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today someone told me that she liked me. i kind of like her too, but her friends hate me. so should i ask her out? if i decide not to ask, then how do we keep things the way they were...(not weird/awkward)
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Ignore the friends. They're not part of your relationship and if she likes you and told you, which she has done, it means she doesn't seem to care what they think either.
You shouldn't be too put off by the thoughts of other people. Some people can be very judgemental and the chances are they don't like you because they just don't know you.
If you like this girl then you should go for it and forget about what everyone else thinks about it.
Should you choose not to go for it with her, you need to let her know that's what you have decided and why you made that choice. It wouldn't be right not to give her some form of closure on this. Explain to her why and that although she does feel this way, you really don't want it to wrck your friendship.
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well if i were you, id get her alone or send her a note asking to meet you sumwhere after school. Be like " I heard you had a crush on me? is that true. Its okay if you do." and if she goes "yes" then be like would you like to be my girlfriend? and just hope she says yes, and if she says no, ask her if its because her friends hate you. If thats the fact, then forget her! she aint the one for you. You deserve someone better.
-sammay
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If you like her then ask her out. If she likes you then she will just tell her friends to deal with it. Just be nice to her friends and don't get on there bad side and maybe they will start to like you, If you dicide not to ask her then you will have to be the one to talk to her she probly thinks your going to be awkward around her since she told you. Just talk to her like you normaly do and things shouldnt get awkward.
♥ jackie
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if you like her,i say go for it!!!!!!!! her friends will have to realize that it's the friends' happiness that matters. if you KNOW THIS GIRL WILL be happy being around you , then you have NOTHING to lose. if you don't end up asking her,tell her you just want to be friends with her. SIMPLE AS THIS!!!!! hope you guyz go out!!!!
***HERSHEY WISHES HUGS AND KISSES***
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If you like her then I think you should definitely ask her out.
Everyone isn't going to like you. One of my girlfriend's friends don't like me that much either. But I don't pay her(my girlfriend's friend) any attention.
If you decide not to ask her then just try to continue to do things the way you have always been doing them with her. Don't try to act wierd or awkward. Just act normal.
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Since (hopefully) you won't be dating the friends too, I would ask her out.
A girls friends will just have to learn to, if not like, then at least tolerate her boyfriend. :)
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