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being single
ok im 15/f and i live in florida and i just wanted to know: is it weird that after a few relationships i don't want to really date anymore? and i have this one friend that i really like and i might want to date him but i like being single and i don't know if i should date him or not, and i don't know if he still likes me or not considering he's asked me out twice already. and my mom doesn't really like the guy but she didn't really meet him, and my friends say i should but then i don't know because he can lie occasionally
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Hey there,no not weird at all!
okay bottom line,if you want to be single stay single.
im the same age as you and honestly after a while i found relationships to just be too stressful and too much effort when all i really wanted to do was just be free to have fun and go out with my friends and not be tied down be flirty with guys yet nothing serious like the comitment of a relationship sometimes it can be too much.
if single is what you want to be then stay that way for a while,and see how you feel you might feel after a couple of weeks that you want a boyfriend again,but dont let it be the centre of your life,worrying about needing a boyfriend. live in the now.
the friend that you really like concentrate on just being his friend for now and see if your feelings grow. don't worry about dating him Just yet get to know him more and then if you feel like you want to date again see him as a potential boyfriend and then worry about your mom and your friends theories on him lying.
hope I made sense and helped in any way
much <3
Jess
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Okay, so you like being single for a little while thats great! Enjoy it, and stay in that period of your life for a while I say a few weeks or longer depending on what ever you feel like! Don't listen to your friends they arn't you clearly!
Here is what I think you should do:
1st- stay single for a while
2nd-while single JUST stay friends with your guy friend, and make sure you tell him your just want to be friends for now anyways so he isn't confused
3rd-then invite him over along with your other friends for a casual movie night or something where your mom can get get to know you guy friend as your friend first.
***4th*** Once your mom is comfortable around him and you decided he is a nice guy that you want to date. DATE hime :D.
By giving time your will get your thoughts clear and your mom will learn to love him. OR worst case scenerio if he is a bad guy then you will learn that with time.
win win either way though. GOOD LUCK
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If you want to be single, stay single.
It sounds like you don't want a relationship, and that is TOTALLY fine and completely normal. You have your whole life ahead of you for guys, and trust me, you'll date a lot more before you find your Prince Charming.
I think you should stay single and enjoy time with friends and what not. You're young; live it up :)
-Laura (17-f)
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