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my friend is really depressed
ok. so.. here it goes.
im a girl. and im 14.
one of my best friends mom is having another baby and she already has a little 3 year old sister who she absolutly hates. shes really depressed. she hasnt told any of her friends that her mom is 4 months pregnant but i know because i was spending the night at her grandmas with her and her grandma said something about it. then at home about 2 or 3 weeks later i saw something she wrote on one of these advice coloms (not this one) and i knew it was her..there was absolutly no doubt in my mind. so what do i do? i know she cuts. she already hates her mom. i dont know.. i dont know what to do.
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Seriously, you have to tell her to stop being so depressed about this. It was her mom's choice to have another child and she should be happy for her mother. The baby isn't even here yet, so she shouldn't be judging it. She should be there for her mother and supporting her every step of the way. Maybe it'll turn out, that she'll love the baby, she just has to give it a chance.
As for her 3 year old sister, that she hates, mostly everyone hates their younger brother or sister at one point and time in life. She just has to learn to deal with her little sister and put up with her. Yes, of course they are going to be annoying, she's only 3. As she gets older she's going to mature, and her little sister won't be the 'annoying little sister' anymore. She actually will be able to have a relationship with her.
Just tell your friend to give it a little bit of time and look at it in a positive way. She shouldn't be cutting herself because of something so small like this. There's people who have it way harder then her. Explain to her that you'll always be there for her, she just shouldn't be doing this to herself. ♥
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