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I'm a very honest person, I am very easy to talk to, and I have been through a lot even though I am only 14! I've been through heartache, family problems, a lot of friendship problems, I know how it feels to be called names that aren't true and i know how it feels to have your heartbroken and to love someone who doesn't lvoe you.And I know what it feels like tofeel like you have noone to talk to or listen to you, or that loves you. But I'm here to listen and help and you will always have me to love you!
E-mail: naughtygrl3210@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Maryland
Age: 14
AIM: brwneyedshorty01 angelkisses3210
Member Since: May 4, 2005
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Last Update: November 13, 2005
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If you dont like hearing about sexual things i suggest you stop reading at this point :-)

I asked a question about the pill (birth control) and found out it was 99.9% effective. Does that mean the guy could cum inside the girl and even then there would only be a .1% chance? or is the 99.9% chance with using a condom and pulling out? (link)
Even if you are on the pill there is still a .1% chance of getting pregnant, the 99.9% is with the guy cummin inside you!
Hope I helped


Most of the boyz I have been with want to have sex with me but I say no because I THOUGHT I belived in abstanence. But now I have had a relationship with this boy for two months and I think he is the one. I am so in love with this boy. Everyday we talk he tells me he loves me, he wants to get married, he wants me to have his kids, and he wants to be with me for ever. I want to have sex with him but I am scared that he will say I am not doing it right. please help me. I am in desperate need of an answer. What should I do? (link)
I have had this same problem and if he loves you as much as he says he does than he won't care if you don't do it right! What I did was made sure that I told him that I was a virgin and I don't really know what to do, and if he loves you like I said before, then he won't care and he will take it slow and teach you!
Hope I helped!!


Hey All!
Homecoming is a way away, but I am currious. I have never gone to a dance before. My boyfriend and I are going to most of the dances at both of our schools this year, because it is his senior year. I already have a dress for Prom. and it is floor length. I wore it in a wedding.

So, is homecoming like prom at all? Do you get an almost to the floor dress? a knee length? what? What are good colors?

Is it a huge deal? How much should one spend on a homecoming dress.

What about shoes?

its in September or October. (I cannot remember!)

thanks so much in advance.
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-SLeK- (link)
homecoming is not quite like prom to some people it is like if it isnt your junior or senior year it is like prom but if it is your junior or senior year its a prom practice! A lot of my friends got to the floor dresses but some people got shorter dresses, the color of the dress really depends on the theme of the dance or you can just pick your favorite colors. in some cases homecoming is a big deal, it was to me, so yea i would say it is. I spent liek $175 total on homecoming including the shoes, and no dont take a purse put your lipgloss tickets and money in your boyfriends pocket and stay with him so he dont loose it. hope i helped!


well me and my boyfriend had sex and that night i was bleeding really bad and it wouldnt stop. i had to tell my dad i had my period because the blood got all in my sheets. is that normal because i dont think it is because it didnt happen to any of my friends. what happened. why did that happen? (link)
I think, but I'm not too sure, but I think your cherry popped and that is normal for your first time, but some people it doesn't happen! Hope I helped


Ok Well My boyfriend and I have been together since May and now things between me and him are just getting boring but i dont wanta leave him because i really love him but I dont know what to do things are just so boring now should i tell him how i feel ... he might take it the wrong way
plz help (link)
this sounds exactly like something i went through with my boyfriend about 7 months ago, i sat him down and told him that we needed to talk and he was ok with it and i was like, our relationship isn't that fun anymore like we don't do anything and it is starting to get boring we need to like take walks, go to dinner movies anything. and i think that you should just tell him something like that tell him that your relationship is great and all but also that it is kinda boring and that you guys need to do more things together!
i hope i helped ;)!


whats the dif. between givin head and a bj??!



thx for any answeres! i rate high =)

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they are exactly the same thing just different names!


lately ive been getting horny more often than i used to. what does this mean? am i just going through a weird hormone stage or am i like addicted? (link)
i would saythat it is just a hormonal stage because i have went through it and ihave grown out of it. hope i helped!!


omg...I'm 14/f and I masterbate I'm sooo embarassed is it a bad thing? Does it mean that I want to have sex or sumthin? I know I don't want to but still i don't know whether what i've been feeling lately is bad or good it makes me feel really guilty (link)
don't feel guilty masterbating is perfectly normal for both boys and girls, it doesn't nessicarily mean that you want to have sex, you could just want some pleasure without the risks. i hope i have helped ;)


14/f
0k, so I'm going out with this guy, and last night, he fingered me and ate me out.. He fingered me so hard that I bleed a little bit, and I was wondering, if there was any cum on his hand, like from the last time he jacked off, could I get pregnant? What are the chances?
Also, what can happen from being eaten out? (link)
no you can't get pregnant if he had cum on his hands from the last time he jacked off because the sperm die as soon as they hit air, and i dont think anything could happen by being eaten out but it is possible to give stds by oral sex so keep that in mind!


what's pop a cherry mean? (link)
Pop a cherry means when you have sex for the very first time when youloose your virginity,if you bleed it means thatyour cherry has popped sometimes it can bleed a lot or at different times when you have sex or sometimes you wont even bleed. hope i helped ;)


ok well..

i was hooking up with some guy and we were going for about 6 mins and then he started to move my hand slowly down his pants but i just kinda backed away concerning i really dont kno what to do if i go down a guys pants and how to keep it there long. so my question is what do i do down there and for how long. thanks


ps. im 14 years old going on to 15 (link)
well you could give him a handjob which means like you can wrap you hand around his penis and move it up and down until he cums. hope i helped.


I know this is gross and stuff...but its true....i was raped by my teacher and he swore that if i tell anyones hes going to kill me and I see him all the time...like he is following me or something to make sure I am not telling...and so I dont know how to tell anyone beczuse he said he would kill me...anyone have any ideas...because i am scared to tell someone
plz help!
thanks (link)
you HAVE to tell someone!! you could really be in danger, and don't worry if you tell really soon there is no way he can hurt you trust me sweetie, and i am so sorry!


im sure you probally have heard this question many times before but what do people usally use when they shave down "there"? like razor or wax? i would really appreciate any helpful answer, thanks (link)
i use a razor i think it would be a lot less painful than wax but of course what ever you perfer!


okay...
well...
uhh..
this is hard for me to ask this
but i have already fingered my g/f and we both want more
we are WAY TO young for sex about 5 years from it, what can we do thats not sex d00d please help (link)
ok since you both are too young for sex you can always have oral sex, it is better than fingerin the girl and this way you can get pleasure too you can eat her out and she can give you head and you both can get off and not even have intercourse


What is cum?
I'll rate high! (link)
cum is something that a guy ejaculates when he is jackin off or having sex or oral sex, it is wat comes out of him when he gets off.


i dont usually do this but ok..im in love with this one guy that i've been with for 11 months, and he claims he is in love with me, but when we get in an arguement he says he doesnt love me right now, which is weird bc i thought that if you was in love with someoen you would love them unconditionally, he makes all the rules and doesnt let me have input on anything.every timei talk to him i end up crying bc he hurts me so bad emotionally..the only time he acts good to me is when he is about to get something(you know what i mean) after that he's back to his normal self.what should i do? i try leaving him but i always get weak and run back to him.i love him alot and i dnt know what i should do.i try telling him how i feel and he gets pissed so i just keep it to myself..im getting really close with this other guy who feels the same way about me as i do my guy, and i dont know what i should do, i love the guy im with, not the one who treats me like a goddess,..*confused*..what should i do..sorry its so long..forgive me lol (link)
i think that you should try as hard as you can to let him go, not for forever but just so you can like go out and get to know other people. it's in your best intrest, and maybe even give the guy that treats you so well a chance. or you can try to talk to the guy your with and try to work things out, but trust me that is very hard because i have been through this same exact thing before acctually i just went through it like 3 weeks ago. i think that you should just give other people a chance i know it will be hard because i did it, but you will forget about him and be able to move on and you'll be able to be strong enough to not run back to him all the time, and if he really loves you as much as he says he does believe me he will tell you and he will want to do this because it will make things a lot easier and he will come back to you eventually!
keep your head up and stay strong! everything will be ok in the long run!




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