If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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The worst thing in the WHOLE WORLD just happened to me! My dad said we are moving to Dallas, about 6 hours from where I live. If I didnt have the friends and BOYFRIEND I do now, then I would be fine but me and my boyfriend are VERY serious! I cant leave him, I would die, literally. I've cried so much already and I keep telling my boyfriend it's not for sure yet. If I do move, should I stay with my boyfriend, break up with him? I could still see him twice a month and on holidays.. is that enough? I am so in love with him and I cant even go 2 days without him... HELP ME PLEASE!! (link)
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Yikes,distance will kill every relationship. I can tell you're young"I cant leave him, I would die, literally." You must be around 13 or 14. You sound kind of infatuated with this guy if you can't even spend two days without him. Jeez Louise.You really don't think there are nice guys in Dallas? It's a big place.Sometimes people move away and it's hard to say goodbye,but hey,like I always say:Life's tough. If you move,you've got no choice but to break it off with him. It's not enough to see him twice a month and on holidays. Soon you'll find another guy and your guy will also move on. Sorry.
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i really like u, i mean i know i dont know u, and u dont know me and we've never really talked, but ive posted some questions and comments and i like u i think u have a great personality.....wat do i do? (link)
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Hmmm well it's hard to like someone without seeing their face/voice/mannerisms etc. I could talk to you on AIM,but since you probably live somewhere besides Louisiana,that's about all. Once you got to know you may not like me,I'm not really that cool. I'm just an average guy. I'm flattered you like me. I don't hear that enough.
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I know the definition of sex and all, and i am not a virgin (19 years old) but what are some ways that i can spice it up and how can i give more pleasure to my boyfreind? What are some tecneques? (link)
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It depends. I don't know what you're doing now. But this is how I'd spice it up. Go out to a place where you first met,or had your first date or something like that. Do what you did before you had sex with him:make out a little first. Let him know you love him and explore each others bodies with your tongues. You could kiss each other's necks and then when you're good and ready,here's the killer,masturbate in front of him. Have a game where you ask him a question and if he gets it right,he gets to move a foot/6 inches/ etc closer to you. Don't ask him In what year did Sesame Street feature Nelson Mandela. Make it a really sexy question. Or if either of you don't shave,shave each other. Gotta be careful though,don't rip in a hole in his pouch of crown jewels. Your bf will be so happy,he'll want to suck me off. Well,I dunno about that happy.
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i jus spilled gatorade all over me lol anyways u hav a really good collum and ur really funny gj!
write to me sumtime
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It's best when the Gatorade goes in your mouth than on your clothes. I appreciate that you like my sometimes rather humorous answers. I say what Dear Abby is thinking and what Ann Landers only dreamt about. Well,not quite,but you're hearing it from well.... just me. That seems to be good enough. Thanks for noticing.
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I really doubt that im pretty. im more of a freind to guys then a girl freind and my last boyfreind told my that i was ugly. here is a description, guys, answer this too!!! age-13
blonde, blue eyes, round cheeks, big eyes, creased chin, 5 feet tall, 107 pounds, rather large hips, a cup breasts, light skin- i dont look like a tooth pick! and also (question for guys and girls) what do you think makes a really pretty girl? (link)
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You sound very pretty. I think you're magnifying your flaws and believing what this total loser told you. He actually told you you were ugly? What a fucking jerk. Besides at 13,you still have a few more years before you'll look your best. I hated the way I looked in junior high,but I like it now that I'm 18. So you're not a toothpick. At 5 feet,107,I'd hardly call you a fat girl. I still can't believe that dude,who hasn't had his balls drop, is passing judgment on you. Don't believe him for a second. He's just pissed you didn't bang him. What makes a pretty girl is her face,body,and personality
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so I went out witha guy who was too protective and , I broke up with him and went out with my bestfriends xboyfriend and when my x found out he gave my new boyfriend huge welps on his legs and back.....!!!!!!!!!! And he went to the docter . And my best friends made at me now and she's going out with my x , what should I do???? and soory so long (link)
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Wow,that's funny. That dude just let a girl beat up on him. Why is your best friend mad that you're going out with her ex-bf? She must still have feelings for him. Your friend and ex sounds like a jerk and your current guy sounds like a wimp. Bruises from a girl? You think Russell Crowe would've let that shit happen? If that girl had come at me throwin punches,I would've fought back.
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Ok im 13 and haven't really had my first *REAL* kiss yet and i told my b/f i made out w/ someone already and i really didnt..heehee...but im really nervous so b4 it does happen can anyone tell me some tips. Because im definitley nervous
=( i keep thinking all these negitave thoughts..so any tips will help..thanx!
*I RATE TOO* (link)
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Don't be nervous. Kissing just comes naturally. It's like did you practice how to eat? I'm sure your bf is more than willing to show you a few things.
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Okay so I just back from camp rioght, well i have aboyfriend and I really do like this boy I met and He likes me , What should I do???
PLZ help (link)
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Didn't notice the part about the bf. Still your problem aint uncommon. Decide which guy you like more and go.
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I just cant seem to get over my ex girlfriend...i know first loves are the hardest to get over, but im still really really really into this girl..and its been a year, i miss everyting about her, but its jut not gonna work out again between us.....what should i do? (link)
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I feel you,dude. You're right,first cut is certainly deepest. If you really wanna ball your eyes out,listen to Away From The Sun by Three Doors Down. But life wouldn't be life without heartbreaks. I thought that no girl would ever compare to my first heartbreak. Then,you meet somebody else later and you start over again and you kinda forget about number one. I'm sorry that you lost her,but hey it's her loss. Life goes on. Always has,always will.
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A couple weeks ago, I met this guy and I thought I started to like him but I had a serious boyfriend and I eventually I realized I didnt like him. Today, my boyfriend came over and was looking at my buddy list and asked whos sn it was and I said "Oh some kid from summer school." Well he copied it and sent it to himself so he can talk to him! I'm so nervous if the guy I met tells my boyfriend that I sorta liked him... Any ideas on what I can do to get my bf not to talk to him?! (link)
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Deny and say the guy has wishful thinking. How can he prove it otherwise?
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this question is kinda complex...but im gonna try and make it as simple as possible...Basicaly i see myself as getting less and less attractive by the day lol, and im getting the idea that the girls are thinking the same thing. See, i used to be pretty damn popular and liked by the ladies, and i still am, but its waring off, and im not getting the attention i used to, which is fine, but im wondering.....is a girl gonna loose interest in me based more on my looks getting better or worse...or are they gonna stick around for my personality????? Thanks, adam (link)
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Adam,join the club man! The thing that we guys have to remember is right now the girls like us if we're a jock. But in the future,they'll like our personalities more. It's like you:Do you want Mildred Knowles,a straight A physics major or Stacy Hancock,dancer and model. Now,you want Stacy,but once she proves how slutty she is,you'll want Mildred. It's the Gilligan's Island concept my dad told me. He first wanted to bang Ginger,then Mary Ann,then Mary Ann still,and he says in about 10 years give me Mrs.Howell. And Ginger and Mary Ann of course. My point is people's tastes change. Don't worry about not getting a girl now.
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I have a little problem.
I Like my bestest guy friend ever. His Name is mike, i don't mind if you kno his name, but anyway. I asked him out and now he is like avoiding me or sumthing. It is weird.... When i asked him out he said.." Umm, let me think that thru a little." and i dunno why he can't just be like no or yes. and i think by him saying that, it is a definet NO! and since he won't talk to me and is like never online and isn't home when i call him, i dunno what to think..
what should i do?
- Signed
In guy trouble (link)
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Ouch. The thing you have to remember here is:What would you mean if you had said that? If he liked you,he would've immediately answered yes i like you and i wanna go out with you. Your instincts are correct:he doesn't like you and he just doesn't know how to say it. He's probably a little weirded out by the fact that he knows it now. But don't worry,this happened to me in February and now i hate the bitch. You'll get over it.
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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE? (link)
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You bet.
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hey.. i just need some advice on sex.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now but im not sure when we'll be ready to u know.. do it.. can u please help and just tell me when u think the right time would be? by the way, your VERY pretty i love you smile.. im sure you get that a lot hahaha.. yeah well i'll let you go plz respond!!
xoxo-
shelly (link)
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Rule of thumb: if you're not sure you're ready,you're not ready.
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hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ? (link)
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There's no good way to tell someone they're the most annoying thing that you know. So you gotta use a bad way. If she calls you,don't answer,tell her you have other plans,and hang out with her only if you're desperate. But be careful ya know. I mean if she's a nice person,you better have a better reason than just she can be annoying sometimes and she's a prep. In that category,that's really shitty of you to just dump her because you're in a new clique. Usually it's the preps that don't wanna hang out with the punks anymore.
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there was this boy ive liked for 2 years his name is jordan he asked me out but i would always say no tha skool year that jus ended was really rough for us we kept getting in fights he thought i hated him it was horrible but we only got mad at each other cuz we didnt want to loose each other(if that makes sence)i apologized for eberything n he did too the last day of skool beckah whos also jordans bestfrend said jordan was planning on kissing me...but it never happened cuz he didnt want to do it where there was alot of ppl around cuz he knew it would be my first *real*kisssummer has cum and i havent talked to jordan ive heard hes talked about me alot and really wants to see me but he hasnt called but yet i havent called him ether his parents are strict and dont allow him to go out with girls (hes in 11th grade)so i guess i cant chyll with him i really wanted that first kiss alot of guys think im pretty and fun to hang out with and stuff but becuz i came frum a private skool wich only had 5 guys in my class we werent attracted to each other im 14 and feel likea freak cuzive never had my first kiss last year i had my first jus kiss wen i went to a festival im going to the same festival in 2 weeks should i find a guy to get my first real kiss with or wat??o and should i call jordan and talk with him??im kinda afraid to idk why
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You gave me a lot of unimportant stuff here,basically your problem is does this guy like you or what. The answer is yes,because if he talks about seeing you than yeah he does. If his parents are really fags,and they sound like they are,then there's not much you can do about that. If the kid's 16,he should be able to go out with a girl. If he's not gunna call you,take intiative and do it yourself if you're interested. Ask him whats up and get a direct answer. To answer another question,no you're not a freak because you've kissed a guy once in a year. Don't worry about that bullshit. Call the guy.
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I really like my boyfriend but hardly any of my friends do and they slag him off in front of me and his best mate (angus) says that my boyfriend's changed since he started going out with me and now loads of people who *did* like him, dont like him. I don't want to lose my boyfriend over this but i dont want angus to lose him best mate either and i'm sick of my friends slagging my boyfriend off. what do i do? (link)
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You must be from England. But that's not really the point,the point is why are his friends crapping on him now? ALL his friends can't be doing this without a reason. Talk to one,see whats up,and if they all say the same thing,this guy is trouble. But be careful,your boyfriend's friend might be making his move in on you,too. Gotta watch that,his best mate might wanna mate with you babe.
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when ur making out with a guy do you stick ur toung in his mouth or shuold he do it to you first? (link)
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It doesn't matter,there's no proper etiquette for making out with somebody. Just make sure you brush your teeth and don't both have braces.
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what do i do here...
i wish that my parents would get a devorce at
points. there a very unlikely couple i guess u could say and i really dont like my dad that much...he walks around with no shirt on, beer belly, and the house that we moved into i have to walk through there room to get to my room and its really annoying when i have friends over. my parents get into fights a lot and i go into my room and cry and my mom thinks im stupid for doing that, like she thinks i exagerate. in the summer my mom just works on the weekends and leaves me home with my brother and dad which i hate. my dad will buy me practically anything i want-cellphone, trampoline but i think he just gets me all this stuff bc he thinks i love him more or something. and i feel worse for my brother bc he has to put up with even mor eof his crap. i so scared im going to grow up like my dad or something. please help...tell me, am i being a brat? (link)
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Well,in layman's terms,yes. It's his place and he may walk around in whatever the hell he wants. Every couple gets into fights and you don't indicate that he's abusing your mom,so he must not be. He buys you things probably because he knows what you think of him and this is his way of trying to tell you that he cares about you. Will you grow up to be like your parents? Yes. It's inevitable because you are a part of them. I'm not saying you'll have the beer gut,but yeah you'll take on some of his and your mother's habits. Talk it out with pops and ask him why he's treating your brother like shit.
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do u have a gf? do u have a pic? whats ur aim sn? r u lookin for n e 1? wat kinda girls interest u? (link)
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No I don't have a gf. Yes i have a pic and my sn on aim is sevendustfan04 because they're the best fuckin band out there. It'd be nice if this girl I liked thought of me as more than her best friend,but she doesn't and probably won't. Life's tough but I'll get over it. When I think of girls I like, obviously looks are important but you only have to look average. You don't have to be a supermodel. I like a girl who smiles a lot and is funny. Likes to do fun stuff and can be honest. Will watch football every once in a while if I sit through A Walk To Remember with her. Am I looking for anyone? Well not really.
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