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Hair shapes
I really love my boyfriend, but there is one thing that is really getting me angry! I used this product that like waxes "down there" in different shapes. I guess it makes it more fun for you and your partner. He liked it and now i'm frustrated. He refuses to do anything sexual with me unless I wax down there in like a shape. It's so dumb!! Like as soon as he sees I didn't do that he's groans and says "nevermind." I thought it was a thing I can do everys so often, cause it's annoing to do. I feel like saying "you can't freakin have sex with my just cause there isn't a freakin heart or triangle?!" What should I do?
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This guy is not worth your time then. So what if its not in a perfect little heart. He needs to get over it and stop being so picky about the whole thing. I suggest having a talk with him about it and if he still keeps doing this than leave him. Most guys dont really care. My boyfriend will have sex with me even if I havent shaved in like 5 days because he loves me and it doesnt matter.
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If your boyfriend wont have sex with you JUST because you wont wax your pubes into a little heart or triangle, then he's not worth your time. I know its true, and you know its true, and I know its hard to accept. I know (ive been through it) that we find ourselves making excuses for others behavior. Trust me, he's lucky enough that you would do that for him once in a while. Theres a guy out there for you who will love you and want you andyour body no matter what shape your pubes are.
Hope I helped, never lower your standards.
Good luck.
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Confront him, ask him what his deal is. Don't try and figure him out. Let him tell you the problem and you two either reach a compromise or you two find a solution (possibly try and talk through it). First, you should think about what response you really want from him. Therefore to get the desired response, you need to KNOW exactly how you're going to confront him. He's your man, you know the good and bad ways to or not to approach him. Consider everything, tell him your feelings. And don't forget to LISTEN. Just tell him what you feel. Just make him listen and understand. Hope I was some help, lovely night to you.
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hey, well that is ridiculous. he cant love you because of a heart shaped shave! you should tell him how you feel instead of telling us.
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Why not tell him what you want to say? He deserves it. He should love you and be glad you'll have sex with him at all. Asking you to wax isn't fair. It's your body, not his. Make him own up to that fact.
Or, try cutting him off. If he seems to be making sexual advances, stop him, and in a sarcastic tone, tell him you can't have sex because you're not waxed the way he wants. It might work.
But really, the best way is to talk to him honestly. Tell him that you feel unvalued and that it's not fair of him to expect you to do everything he wants. If he can't respect that, he's not worth it, no matter how much you love him. The first sign of an abusive relationship is control.
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Do you know how a man shows he cares about you?
Your pubic hair doesn't matter. Waxing or shaving isn't a big deal to him. Making your pubic hair into shapes (odd as that may sound to me :D) doesn't matter to him.
He cares about you because he likes you for you. He likes who you are, not what your pubic hair looks like.
That's what I think you should expect out of a man. Why is your pubic hair fashion statement more of a turn on than you? Why should it ever be that way?
You need to tell him that. Tell him that it was something you want to save for special occasions or nice surprises. Tell him that if that isn't good enough for him, than neither are you. He will change his tune all quick.
If it were me in your shoes, I'd also add that you will keep yours in a triangle when he keeps his in the shape of a star. Yah, right... Bet you'd like to see him pull that one off.
Darn it! There's that rotten and ornery part of me sneaking out again...
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well, he seems really insensiteve. let HIM feel what it's like to wax "down there". guys a lot of times don't know what it feels like to wax ANY part of their body, let alone that part and have no idea how painful it is.
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