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Question Posted Friday July 1 2005, 2:49 pm

omg...I'm 14/f and I masterbate I'm sooo embarassed is it a bad thing? Does it mean that I want to have sex or sumthin? I know I don't want to but still i don't know whether what i've been feeling lately is bad or good it makes me feel really guilty

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sweetheartedangel answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 9:53 am:
don't feel guilty masterbating is perfectly normal for both boys and girls, it doesn't nessicarily mean that you want to have sex, you could just want some pleasure without the risks. i hope i have helped ;)

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Madeline answered Friday July 15 2005, 2:36 am:
If you do it, you do it. If you don't, you don't.

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SOAD98 answered Monday July 4 2005, 11:38 am:
noooo, masturbating is healthy it means u are horny but yea i suggest masturbating instead of having sex you know? so dont feel guilty every girl does it but dont pop your cherry on accident be careful!

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miiSz.gOtti answered Saturday July 2 2005, 6:45 am:
no trust me its perfectly fine!!! and its not a bad thing!

hope i helped

miiSz gOtti x0

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danceonme answered Saturday July 2 2005, 3:26 am:
No, there's nothing wrong at all with masturbation.
Everyone, (and I mean everyone) does it/has done it/will do it at one point in their life. Don't be ashamed or feel guilty, many a seasoned woman or two will tell you that you can please yourself better than any one can. =)
Be proud that you can talk about it (even anonymously, even on an advice website) because there are really people out there who act as though it's an inferior thing to do. It's not, and um. Based on experience, guys respect you more if you're open about it. Well, respect... or just know that you're a sexual person and want in on that action.
Masturbation is a very healthy way to learn about your own sexual function. You'll learn how to please yourself, how others can please you, and even how to please other people (believe it or not, whether male or female, the "hot spots" are the same when not on private areas). Most of all, you'll get a great release that can, er, be used as a stress relief when absolutely necessary... =D

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TrueHope10 answered Saturday July 2 2005, 12:23 am:
Yeah it is if you ask me ......it's sick......I mean find you a guy and do that....don't do it to yourself ....I mean if one of my friends told me they did it i would totally not talk to them as much cause it's sick

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:02 pm:
Its not something bad lots and lots of people do it.. its nothing to feel guilty about.. if you like it and it pleases you then i would continue doing it.. atleast your not sleeping around with every freakin guy.. *you know what i mean?* it doesnt mean you want to have sex cause sounds to me your not ready for sex with somebody else.. dont feel bad.. ♥ Dez

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Forbiddenxo answered Friday July 1 2005, 7:47 pm:
Its not bad at all!it's completely normal, almost everyone does it even if they refuse to admit it.It doesnt neccessarilly mean you want to have actual sex, but it does mean you're having sexual feelings.Everyone feels guilty right when they start doing it, but chill its normal and NOT a bad thing.

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Christine

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sweetestthang574 answered Friday July 1 2005, 6:13 pm:
its not bad! Your just really horny haha! dont feel guilty because EVERYONE does it! Some people have to do it like every hour! Its okey if you do it like 5 times a week, thats fine!

--emily

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twistedteen25 answered Friday July 1 2005, 5:00 pm:
A lot of gurls mstrbte it's okay it's just a stage. It also means your getting horny but don't worry everyone does it even guys.
Hope I helped

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MummuM answered Friday July 1 2005, 4:00 pm:
Hun, don't worry about this. It is not a bad thing at all, it's perfectly normal. A lot of people masterbate it's a part of growing up and getting comfortable with yourself. Just keep having fun and don't feel bad about masterbating.
♥ Krissy

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday July 1 2005, 3:47 pm:
no it isnt a bad thing. a lot of people do it. masterbating is a lot more safier then having sex so you shouldnt worry about it.. some people think it is a bad thing but it isnt really bad. dotn worry about i.
*~Stephanie~*

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Mackenzie answered Friday July 1 2005, 3:42 pm:
Awww!!! You shouldn't feel guilty about it AT ALL!!!! MANY MANY MANY people do it!!! And those that don't... have tRied it befoRe AT LEAST once!!! TheRe's absolutely NOOOO shame in it!! And it's NOT a bad thing!! It's peRfectly healthy!!! Don't woRRie about it, Kiddo. If it's enjoy and fun, just go foR it.. Relax, and let it take you oveR! :)

Hopefully this bRings you some ReassuRance!! ♥

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