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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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I recently found white stuff in my vagina...gooey stuff..any ideas?????
The white stuff is called discharge and all girls get this (so don't think you're the only one). It's just to show that your period is around the corner. ♥
douche what does this mean?
i heard it before but don't know what it means.
thnx!♥
A 'Douche Bag' is something girls use to clean out their vaginas. ♥
well all my friends think i hooked up with a kid. i really didnt. when i finally do [ which will probally be soon ] i dont want him to think im a bad kisser or that i never kissed anyone before. what do i do . how do i act? i dont want to look stupid i want to be a good kisser .. any advise?
I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing ♥
When a guy says "will you go out with me?"
What are you supposed to say? Just yes?
Were confused!
Thanks in advance!
Well, if you want to go out with him a simple 'yes' would be good. If you don't want to go out with him, just say 'no'. ♥
Hey everyone, I'm burning CD's right now, and I can't seem to think of any more songs. The type of songs I need are recent ones that are playing on the radio, or even older ones as long as you can dance to them. I'm having a party tonight and need to have lots of music, so any suggestions would help. Thankss so much!
Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Rex Goudie - Run.
Dallas Goudie - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stones - Rain Fall Down.
Hedley - Trip.
Some dance music:
Hermes House Band - Country Roads.
DJ Sammy - Heaven.
Dan Balan & Lucas Prata - Ma Ya Hi.
Axel F - Crazy Frog.
Hermes House Band & DJ Itzi - Live Is Life.
Darude - Sand Storm.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
DJ Aligator - Blow My Whistle Bitch.
Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Chris Brown - Run It.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.
Mobb Deep, 50 Cent & Nate Dogg - Have A Party.
Daddy Yankee - Rompe.
I hope this helps you out. ♥
hey, i'm looking for some cute backgrounds, kind of like you have. Do you think you could give me url background images for me to use for my site? Thanks.
Okay, you can either do 1 of 2 things.
1) You can get your backgrounds from Xanga layout sites, or MySpace layout sides. Here are some layout sites that I've got my cute backgrounds from:
- - http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacelayouts.php
- - http://www.myspace.com/hey_lyts
- - http://www.myspace.com/omfglayouts
- - http://www.myspace.com/viiislayouts
- - http://www.myspace.com/static__layouts
- - http://www.createblog.com/skins/index.php?type_id=3
All you do is right click on the background and save it. :)
2) You can go here and check out some cute backgrounds, too: http://www.photobucket.com/search/backgrounds ♥
Hey well on myspace how do you get more then 8 people on your list thingey? What kind of code do you put and how do you do it ?
Go to this site: http://www.r4wr.com/friends ♥
ok. so.. here it goes.
im a girl. and im 14.
one of my best friends mom is having another baby and she already has a little 3 year old sister who she absolutly hates. shes really depressed. she hasnt told any of her friends that her mom is 4 months pregnant but i know because i was spending the night at her grandmas with her and her grandma said something about it. then at home about 2 or 3 weeks later i saw something she wrote on one of these advice coloms (not this one) and i knew it was her..there was absolutly no doubt in my mind. so what do i do? i know she cuts. she already hates her mom. i dont know.. i dont know what to do.
Seriously, you have to tell her to stop being so depressed about this. It was her mom's choice to have another child and she should be happy for her mother. The baby isn't even here yet, so she shouldn't be judging it. She should be there for her mother and supporting her every step of the way. Maybe it'll turn out, that she'll love the baby, she just has to give it a chance.
As for her 3 year old sister, that she hates, mostly everyone hates their younger brother or sister at one point and time in life. She just has to learn to deal with her little sister and put up with her. Yes, of course they are going to be annoying, she's only 3. As she gets older she's going to mature, and her little sister won't be the 'annoying little sister' anymore. She actually will be able to have a relationship with her.
Just tell your friend to give it a little bit of time and look at it in a positive way. She shouldn't be cutting herself because of something so small like this. There's people who have it way harder then her. Explain to her that you'll always be there for her, she just shouldn't be doing this to herself. ♥
hi, im 14 and theres this guy whos 18 who i really like. i kinda think he likes me too but i dont know. cause i mean..he made out with me and said a bunch of sweet stuff, but he said he would call me the next day and its like 3 days later. what should i do?
He didn't call you yet? And it's already been 3 days? You never know, though. He could have been busy with stuff that's why he hasn't gotten back to you. If you have his number, maybe you should try to get a hold of him. It could have slipped his mind. ♥
is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old?
That's nothing, sweetie. Age doesn't matter, (well it shouldn't anyways). All that matters is you like the guy you are with and are comfortable with him. He treats you right and doesn't force you to do anything you don't want to do. This guy sounds like a total sweetheart. He's not too old, not at all. ♥
How do you get text to scroll across the screen? Like say I typed:
I ♥ iCEP0PS!
I want that to scroll across the screen.
Thanks if you can help!
< marquee > 'WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY, HERE' < / marquee > Then just make sure you take the spaces out between the < >'s and you're ready to go. ♥
15/f
What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks
It means he wants to talk to you/you talk to him. ♥
im a teen. what are some popular websites (like myspace, tagged etc) that are like those? where you can meet new people and post pictures and stuff. thanks!!
http://www.myspace.com
http://www.spinthebottle.com
http://www.ratemybody.com
http://www.hotornot.com
http://www.buddypic.com
http://www.nexopia.com
Those are just a few that you could check out. ♥
if i put on pressed powder.. does it cause freckles ?
No, it doesn't cause freckles. ♥
Please do not delete Im honestly 100% want to know this.
Do you believe in Aliens?
Life on other planets, Aliens.
Thank you.
I don't believe in Aliens, however, I do believe in life on other planets. ♥
on my space how do you get the dif. style fonts like impacts or times roman n stuff?
< font= 'NAME OF THE FONT' > 'WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY, HERE' < /font > Then just make sure you take out the spaces inbetween the < >'s and you're good to go. ♥
okay umm you know how on my space you can put like
You can go to this site for some colors; http://www.iconbazaar.com/color_tables/lepihce.html Just put the number in the place where you would usually put the name of the color. ♥
My cousin is engaged to my ex boyfriend.
They're getting married in May.
I was the first person she told her engagement to.
She wants me to be her bridesmaid.
I don't know what am I suppose to feel.
I think you should be happy for her, hun. Especially since you were the first person she told and she wants you to be a bridesmaid. That's super! You should be happy that she found that special someone, even though he is your ex. Obviously you and your ex weren't meant to be, or you guys would still be together. You'll find the right one, you just have to give it some time. There's someone out there for everyone and he just wasn't it. Keep searching and never give up, because you will find that special someone. As for now, just be happy for your friend, since it is going to be her special day. ♥
when someone shaves 'down their' do you shave all of down their? what age should someone start?
I think you should start shaving 'down there' when you want to start. I suggest once you hit your teens. It's just so much cleaner. You don't have to shave it ALL off, you can if you want, most people do. You could shave it all off, or just trim it up, if you wish. Which ever you are most comfortable with. ♥
Alright when you go to a show is dorky/weird to wear a shirt of the band you are going to go see? I would think wearing another band's shirt would be rude yet I see other people do it all the time. Is it ok to do either?
Thanks
I think doing both would be okay. But, I do like the idea of having the band's shirt on that you're going to, other then wearing a different band's shirt. I agree, it is kind of rude. But I don't think the band would even notice. ♥