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ok well my name is beth and i REALLY like this guy named greg. Well he knows that i like him and when my friend would ask him about me he would always say i like her a little, shes pretty and all but i dont know her. yet he and i have hung out a few times and we were pretty close. but once he knew that i started to like him it got all akward, and there was this other girl that liked him too, and he would always say noo i dont like her [shes really ugly] and one day he was like, im not gonna go out with her, to my friend. and the next day he asked her out. they broke up, and apparently they broke up because he liked me. but now he is saying he might ask me out he doesnt know, i dont know her well enough. but then the other day he said im not going to because i dont know her. well, i like him a lot. but should i still go for him? is he shy or scared or what? PLEASE HELP ME. i really need some good advice on how hes feeling, and what should i do.
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Invite him to do something. Do it as a group invite like two of your friends and ask him if he wants to invite a couple of people. Just hang out with him in a group like maybe twice and that way he can get to know you. Talk to him but don't flirt to much because he wants to get to know you. Show him what you are like be fun and outgoing beyouself though to. Maybe you could go out to eat with some friends and him and his friends or mini golfing ( it could be fun) lol, goat cart riding, somewhere that is social and you can actully talk. This way he will get to know you then after like the 3 or 4 time you guys hang out tell him that you like him and if he doesnt feel the same way maybe you could stay friends. Don't have you friends do it for you your going to have to tell him yourself. Sorry that it so long. Just have fun and get to know eachother.
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I've never had a real girlfriend before..I'm gunna ask someone out tomorrow and I know she'll say yes cuz I just do. I'm just afraid that I'll be nervous while we're going out..well not nervous just like "we're going out..now what" you know. Or I might try to act like different..idk What do I do? (link)
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Don't act different if she goes out with you then she likes the way you are so don't change. Just be a little more fliry and cuddley lol thats all. Just be yourself and have fun. Once you are a little in to you r relationship it will be better and you will know what to do.
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ok sorry this might be long ill rate all 5's for your time.
i like this guy and he said he likes me back but he doesnt trust girls cause he's been hurt in the past. My one friend who is friends with him too talked to him about it and tried to get it threw his head that i wouldnt hurt him like that and i've tried also. i just dont know what to do anymore i like him so0o0o0o much and ill wait for him. but i dont know sometimes i think im wasting my time cause he'll never date me.
any advice on what to do?
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Even though you have tried to talk to him do it again but don't force him. Tell him that you are not like the other girls and you won't hurt him. Ask him to give you a chance and just to trust you. If he does go out with you your going to have to prove to him that you won't hurt him and that you do really like him. Your going to have to sit down or talk to him on the hone about it don't send your friends to do it. Tell him how much you like him and tell him you will prove to him your not like the other girls. Hope the guy gives you a chance and it doesn't matter how long your thing is were here to help.
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Iam failing my nutrition and wellness class how can I bring my grade up? (link)
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Start to sudy really hard and try to complete all your w.s. If you don't understand things in the class then after class ask your teacher if they can stay after school with you and help you with some of your work. Every time there is an extra credit paper do it. Also ask your teacher if there is a way you can bring up your grade like some extra work to turn in. Hope your grade goes up.
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today someone told me that she liked me. i kind of like her too, but her friends hate me. so should i ask her out? if i decide not to ask, then how do we keep things the way they were...(not weird/awkward) (link)
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If you like her then ask her out. If she likes you then she will just tell her friends to deal with it. Just be nice to her friends and don't get on there bad side and maybe they will start to like you, If you dicide not to ask her then you will have to be the one to talk to her she probly thinks your going to be awkward around her since she told you. Just talk to her like you normaly do and things shouldnt get awkward.
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are tomatoes a fruit or a vegtable (link)
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Haha yea I know who this is. I think there veg. because i dont like veg. But lets just say both. Its served as a veg. but it really is a fruit.
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I heard before christmas that a boy liked me but at the time I didn't like him. Now I'm CRAZY about him! But I think he has already moved on..I asked his friend if he used to like me and he said, "Yeah..USED to." How do I find out from him without letting it sound like I like him? (link)
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Well alls you have to do is just ask him if he still likes you thats the only way you will find out the real truth. If you go up to him and say " hey i heard that you like me is it true?" It doesnt make it sound like you like him just that your wondering. So just go up to him and ask that way you will know the real truth. This probly isn't what you want to do but its a good idea. Hope i helped.
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Lately, Ive realy wanted ot become balimic or anterexic.. the thing is i cant. i love my boyfriend to death and he would flip if he found out.. also i would loose all trust in my parents.... soo what do i do?? is cutting back food a badd thing???
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What ever you do don't become balimic, anerexic, or cut back on food. Yes this would make your parents become mad and your boyfriend flip out. I don't know if your skinny or fat but if you are fat then just exercise and eat healthy. Bcomeing anerxic would also probly freak out your friends and you probly don't want to lose them. If you leave you height and weight i could let you know if you were under or overweight so just drop one in my inbox.
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does anyone know how to style hair? i have really long brown hair but i dont know what to do with it! does anyone have any ideas? i'll rate 5 for good advice!! (link)
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Try these...
- Curl
- Take a 15 inch suring iron and dont put your hair in it but take about a inch thinkness of it and wrao it around the curling iron (wrap around going to the back of you).
- scrunch
- put moose in your hair then braid two side braids and take it out in the morning
- messy pony tail
- take a section of your hair in the front and tease it then pin it up so it poofs up some then spray with hair spray.
- Try this web site. http://www.cosmogirl.com/beauty/lookbook/0,,8wwzzrbj-5,00.html
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My best friend is an eighteen year old guy who thinks he's in love with an emotionally unstable girl, who is also a close friend of mine. He does care for her a lot, as do I - we want the best for her. She tried to commit suicide a couple of months ago, and she's been undergoing recovery since then, including undergoing hypnosis and being put on prozac. She's been doing great so far up until now - for the last few days she's been falling back with her old crowd, the one she used to get drunk and high with, part of the reason she decided to kick the bucket a couple of months ago.
On Wednesday, she got drunk and made out with another guy - total asshole. She told him that she got wasted, and they talked about it and made up, but she didn't tell him that she cheated on him. The girl who told me wasn't supposed to, and if I talk to Sam (the girl) about it, she'll know it was her who told me. The problem is that this girl is in love with the guy, she has been for the last year since they broke up - she doesn't try to ruin things for him, and like me, she wants the best for him and even Sam. What I (and she) don't know what to do is whether or not we should tell him, or keep it from him that Sam cheated on him that night?
If we do tell him, obviously all hell is going to break loose, and one of the things that is going to happen is that this girl is going to be accused of telling me only for the sake of breaking Sam and him up - which is so far from the truth. We have noo idea what to do. She doesn't care about being talked about, but she doesn't want him to think that she wants him to get hurt.
I, on the other hand, don't want my best friend to live a lie, and at the same time, I don't want Sam to have another thing that could hold her back from completeing her recovery.
I'm so confused, what do I do?
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You need to stick by her side even if it does mean keeping her from doing something she wants. Talk to her let her know that you care about her and you don't want to see her going back to the way she was if she doesnt change help her and almost force her. Tell her that she needs to tell the boy what she had done and tell her to tell him why she did and that shes sorry. Once you tell her these things or whats on her mind its probly not exactly what she wants to here but you need to talk to her help her in her recovery support her on all the good things shes doing. When she trys to go back and drink then convince her not to and remind her of how hard she has work to quit it. Just tell her whats on your mind and stick by her side.
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i still love him although he loves someone else
lets say
emo=the one i love
aly=the one emo loves
cruiser=the one aly loves
i love emo... i told him about that yet he remained a joker and snobbed me for that... yet i knew he loved aly... later on, i knew that aly was in a relationship with cruiser... i felt sory for emo and i just wanted to say to him "i love you, still you love her... can't you learn how to love me?"... is my reaction right... coz i really don't know what to do... i don't want to cry anymore...
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Yea you did do the right thing. Maybe the first time you told him he thought you were joking so be very serious about it. Tell him you love him and your feelings wont go away. Ask him to give you a chance. Ask him if he will at least get to know you more. If he says no im soory to say it but i don't think he interested. If he does give you a chance then show him how good you are and prove to him that you love him and just be good to him. Hope it turns out good.
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do your parents HAVE to stay in the room with you when you get a check-up? it's EXTREMEMLY embarrasing when he docotor looks at me and i dont need it to be even MORE with my parents and sister in there. can anyone tell me anything to help me feel like humiliated??? i'm going today.. (link)
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Yes my parents stand in there. You can ask them to go out in the hall if the docter doesn't really need them in there. I've done it befor because i felt uncomfterble with them in there and just ask them back in when the docter is done. Hope they listen.
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how do you determine the right weight for a certain hight/weight?
im 14, 4'11" and 110 pounds
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You are healthy for your height and weight. But if you want to know more about it check out this web site.
http://www.toneteen.com/tools/bmi.htm
Hope it helps.
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hey! there is this guy i like, and i really thought he liked me. alot of people kept telling me that he did. we haven't really talked before, and he isn't in any of my classes but he would always give me signs that he liked me. so i wrote him a note and i told him that i like him, and i asked if he liked me. i also asked him to write back and gave my locker number. at the end of the day on friday, my friend gave him the note, and he still hasn't respond. i feel really hurt and upset because i thought he liked me. what should i do? (link)
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Well don't worry about it. He's probly thinking about the note and just didn't know how to respond to it so give it a little more time. Don't keep asking him or writing him letters about why he hasn't responded back to you or it will get on his nerve. Now if you don't get a letter back by friday go up to him and ask if he has even gotten yours. If not then tell him that you like him and if he feels the same way. If he did get it ask him what he thought about it. Hope he responds soon let me know what he says.
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I have this secret that I haven't told one of my really good friends yet (lets call her Ruby). It's about this boy I like I have told four other people, and three of them are my other really good freinds. Well I don't want to tell Ruby because she doesn't have much experience with boys AT ALL and she wouldn't get it like my other freinds would. Should I tell her? Because if she knew I told these other girls before her she would be mad. So bottom line, Should I tell her? Even though I don't want to? Would you personally be mad if you were Ruby? (link)
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I would be mad if you didn't tell me so you should tell her. Ask her if she would like to know about the boy. If she does then tell her but if you feel she is uncomfterble let her no you just want to tell her because shes your close friend and you don't want to leave her out. So tell her all about the boy you like who knows maybe she has some tips.
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I asked out this girl about a week and a half ago.(i didnt know if i should or not and the advicec from my last question helped, Thank you!) where now going out and i feel somewhat intimidated. this i really wrird for me, i have a fun personality and am never embarrased but when im around her i get nervous and dont talk much. When i do talk i keep the conversation simple, i want to be able to keep conversation w/ her going and have our relationship go further now. I need help knowing how to start and keep conversation going and also how not to get nervous when im around her. (link)
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Be yourself if you change to much then chances are she wont like you anymore. Just have a normal conersation with her talk about what you use to. If you cant think of anything just say something funny or ask her a random question. Find out things shes interested in and talk about them with her. Or talk about how your guys days went. Get to know her a little more then wyou will know more about what to say. Hope I helped.
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Ok. My art teacher is little too nice to me. He makes weird comments to me like "your hair looks hott today" or "you friend kayla is cute". And he moved me up to an honors art class because he thought i was "ready" for it. Soo i moved up thinking i was a really good artist..but ever since..he just flirts with me. Also everytime i ask him a question after to class about hw assignments hes like "come to my office'. Its just weird...and he also hugs me..i dunno maybe hes just a nice person. I feel uncomfortable..wat should i do?
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Well he hasn't done anything really bad yet but If you are that uncomfterble ask him if he could stop favoring you. Or you could switch to a deffernt class but if you like art then don't. If he does something really uncomfterble soon then tell someone maybe your parents or the princible. Just try to avoid the hugs like when he goes in for one back up or when he gives you a compiment just ignore it act like he didnt say it don't smile when he gives one to. Well drop on in my inbox and let me know if he contiues with anything.
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I was recently asked to attend a party a friend of mine is hosting. I would love to go hang out with my friend and meet new people. But there are a couple problems with this. I wont know anyone at all and Im not exactly a social butterfuly, my friend lives really far away, the party will be at night and Im not the best driver at night, and Im afraid since no one knows me I will be left out of conversations.
How can I politely say no? I want my friend to keep inviting me to do other things, but not this particular event.
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Just tell her that your sorry and you can't attend the party. Ask her maybe if she would like to do something next week. She should invite you to other things still.
This could be your chance to make alot of friends though. Just because your shy doesnt mean you can't talk. Just say hi to some people and maybe they will ask you whats up. If you don't like to drive maybe ask someone if they could give you a ride. Well i know this wasnt in your question but just giving you some tips for next time maybe. Your friend will understand about you not going. Hope I helped.
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There is this new boy he from a spanish country and i really like him but then there is my friend i like were really close and im afraid if i ask him out and he says no that he won't trust me or he'll act all weird please help i really don't know what to do. (link)
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Start to flirt with him and see if he does it back. But dont wait to long to tell him because maybe hes to shy to ask you to. Once you feel comfterble to ask him just say " i like you, if you don't feel the same about me its fine, I just hope we can continue being friends and things wont turn ocward between us." You cant act different around him eather just ask the same if he changes then tell him not to feel uncomfterble abround you. Now about the other guy start to talk to him and then if you like him make a move on him!
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Okay so, there's this guy that I really REALLY like and everyone else hates him. I dont know why I like him it's kind of scary because I'm kind of obsessed with him. I cannot explain why I like him because I really dont know...I know he doesn't really like me because there's a pretty big age difference between us. I have a boyfriend but I still like this other guy. How do I forget about my freaky obsession? (link)
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Well theres not a certian way to forget about it. Maybe you could list all the things you hate about this guy and when ever you start to think about him try to forget about it. Your obsession might not go away for awhile but you can ignore it. Just don't let it show you are obsessed with him. Try to spend more time with your boyfriend. Mybe you are starting to like other guys because your relationship with your boy friend is starting to get boring. If it is ask him if he would like to take it to another level. Or just try new things. Well i hope your freaky obession goes away. Sorry if i didnt help much. Let me know how it goes.
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