|
This guy was going to finger me but..
while i was over at my guy friend's house we were talking about fingering. we started kissing but then he stop and was like your turn. what was he talking about and how do i get him to do it next time. Ive never been finger before.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
In my opinion and experience a girl expects to be pleasured first, that is the guy fingers her. And most guys are happy with the arrangement. Afterwards the girl would satisfy him, with a handjob or oral (or full sex, but I assume you haven't started that yet?) There's a good reason. Guys lose their erection and lose interest in sex (only for a while!)just after they come. Next time, when the kissing stops and you're waiting for the next move, just begin to open your legs and give him your best sexy smile. He'll get the message. I mean, saying. 'So..do you wanna finger me now?' sounds gross!
]
Who knows. When he says "your turn" just ask "to do what?". There's no secret explanation that you should have known. It could have been anything. He's probably just as confused as you are. My guess is that he didn't want to ask you or tell you to do anything because he was afraid that you would say no. If he says "your turn" you could interpret that in any way that you want and could do anything that you want without him having to ask for you to do something specific. Guys are just as chicken as we are, don't worry. There's no shame in asking and he may even have liked it if you asked. I'd throw it back at him and ask him what he's talking about. Don't let him try to get you to do something without telling you what he wants you to even do! Remember not to rush into anything that you don't feel comfortable doing or are not ready for. Good luck!
]
well first gt real how old are u
]
This boy wants some action of the sexual nature but that's a mighty lame way of requesting in. You're obviously young and it may take some time for this to click, but you deserve better than a, "eh,let's do it I guess." For your first sexual experience-all women do, heck, guys do too.
It'll feel good- at least if it's done right- but if it's not, stop! Sex isn't something that should be rushed at all at all at all.
]
I'm guessing by him saying that he meant he wanted a handjob which is when you stroke his dick. If you give him a handjob he will most likely start fingering you.
]
More Questions: |