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MoViNg.. aHhHh!!
The worst thing in the WHOLE WORLD just happened to me! My dad said we are moving to Dallas, about 6 hours from where I live. If I didnt have the friends and BOYFRIEND I do now, then I would be fine but me and my boyfriend are VERY serious! I cant leave him, I would die, literally. I've cried so much already and I keep telling my boyfriend it's not for sure yet. If I do move, should I stay with my boyfriend, break up with him? I could still see him twice a month and on holidays.. is that enough? I am so in love with him and I cant even go 2 days without him... HELP ME PLEASE!!
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okay if you really are in love w/ him then distance should not matter.. you can IM him ... phone ... email ... letters .. and you will occasionally see him.. if it ends up not working out its..okay i guess but in my opinion you should give it a try...
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Dear aHhHh!!!,
I don't think you should move in with him but give long distance relationship a chance. The only hard thing is that you don't know if they're cheating on you or not. But if he loves you like you love him there shouldn't be a problem! Try and hang out as much as you can with each other! Thanx much!
~Chelsea~
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If you are so inlove with him just try and work it out, if its not working in the end maybe take a break?
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Yes you should stay with him i know you can make it i have faith in you. Just write notes back and forth to him im sure you guys can do that cant you. Or call him once and a while the relationship will work as long as both of you try hard enough on it. And if that is a long term final stay you never know peoples minds may change. You may find a diffrent guy where you live people change as they get older. But i think you should give it a try if it doesnt work out then you guys can still be friend. And once your old enough you can live with him if you guys are still dating and are still "serious". Well good luck on which ever decision you may choose and remember if you want to talk im here for you. Good luck i hope iv helped a little and dont be afraid to write back.
Signed
Short N Punky
Ps. Your still young dont get hooked down to one guy yet live your life to the fullest. And dont get so worked up yet if its not official. Spend your life one day at a time and decide carefully.
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Okai if he TRULY likes n loves you as much as you love n like him you both should stay together because he could be the one for you n breaking up would just not be helpful right now especially when u have to leave ur friends n him so stay with him n visit him or have him visit you whenever you guys can and keep in touch with ur friends n plus thing is ull have ur old friends n ur new friends along with the guy you realli like alot! Dont worri about moving theirs no time in life to be dissappointed :)!
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Aww I'm sorry hun! Since you two are in love, I think you should stay with him because you two are in love and you guys are serious. See how it goes and I mean its not like you can't see him either. See how it works out. Just tell him "Its not for sure if I'm moving yet, but if I do, I think we should still try to work it out because I will see you twice a month and on holidays, I know its not a lot, but its worth giving it a try, and I just want to know what you think about that? Do you think we can handle a long distance relationship?" Just say something like that and just how you feel about it all. Hope this helps, if you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox. Good luck!!
xoxo Kourtney
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Yikes,distance will kill every relationship. I can tell you're young"I cant leave him, I would die, literally." You must be around 13 or 14. You sound kind of infatuated with this guy if you can't even spend two days without him. Jeez Louise.You really don't think there are nice guys in Dallas? It's a big place.Sometimes people move away and it's hard to say goodbye,but hey,like I always say:Life's tough. If you move,you've got no choice but to break it off with him. It's not enough to see him twice a month and on holidays. Soon you'll find another guy and your guy will also move on. Sorry.
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