|
love is boring
Ok Well My boyfriend and I have been together since May and now things between me and him are just getting boring but i dont wanta leave him because i really love him but I dont know what to do things are just so boring now should i tell him how i feel ... he might take it the wrong way
plz help
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
i think you should just tell him. he should understand and if he doesnt, well, then breakup with him.
]
well take it from a girl who knows..you should go places with "him". start talking about your lives and what is new with eachother. Hang out at the beach. go out to dinner..
Have Fun
-x- Jayme -x-
]
Well its seems like you are ready for the next step in your relationship like if you just make out then you should do something more advanced since you are always bored with him* just tell him that you are ready for an advance in your relationship- that is what i would do hope i helped
i just started this thing xxo0oXx
]
I would suggest that you propose new and FUN activites to do, so you're not just doing the same old same old all the time. Because i know as well as you do, that can get very old very fast, and not to mention BORING! suggest new things to try, and if you are still bored with him after a while, or if he won't try new things, try to find someone who is open-minded and interested in the same things you are. here are some things that you two could try:
going to the movies or out to eat
going on vacation/camping
going to an amusement park
going to a concert
going shopping (if he doesn't mind..some guys can't stand it..haha)
going out for ice cream
watching the sun come up
sitting under the stars just talking about life
bake cookies
go for a walk
take funny pictures
have a picnic
go bowling
go to a game
go skating
etc etc..there are so many more ideas i could come up with, i'm sure you get the point tho! if you need anymore help..you can IM me (AIM- UrSoGorgeOusx) Good Luck!
]
this sounds exactly like something i went through with my boyfriend about 7 months ago, i sat him down and told him that we needed to talk and he was ok with it and i was like, our relationship isn't that fun anymore like we don't do anything and it is starting to get boring we need to like take walks, go to dinner movies anything. and i think that you should just tell him something like that tell him that your relationship is great and all but also that it is kinda boring and that you guys need to do more things together!
i hope i helped ;)!
]
I think that you should probly just make things more exciting, you know.. take him to the movies or invite him over or something and if your still bored think about your feelings for him for a few days and if you still feel this way then maybe its time to let go
]
If you think it's getting boring enough to the point where you have to break up with him, then do it. I think you should just sit down with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him exactly why you want to break up, and that he shouldn't take it the wrong way. You seem to really love him still. Maybe you should tell him things are starting to be boring, and give him a little longer. If you still don't like the way things are turning out, break up with him.
♥ Megan
]
if you really love him i mean really then it wouldnbe boring.. love is an exciting and wonderful ting.. maybe your jsut feelign something else..
]
You should tell him but instead of saying things are boring say hey this is lame lets go to the movies or clubbing!
*!ClAiR!*
]
You need to go on some fun dates together, something you both enjoy. Try things you've done before or new things.
Here are some ideas; bowling, ice skating, roller skating (at a roller disco or something), crazy golf, go to a gig or concert, quad biking (that is REALLY fun), amuzement park, wall climbing, trampoling, nature walks, the zoo, factory tour like of a chocolate factory or rock factory (theres one in east yorkshire), go to the coast for the day, go to a festival.
Also pick up lots of leaflets of things to do in your area and get on the internet to have a look.
good luck x
]
More Questions: |