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Lesbian best friend?
13/f. Ok so recently when I came to my school I was friends with this girl. Let's call her A. Then I have my other best friend, let's call her B. I was walking down the hall one day and I was talking to A and noticed she wasn't paying attention to me, she was paying attention to my boobs. So then I started to look our for it a little bit more and noticed she always does. So then one day she told me that she thinks peoples' eyes are beautiful??? What is this supposed to mean??? She kind of talks to me in a flirtyyy way. So she's always asking me if I have plans (btw, she's 13/f too) and then the other day i checked my phone over the weekend. A called me OVER 30 TIMES IN JUST TWO DAYS! So then she started calling my home phone like over... 8 times the whole vacation. She calls my phone ALL THE TIME. And the thing is... I'm not really bothered by her staring at my boobs and all but i just feel uncomfortable. when i'm on the phone with her sometimes too. is she lesbian?? she's had a boyfriend before. and this is the age where girls get curious.. but what can i do??
i DON'T wanna get any answers like "tell her to stop" because it'd be too mean and WAY too embarassing!!!!
THANKS SO MUCH!
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i wouldnt be to worried about the boob watching but calling you over 30 times is a lil ridiculous. she is just checking your boobs to compare sizes probably lots of girls do that. but i might start to worry a litte about the 30 times because 1)she is running up your phone bill 2)she could just call to hear your voice, meaning she likes you and 3)she could get really annoying
try this: ask her if she thinks your hot and if she answers really fast tehn she thinks you are and it is definate if it takes her a while then she is thinking about it and she doesnt like like you.
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The whole boob situation is somewhat normal. Most girls check out other girls boobs because they compare themselves. Same with clothes, butts, and pretty much everything else. I could be wrong though. I can't tell you if your friend is homosexual or not and no one knows but her. I do think that it's kind of odd how she calls you so much. Maybe she's just glad that you guys are close friends? Give the friendship a little more time and see how things are going. Try talking to her. She might not take it so well, but heyy it's worth a try. Don't be afraid to say what you mean.
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As for the boob watching, I wouldnt worry about it. I check out girls boobs, and I'm straight. Its just comparing myself to them really, haha. Maybe shes just excited to have a new friend, or maybe shes just curious. Theres no way of knowing, really. If she makes you uncomfortable, just get away from her or something. If its that bad, tell her to stop it anyways. Hope I helped. Good luck.
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