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Member Since: January 20, 2007
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Last Update: January 20, 2007
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Here's the thing I am 13 gonna be 14 in a month. Me and my brother are 15 months apart. he is 15. My parents let him do whatever he wants. I on the other hand don't get to do anything! I can't go anywhere with anyone anytime. And it has been this way for ever.
My parents insist they have to Know ( meaning have seen and talked to) the parent of my friend(s). On the other hand my brother can leave and only say Im going to my friends house I'll be back maybe tomorrow. My parents know my brother drinks and smokes weed. I on the other hand only smoke cigarettes, and they know this. It doesn't make any sense!

What do you think about the situation. (link)
I think this is more about your gender then your age. Some parents treat girls and boys differently. It's definitely not fair. Without tatteling on your brother, I suggest going to your parents and saying, "Mom/Dad, I feel like you treat me differently then you treat (your brothers name). I don't understand why he gets to do certain things that you don't let me do. I feel like you give him special priveleges. Is it because I'm a girl?" ... then REALLY listen to what they have to say. I'm sure you'll get your answer.


I am turning 18 next sunday and I was planning on going out all night on saturday. What are some ways I can celebrate my birthday? Im single :) (link)
How about you and a few friends chip in for a hotel room - one with an indoor pool and hot tub. Staying in a hotel always makes you feel like you're on vacation (even if it's close to home.) Also, no parental supervision!


What are your views on change?

Do you think change is neccessary? (link)
Unless a situation in harmful, there's no need to force change - the flow of life will do it for you.




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