waited. I know I do.
I hope I helped :)
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