Member Since: January 20, 2007
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Last Update: March 5, 2007
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13/f. Ok so recently when I came to my school I was friends with this girl. Let's call her A. Then I have my other best friend, let's call her B. I was walking down the hall one day and I was talking to A and noticed she wasn't paying attention to me, she was paying attention to my boobs. So then I started to look our for it a little bit more and noticed she always does. So then one day she told me that she thinks peoples' eyes are beautiful??? What is this supposed to mean??? She kind of talks to me in a flirtyyy way. So she's always asking me if I have plans (btw, she's 13/f too) and then the other day i checked my phone over the weekend. A called me OVER 30 TIMES IN JUST TWO DAYS! So then she started calling my home phone like over... 8 times the whole vacation. She calls my phone ALL THE TIME. And the thing is... I'm not really bothered by her staring at my boobs and all but i just feel uncomfortable. when i'm on the phone with her sometimes too. is she lesbian?? she's had a boyfriend before. and this is the age where girls get curious.. but what can i do??
i DON'T wanna get any answers like "tell her to stop" because it'd be too mean and WAY too embarassing!!!!
THANKS SO MUCH! (link)
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As for the boob watching, I wouldnt worry about it. I check out girls boobs, and I'm straight. Its just comparing myself to them really, haha. Maybe shes just excited to have a new friend, or maybe shes just curious. Theres no way of knowing, really. If she makes you uncomfortable, just get away from her or something. If its that bad, tell her to stop it anyways. Hope I helped. Good luck.
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whenever i reach my arms up, my bra usually rides up. why does it do that? is it because my bra is too big or too small? i am a 32A. (link)
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you will most likely need to be fitted for a bigger bra. I had the exact same thing happen. Even when I had the straps really tight or really loose, it rode up. Go into lasenza or victorias secret and get fitted.
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ok, so me and my boyfriend have been talking about having sex. I just wanted to know, should i shave down there before we do it?? if so what should i use, or should i not shave down there at all.. or would that be really wierd..
any help will do ! Thx!! (link)
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Maybe shaving down there will look nicer and make you feel a bit more confident. Whatever you feel most comfortable doing. A lot of people do it, so its not wierd at all. Most guys like it, in fact.
Good luck.
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well... wont u make disgusting non attractive sounds when u give a hicky? and what about the spit? will a guy actually like that? (link)
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When you're giving a hicky, you dont need to really make any sounds at all. Try not let any air in and you should be fine. As for the spit, as long as you're sucking without letting any air in, it shouldnt be much more than a bit wet. I'm sure he wont care. He'll probably be too busy paying attention to you! =)
A lot of the guys ive been with have liked it. In fact, it drives the one im with right now crazy.
Good luck.
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I really love my boyfriend, but there is one thing that is really getting me angry! I used this product that like waxes "down there" in different shapes. I guess it makes it more fun for you and your partner. He liked it and now i'm frustrated. He refuses to do anything sexual with me unless I wax down there in like a shape. It's so dumb!! Like as soon as he sees I didn't do that he's groans and says "nevermind." I thought it was a thing I can do everys so often, cause it's annoing to do. I feel like saying "you can't freakin have sex with my just cause there isn't a freakin heart or triangle?!" What should I do? (link)
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If your boyfriend wont have sex with you JUST because you wont wax your pubes into a little heart or triangle, then he's not worth your time. I know its true, and you know its true, and I know its hard to accept. I know (ive been through it) that we find ourselves making excuses for others behavior. Trust me, he's lucky enough that you would do that for him once in a while. Theres a guy out there for you who will love you and want you andyour body no matter what shape your pubes are.
Hope I helped, never lower your standards.
Good luck.
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Okay, this isn't the easiest thing for me to ask but it's pretty much anonamous, so here it goes. I'm completely unhappy with my privates. It's a point of severe lack of confidence for me and i have no clue what i can do about it. I am most hesitant about being intimate with anyone because of the way i look down there. It grosses *me* out. And it often hurts to masturbate because of the little, erm, flappers. I think they're called labia? They are all messy looking, and messy feeling as well. I don't feel like this is normal at such a young age.
Well I'm not sure what, if anything, i can do about this. Does fixing this problem absolutely require plastic surgery, or is there anything else i can do? Please help me! I am at a complete loss as for what i can do about this, and i think i mentioned already it takes *such* a toll on my confidence!
Sorry for the length of this, and I appreciate anyone who helps me out, greatly.
Also i apologize if this is the wrong category, but it seemed to fit better here than elsewhere. (link)
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I have the exact same problem as you. I have large inner labias, and for a long time I was very uncomfortable being intimate with anyone. I had even heard someone talk to me about how gross larger labias were, but then I realized: everyone is different, and thats what makes us beautiful. So what if you have large inner labias? If the guy youre with really cares about the size of your inner labias, then he's not worth your time anyways. Some people actually enjoy larger labias. Hope I was of help!
p.s Dont get the plastic surgery unless you really really really think you need it. A boy should love your body for what it is! plastic surgery can go wrong, and you wouldnt want it going wrong, especially in that area. I dont think theres any other way of reducing their size. Love them! Embrace them! (not literally, haha)
good luck.
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My boyfriend and I have been thinking about doing it for the first time soon...you know, sex. I don't know what's safer, birth control pills or a condom, or where to find either...I really need help! I'm too embarrassed to ask any adults I know...please help. (link)
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No one needs an unwanted pregnancy, so using both a condom and birth control would be your safest bet. Though nothing is 100% effective, the pill can help protect you against pregnancy, and the condom can HELP to protect you against things like HIV and pregnancy,though there is no garauntee.
good luck.
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