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Q: My friend can be so bossy and mean sometimes and she gets mad at m for everything i hate it. We've known eachother since first grade so i dont want to ruin our friendship what should i do?
Tell her how you feel in a piolte way.

Q: There's this boy that was in all my classes last year (in the 7th grade). Jock. Jerk. Popular. Biggest S.O.B. to walk the earth. Everyone liked him, but I loathed him. He would make fun of how unpopular and "weird" I was, he'd laugh with his scruffy friends during French whenever I made a mistake, he'd even call me bad names sometimes. So I got even with him and stole his baseball hat, and hid it, and laughed and made fun of him whenever he made a fruitless attempt to find it. I didn't even get in trouble! After a while, he found the hat. This year, he suddenly started being nice to me. He gave me compliments, started sending me IMs, etc. I was nice back, and in a suttle way we became friends, but I didn't forget how much of an asshole he was last year. Friday, this guy I barely know told me that he (the boy) said I was really hot and nice. I'm confused. Do you think he likes me or he's just scared I'll steal his hats?
I think he likes you! CLAIR

Q: I'm SO scared!! My Bat Mitzvah is in the second week of October! My hebrew school is very layed back and say that the hebrew is not the important part of becoming bat mitzvah. But, i don't want to make a fool of my self!! I have been practiciing very hard but when i go up in front of people to talk all my practiciing goes down the drain! Practicing in front of my parents won't help at all. How can I fell confident about my ceremony??
Ask some friends from school to come over. Some that arn't very close so that you arn't to confident like you would be in front of your parents or close friends.

Q: Theres this boy that I met a while back, and I sorta like LOVE him! It's a weird feeling. When I got back that day from meeting him, I started imaginaing marrying him! He was so sweet, caring, and funny!! He was like my perfect boy! The thing is im 13/f and I don't even know if he likes me!! He's 14 and my family only sees his family once or twice a year!! Any advice on this situation?
Call him and keep in touch. When you see him don't tell but show him that you like him more than just a friend and see what he does. I don't think that you should ask him out. I feel that in this case you should wait and see if he asks you out. Hope this helped CLAIR

Q: Before I start I'm a sixteen year old girl. This might be a long one.

Well my parents don't trust me. They say they do but everything that goes wrong is blamed on me and basically 99% of the time I wasn't the one who did it. For instance when my dog chewed on the seatbelts in the car until they were bascially ruined my parents accused me of cutting the seatbelts with scissors as a way of telling them that I was angry. Well I used to be a really big troublemaker until I turned ten but now I'm basically the most innocent teen ever and they still don't see why I don't talk to them. I don't talk to them that much because I'm afraid that they will not believe whatever I'm trying totell them and just blow up on me. My mom is okay. She sometimes believes me but my dad just explodes on me and will slam the door in my face because he doesn't want to hear what I have to say. I have never really gotten along with my dad because his sense of humor hurts me emotionally sometimes. He doesn't make fun of my weight and stuff but he calls me names like "whore", "slut", and "hoe". I know that most of the time he is just joking around but it still hurts me emotionally. He always treats me like I'm 5 years old. I'm just sick of it. What can I do to get them to trust me?
Sit down with your mom and tell her the real reason you don't talk to her. Then tell her that when your dad calls you thoses names(which he shouldn't be doing no matter what) that they hurt your feelings. Then if she doesn't do anything and he is still calling you names then tell him or someone at school. Try and show your parents they can trust you and that your not 10 yrs old anymore and that some day they are going to have to trust you. Even if its not that day. Hope this helped CLAIR

Q: ok this may sound really conceited, but my mom is like 58, but she still looks like she's 35. no plastic surgery, nothing. i'm kind of pretty i guess, but not like gorgeous. but there are girls who are absolutely gorgeous at my school, and their moms are really old-looking (no offense!!) and not that pretty. neither are their dads, but mine isn't that special either. how come it's like that?? =/
It may not just be your mom it is some of your dad too!

Q: okay, i really really need help!! this guy and i, were supposidly dating... i like him so much, and he said he liked me... well last night he called and he starting fighting with me over the fact that i never give him a straightforward answer... i dunno what thats supposed to mean, but i always tell him i dont care, and i guess that bothers him... well he told me everything was over... and then told me he was getting sick and needed to take a shower, so i told him to call me back after becasue we needed to talk about this... so he called back like 15mins later and was all calm and he stopped yelling at me... but he was like i hate how you cant tell me exactly what you want, and how you only do stuff to make me happy... im so confused... if theres anybody who can help me witht his please do!! are we still broken up? how can i get him back? what are smoeways i can get over him?? anything will help... but please!! soon! thanks
Your still broke up. You should try calling him and tell him you guys shouldn't break up because of this sort of thing. Tell him you will try your best to give him a strightfoward answer. Tell him that you love him and don't want to break up because of some little thing like that. Ask him if you guys could ever be together again. Right after that don't let him answer just say I love you bye and hang up! Hope this helped and good luck!

Q: is it possible to make out with a guy if you wear glasses (it would be helpful if people who wear glasses answer this)
Its ok but I reckomend you take them off!

*!ClAiR!*

Q: ok like when i have sex i never get and orgasm!!! the guy always get 1 or more... but i never do!!! but wen i masterbate i do!!! so what do i need to do??? like make the guy go longer or what????
How old are you it's probably because your too young and you should wait until your married to have sex just in case!

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Q: ok i got some freckals but not alot i meen not to notice able but i want a fast and easy way to get rid of them, any ideas wright back AsAp
You can't get rid of them trying using makeup!

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Q: ok im 13 and a virgin im male and what is the age most people have sex if their not sluts or whores? and is it late for me not to have sex or early whats the deel i mean i really wanna have sex i meen realy bad and i mastrbate like 3 times a day..
You should wait until you married!


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Q: Ok. There was this baby i was babysitting and a little kid. i put them to sleep and i was watchin TV. then i heard the baby cry. i ran upstairs and the little kid was ontop of the baby! i do not know hwat to do!! i dont want to tell the parents but the baby might be hurt. HELPP
See if the baby is ok tell the little kid it is not ok to get on top of him. Check the baby for any red marks scratches or bruses. If he is ok you don't have to call his parents. But if he is not you need to.
Hope I Helped!
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Q: Ok Well My boyfriend and I have been together since May and now things between me and him are just getting boring but i dont wanta leave him because i really love him but I dont know what to do things are just so boring now should i tell him how i feel ... he might take it the wrong way
plz help
You should tell him but instead of saying things are boring say hey this is lame lets go to the movies or clubbing!

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Q: What does a gynecologist do? i dotn understand
They look at your "CHA CHA"!

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Q: hey does anyone know where i can get tabs for my piano. i want songs from bands like MCR, the Used, Hawthorne Heights, A7X, Fall Out Boy, the All-American Rejects..etc. so if anyone knows any sites i can get tabs for my keyboard from them that would be AWSOME. ill rate you a 5 even if you give me one site! thanks alot alot alot. lol

http://www.911tabs.com/piano_tabs/

Just go there I know they have the used!

Sorry I couldn't find any more that you were looking for! Hope this helpd!

*!Clair!*

Q: Does anybody know a site that i can look at that I could look at stickers for my front window in my car. Like people have pontiac and honda on it. I want to look at stickers like that. Any sites?
Go to http://www.carstickers.com if you scrool all the way down there is windsheild car stickes if you don't want any of those there are lots of catorgies to chose from and you can just put them on your front window! Hope This Helped!

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Q: Say theres this 14 year old daying this 18 or 20 year old.What can happen?
First off he can kill you now a days you really can't trust that many ppl. If you have sex with him he could go to jail for haveing a sexual realiship with an under age female. So I sugest that you get over him and go find another 14 yr. old!

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Q: Like many people I bought the new Harry Potter book a few days ago. Mine was the first out of the box( and therefore obviously a first edition) and it looks perfectly normal.

However there is a fault on page 109/110. The pages have been ripped and glued together and then printed oddly. If it was a stamp then it would be instantly valuable. As Harry Potter is collectable I was wondering if anyone knows anything about a faulty print. Is it at all possible that this will become valuable? Should I look after the book especially or just treat it normally?
It could be but i highly dought it!

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Q: I have a friend named Bailey. One day she did a prank phone call to me with a bunch of her friends. And it got me real upset because I thought she was my friend. So the next day she called me and asked if she wanted to hang out with me. And she sounded like nothing happend with the prank phone call. And I said, I thought you were mad at me, and she said never! And I asked her why did you prank me? And she said.. it's only a prank, and she hung up. What should I do?


-x Lauren x-
It was just a prank call tell her how it made you feel though!


*!Clair!*

Q: im 14/f...i feel like i sleep a LOT! like here's an average day: wake up around 10...take a nap from like 1 to 3 30...then get up and do whatever...then take another nap from like 5 to 6 30...then stay up until like 1 in the morning and go to bed and do it all over again the next day...is this normal or is there something wrong???
Your just sleeping so much because you are about to grow!

*!Clair!*

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