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background: straight girl, 16 years old, sophmre in hs
Febuary of this year my best freind Lisa decided to introduce me to this girl Mia over skype. Lisa and Mia had met a concert, and Lisa thought me and Mia would get along pretty well. Side note, this wasnt for like a "hookup" dating wise, just as freinds.
Anyway, I started talking to Mia more than Lisa ever planned. Mia and I just got along very nicley, and had many simmiliarties. Only thing was, she is a sohpmore in college (age difference) and lives in a different state. Either way, i really enjoyed talking to her. Soon enough, we were telling eachother everything...including when Mia told me she was gay. this did not bother me tho, i am extremely confortable with my sexuality as a straight girl and my new knowledge of her sexuality did not affect me my view on her in any way.
But than, I started getting theese weird thoughts. It happended after a long skype girl with Mia I had had in which I was venting abotu some drama. I had a sorta "day dream" about us together. and I sort of liked it.
Theese thoughts continued on, but i just chose not to tell her. I figured why mess things up, and also I decided it was only natural to have a few day dreams here and there for someone if you care about ..and anyway, what if we never met? There would be no point to tell her I liked her if we would only keep it through the interent/ texting. So i just didnt
But last night, i messed up. and told her that i had a dream about us holding hands...and that that night, I had feelings for her.
Now, we are talking about "us" as an item, and she seems intrestsed. But i dont no. first off, i am confused myself at this. I can say that i really like her, but how do i fully know without meeting her? it also doesnt help that she is a girl, and before this, i would have never found myself interested in the same sex.
So.
what do I do?
Mia wants a relationship. She says i have to be optimistic.
But..
I dont no. I can't tell if i don't want one because I think long ditance things never work( what i keep telling myself)
or because i am in denial of liking the same sex
please help!
ps...if u need any more details..please include them in your answer, and i will reply back.
Thanks !
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It can be super hard to have a long distance relationship. Maybe if you think you might like girls you should try to be with someone who lives closer. That would help you decide if you really are into girls because you get to see her in person. Also believe me, long distance relationships do not work out. She is a lot older and in college so my guess is that she probably already does stuff with people (girls and guys) and you are just someone else she can talk dirty too. Btw just so you know I am 18 so I am not that much older then you and I'm bi so I know how you feel. Also I was also thinking about having a long distance relationship with a girl but it didn't work out and now we never talk. I never had an actual girl friend but I did do stuff with girls.
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I am a 13 year old girl and have gotten my period since I was 11. My period comes from the first through the seventh of each month. I know that it's irregular for the first few years, but in the last few years I have never been a day late. I'm not sexually active and I don't even masturbate! Is this bad? Should I be worried? (link)
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That is normal for a girl your age. Your period can change very often even if you don't have sexual activity.
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I have a boyfriend that i have been with for a year, but he has always been controlling and i went out with him shortly after i got out of a 2 year relationship. Throughout the relationship i am in right now my mind has always went back to the other relationship. It ended so randomly. It has been so hard to deal with the whole time. I'm sure people will just say stay with the bf you have ,but honeslty i don't want to be stuck with him for the rest of my life.I wouldn't get in a relationship right after but i really want to be with the guy from the past. It's hard to explain, sorry this is so confusing. I just need help now. (link)
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Thank you everyone! The bf i was with we ended up breaking up and now i'm talking to the old one but i told him i can't be in a relationship yet i need time to find myself.
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I have a boyfriend i have been with for a year and he has always been controlling. I am at the point were i cant take him telling me what i can and cannot do. I have told people about him and all of them have said get out now he is going to become abusive. I believe them because there have been times where he gets so angry that he is about to punch me but ends up not doing it. I am so sick of all the pointless pain. I am trying to get out now but he keeps saying i will change i cant live without you. I can't get out someone help. Please :( (link)
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Thank you everyone!
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what names can i call my girlfriend?
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boo,sweetheart,baby,cutie, etc...
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How do I get my ex bf talk to me again.
Pls help I will do anything to get him back (link)
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I know you really like your ex but give it time if hes not talking to you he doesn't want to be with you. Maybe one day he will want you again or atleast talk to you. I know its very hard i have been in the same place as you. I wanted my ex back so bad but a new guy came into my life and helped me get over him. :)
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while i was over at my guy friend's house we were talking about fingering. we started kissing but then he stop and was like your turn. what was he talking about and how do i get him to do it next time. Ive never been finger before. (link)
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I'm guessing by him saying that he meant he wanted a handjob which is when you stroke his dick. If you give him a handjob he will most likely start fingering you.
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