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HELLO EVERYONE! I need some help, I want to enter my school pagent but I don't know what I want to do for my talent. I don't play any instruments, but I really want to win. I want to be original though, and I know of this one girl that's going to sing, and she can sing, I can too, but i don't want to sing. PLEASE HELP ME Find something to do.
hey, you say your good at singing. if you want to ever pursue a carrer in the singing field then you definately need to put yourself out there. you shouldnt be afraid to show what you can do. thats just a waste of talent. if your not going to go out there and give it your all then just forget it. dont even bother being in the pagent becaues you will just end up making a fool of yourself. also talent isnt the only important part of a pagent.
I don't know if my boyfriend is controlling. He wants to know where I am and who I'm with at all times. He says he loves me all the time and he wants to get married when I turn 18. I'm just about to turn 17. He wants all my time and he calls me a million times a day and expects me to spend all my free time with him. I don't think hes controlling, but I'm not sure. I love him though. How can I tell?? Is there any certain way?? Please help me figure this out.
hey, yes he is controlling. you need time for your family and friends too. not just him. if your bothered but this then you need to have a talk with him. tell him that you love him a lot, but you need time for other people too.
Does having a cold sore mean that you have an std?? or is a cold sore just a cold sore?
hey, well a cold sore is actually the beginning step towards having herpes. if treated then you should be fine.
Hey well i have naturally straight and thick hair and i love scrunching it. Problem is that my hair would only stay scrunched for like an hour or two and i really want it to stay scrunched for a whole day at school. I've tried sleeping with two buns in my hair and i've also tried the whole french braid thing. Don't even bother the whole tip your head over and just scrunch thing cause my hair won't work that way. Oh, and i definetly don't want a perm so any tips? Thanks in advance.
hey, well i have naturally curly hair. but ill tell you what i do anyways. i use biolage gel. aussie SPRUNCHING spray, not scrunching. use a diffuser to make the scrunch last a long time. also try scrunching with a paper towel to get rid of the frizz if thats a problem also.
My ex is almost $4000 behind in child support. The child support enforcement agency sent him a letter saying it will take his liscence in 10 days, will they do that and how long will it take? Also what will the next step be if he still doesnt pay? He is living off his welfare girlfriend in her house, while I have a son who is chronichally ill (7) and a daughter who is 10 who he tried to choke to death, this all started with him being convicted of domestic violence on her, so yes I want him punished, any info would be most helpful, i am 29yrs. old by the way,Thanks, the struggling mommy.
hey, well my parents got a divorce a long time ago. my dad also tried to choke me to death. i called the police. he went to jail but then got released because there was no proof that he did it and he swore under oath that he didnt do it. so theres really nothing that you can do for that. they will seriously take his liscense away. but i dont see the good in doing that. if he cant drive he cant work. so that just means less money for you. i would talk to him if he is approachable and try to work out some type of a deal with him, without getting the courts involved. if he doesnt want to work with you, than thats when you call the courts into the situation.
16/female. I'm a junior in high school and my student teacher is extremely hot! He's 21 and he is totally in to me. We have sex at school, in the parking lot in his car. it's not regular sex but kinky crazy sex with toys and everything. Well he always tells me he loves me and if I ever left him he would freak out and come to my house and take me away. But I love this other guy at my school and I had sex with him...if the teacher finds out I'm screwed! He is always following me at school and making sure I don't flirt with guys. He even took me to his office once because I was "flirting" with guys and he kissed me really hard and said that he wouldn't ever share me. I need to get out of this relationship but I'm really scared for my life sometimes. The sex is getting way too crazy for me, he likes sticking things inside of me like sticks and everything. He's hot too, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Help?
hey, well you brought this issue upon yourself. you should have never started havign sexual relations with a teacher. if you have no feelings for him and wish he would just go away then you need to tell someone. a trusted adult. you could be putting your life in danger by telling him personally.
During lunch, I sit with one of my best friends. She's nice, but when she eats, I can see every since crumb of food in her mouth in mushed up form, and she talks while she is at it too. I can't help but want to stop being friends with her for this. One time food even spit out of her mouth onto me! She doesn't even realize how vulgar I feel watching this! It's hard to ignore when she sits right infront of me. What is a nice way to approach her about this?
hey, im sorry but questions like these should not even be allowed on the site. youve already answered your question. say it to her in a nice way. you know how sensitive she is and what she gets mad at. you should know what to say to her better then any of us do.
my old crush would always talk to me, walk to class with me, stare at me,but into conversations that i had w/ other friends, tease me, do things to get me mad because he liked when i was mad, and would just walk with me. then one day he stoped all the things he used to do and before this i thought he liked me and other people did too. so after that i tried to get him talking to me again and things back to normal. but nothing happens so today i just lost my temper about it because i was upset that he didnt talk to me anymore and stuff and i was kicking his locker and telling myself that i hated him so much and that i dont wanna be near him, talk to him ect. but i some what do but then why do i get so upset about it. it just gets me so mad and angry because i just dont understand it. i never did anything to him. and i still dont know what his problem is.but so i dont know what to do. i just have so much anger in me about it. i ignore him, walk away from him, avoid him ect. also today after spanish class i dont really like talking to him because he doesnt talk to me anymore but i thought yeah it wont hurt if you say something to him andi said it and he really didnt do anything so i said THATS IT!! IM DONE IM SICK OF TRYING. ITS A WASTE OF MY TIME!! and ever since then ive been really upset. so help me understand whats wrong. honestly im kinda confused.
hey, well this is what i think happened. he liked you for so long and you didnt do anything back. you might have flirted a little but nothing past that. when he finally got over you [which is now since he isnt bothering with you anymore] you decided that you like him. basically what im trying to say is you want what you cant have. you could have had this boy in a heartbeat before and now that he doesnt want you anymore you want him.
Okay I like this guy and he is so sweet! I want him to know but I also don't want to. Do you think it would be best if he found out? He is a real nice guy though. I have a feeling if I don't go for him then someone else will take him. He might have a feeling that I like him since I stare alot and he looks back. And when he walks by my friend starts talking like oh don't you want to go that way now? Like in mushy way. So what do you think I should do? Any advice would be awesome!
hey, i think that you should definately tell him how you feel. keeping it all botteled up inside is totally not a good idea. also who knows -- maybe he has some kind of feelings for you too.
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me and my sister went to the store today to shop for house supplies. i saw this very attractive girl and she saw me. everytime we passed by each other we would smile. my sister saw this and went to ask for her phone number and she gave it up willingly. i dont know how to introduce myself and strike up a very good conversation. the first impression lasts forever. i dont want to make myself look like a dork. i really like this girl. please help.
hey, well i dont really understand how you could like a girl after seeing her once and not even talking to him. i think that your just attracted to her. remember looks arent everything. she could be a total bitch, you dont even know her personality yet. anyways before you pick up the phone and dial her didgets find out if she has a screen name. talking to someone online at first is better, that way there will be no awkard silences and if there is you can just say be right back. if all else fails and she has no screen name think about what your going to say before you call her up. plan it out nicely but dont sound like a robot. if you get stuck you can say hold on, but dont make a habit out of it. also if you really cant think of anything tell her that you will call her tommorw or just simply talk to her later.
so this is "stupid girl" again..
well like i really dont think he had any hooks up on his vacation because i've talked to all his friends..who would do anything to break us up cause one of them has a huge crush on me..and he spent all his time with these mormon missionaries which are good kids... but like the thing is, he isnt talking to his friends anymore either..
he's just being really weird?
ahhh im so frustrated.
hey, well okay then hookups are out of the question then. if hes acting weird around his friends and you as well then somethings up with him. ask his friends if they know why he is acting all weird all of the sudden. gather then together and have them approach him with you. all togehter as a group as him whats up with how he is acting lately. dont be rude about it becaue then he will definaltey not open up to you guys. if you sense that he is feeling uncomfortable in telling you in front of his friends pull him aside and ask him privately. let him know that you are his girlfriend and that he is suppose to be 100% honest wiht you at all times and tell you everything. good luck and if you need anyting thing else please let me know.
I was just wondering why on instant messaging and on this site (actually alot on the internet) people type like this:
"Heyy whatsss upp??" or "I needd advicee aboutt myy boyfrienddddd."
They usually dont add like alot of letters except on IM though. I can understand why people shorten words, so they can type less, but why would people make themselves seem dumb by adding the last letter of a word 2-10 times? Is it like a trend, or am I missing some kind of secret? Thanks.
hey, well i dont type like that on here. i only type like that on i/m because its just easier for me. its not because im trying to be like half of the world.
ok so i have this friend and she is really fun to hang out with but she lies way to much and i cant talk to her about it cause i know that will ruin our friendship see she lies about things no one should lie about like haveing a tomber i dont really know how to spell that but anyways she also lies about her being pregnantshe has said she was pregnant but it was a miscarriage then she said she was pregnant again but she was going to have an abortion and she is only 15 she has done alot of bad things in her life that i'm not gonna mention because i'm not gonna rat her out but she lies about everything and i cant take it anymore i dont know what to do so please help me???? i'm really confused
hey, okay well tell her that you only want to have a friendship with her if shes going to be 100% true to you at all times. tell her that you guys are friends and thta she doesnt need to lie to you to look "cool" or "impress" you. let her know that she can just be herself around you.
Hi,
so i'm 17 and me n my boyfriend have been dating for a month and we've already gone well all the way..quick,i know but i don't regret it. but a week ago he went away on vacation and before he left he was completely into me and then he got back and we've hungout twice since and he told me tonight that he'd call me after work but he hasn't and we havent talked in 3 days...
what do i do?
thanks,
stupid girl
hey, well it sounds to me like maybe he had some hookups on his vacation. thats just i guess. did you trust him 100% before he left? do you trust him now that hes acting shady? you need to tell him how you feel and ask him whats up. tell him that you would rather know if he wasnt into you anymore then to try to hold on to a fake relationship that wasnt going to go anywhere.
I really love my boyfriend, but there is one thing that is really getting me angry! I used this product that like waxes "down there" in different shapes. I guess it makes it more fun for you and your partner. He liked it and now i'm frustrated. He refuses to do anything sexual with me unless I wax down there in like a shape. It's so dumb!! Like as soon as he sees I didn't do that he's groans and says "nevermind." I thought it was a thing I can do everys so often, cause it's annoing to do. I feel like saying "you can't freakin have sex with my just cause there isn't a freakin heart or triangle?!" What should I do?
hey, well that is ridiculous. he cant love you because of a heart shaped shave! you should tell him how you feel instead of telling us.
if a boy bothers you a lot but in a fun way does that mean he likes you as a gf or just a friend
hey, he is probably flirting with you. signs of him fliritng are eye contact, touching you a lot, and trying to make you laugh constantly. if hes flirting then he likes you.
Right now I have the motivation and strength to lose weight. I have the will power...and that's the important part...but the problem is my meals.
I am from a home that eats rice for lunch...and has bread at breakfast and dinnner. I want to lose weight...and so does my mum. We've decicded to make vegetables and meat...not too mch rice...maybe once or twice a week!
I also have a busy school schedule! I go to school at 7:30am and reach bac at 3:00pm. I sometimes have tons of homework and after school activities, etc!
MY question is how many meals a day should I eaT? What type of fruits to eat? What is the best suitable meal for breakfast and dinner? And does the shredded wheats eat 2 lose 10 plan work?
hey, well you could try joing a gym with your mother. thats always an option. they sell weight watcher dinners and even ice cream sandwithces that are good for you! they sell them at your local grocery store. you shold try them. you should eat three meals a day. no less, because your body is used to three meals. no more, because then you will be eating too much causeing your stomach to expand aka making you bigger.
A few weeks ago I was whining in class about how i was cold, and this kid said "want to wear mine?" I was like "really" and he was like "sure just give it back before the end of the period" ; I couldn't stop smiling; and by the end of the class, I developed a crush on him. I thought it was the sweetest thing ever.
I guess he was just trying to be nice, because he likes one of my friends. But my friends doesn't like him. He flirts with my SOMETIMES, but flirts with my friend most of the time.
again, but friend does not like him at all. I haven't liked him for that long, so I'm not so deeply in love with him that I can't live without him, yet. Should I try and catch myself before I fall inlove and get hurt? What should I do?
hey, well you guys should talk more and maybe even hang out as friends to see if some type of love connection develops. you should let him know how you feel. just so you dont keep it all botteletd up inside and so he knows too. who knows, maybe he likes you too?
i need helpp. okay i really need a screen name.
i want it to do with.
broken heart
still not over someone
always loved him
love.
something of that sort.
please help me
hey, i think lovexmexforeverkk and helovesmenotxx is cute.
Okay, I know how to add a song to my profile. But, I want to make a seperate page for specifically music. How do I upload music to make a new profile just for music?
hey, well you will need to make a myspace music.