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Okay. i wrote the stuffing tha bra thing..let me clear sumthyn up.. when i was doing that i didnt know what i was thinkyng..i was so inlove wid him dat it didnt matter. I knoe tht it wus wrong and stupidd..and dat if he relle liked me he wuld have liked me for me..but wut shuld i do? bc everytime i go to chyll wid ma best friend i c him..so i always have to wear 2 bra's and tht relle sucks! and its not comfortable but i dont want to stop chylling wid ma friend. Its not even about the boy anymore..its about how can i stop? so i could go there comfortable??

good job... he

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Alright, well, there's this guy that I know, B, and I'm totally in love with him. We've dated before, and I've told him that I've for him again. But he's asked me out before, and I said no because at the time, I liked someone else. But now that I've mentioned it again, he doesn't seem to be acting on that. We've always been friends with benefits. Like, the occasional hooking up and such. So it's like we're together already. Only, my love is there, and I'm not sure about his. He's said that he loves me, but I'm just not sure.
He's also not the best boyfriend material, if you know what I mean. He has this really nasty reputation about doing drugs, getting with girls all the time, having tons of problems. And he's definatly not someone that I would usually date. I mean, the other night, when we were saying good-bye, he had to get me out of the house first so his friend wouldn't see him and I kiss. Which is totally lame.
When he's around his friends he acts different. He acts as though he doesn't care about me. And it hurts like hell, but I can't stop thinking about him. I've really fallen for him, and no matter how much I try not to, I always find myself waiting for him to invite me over. I just don't know what to do. Please help me!

if he's two faced like that, dont even bother.
but if you really do love him, tell him that you wont be w/ him if he's doing all the drugs and if he's going to be two faced.
^*sarah*^

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okaii..ever since da 4th grade ive been madly inlove wid my best friendz brother. And we went out for like 3 dais on 4th den in 5th we never went out..in 6th he asked me out but i said no. idk why though..i guess i wus to shy. now im in 8th grade and im styll madly inlove wid him. but in 7th grade for valentimes day i relle wanted to go out wid him so i stuffed my bra. i dont do it to school or wherever cuz i think itz so gay and retarded but i just relle wanted to win him over. he never asked me out but he sais i got a relle good body. the butt is all mine but the chest isnt. and ive been wearing 2 padded bras ever since that day . i dont want to out of nowhere juss stop bc then he;ll know i stuffed and then he seriously never will like me..but i relle want to bc i juss realized i dont want him liking me for sumthyn thts fake . and if he does ask me out and we do go out agen i dun want him to feel up on meh and notice ima fake. how can i stop? also i got another problem.hes inlove wid dis girl steffanie and everytime i c dem together it hurtz me so much. and i cant get over dis kidd bc ive loved him nonstop ever since the 4th grade. and i try to impress him so much..but it never happens..got ne tipz on wut i shuld do to turn him on? thanxs..and pleze help mehh..

"help meh"-
if your really, really madly in love with him, just give hints, or tell him. ive been in a thing kinda like that, and communication is best.
if u seriously want a good relationship, you shouldnt [have] to stuff your bra; you can just wear a normal padded bra, and grow into it, or just tell him that it was fake, but you've been in love with him (or u just like him; sont overwhelm him), and maybe you'll find that he likes you, just for who you are... if he [really]

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There have been questions about hickeys on here, but what exactly are they?

a hickey's when you are kissing a guy, and he kisses kinda hard, and you get a smal bruise on your skin.
^.*sarah.*^

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*15 Female
**....my mom and dad love my boyfriend AJ (his 18) but sometimes they porblems w/ him....my curfew is 11 and he brings me home at 11 and we jst hang out down stairs for a lil bit before he goes home..well last nite he was over and my dad came down stairs and told him he had to leave and if he ever stayed late past my curfew at the house he would call the cops on him...what should i do when my parents don't like the things that me and my boyfriend do or the things that he does?

**we have been dateing for 6 months**

your parents probably just have a problem with you dating an older guy; just talk to ur parents and ur bf, and maybe u can just come home a little earlier, so u can spend more time together, or go out earlier...
.:'sarah':.

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My mom is an alchoholic(or however you spell it) and she left my father a few years ago. She has been an alchoholic for as long as I cant remember and she has wrecked about 5 of our cars. She used to make me lie for her so my father wouldnt find out she had been drinking. I never told on my mother, because she convinced me that it was my father who was the problem. Whenever he found out about my mothers drinking, she would blame it on me and call me a bitch. I never blamed her, saying that it was the alchohol, and not her talking. She has been to jail twice, and also AA, which did nothing. After she left my father she took half of the money with her and ruined my chances for a good college.She still blamed my father. After that she got both a dog and a cat for me but was "keeping them for me" at her apartment. She lost both of them. She dated about 100 guys who she scraped up from the under belly of satan. (They were all the "one")she finally married one of the grungiest, who smelled of pot( she did drugs to.)then she skipped town after not showing up to court after a drug bust.We havent heard from her or her husband since. All of this almost killed me. She went from loving mother to a pot addict between jobs and under house arrest in a hotel. Its hard going day after day not knowing if your mother ids still alive, so please if anyone out there knows or knew a woman named Judy M. Flint ( maiden name Judith M. Daniel) please let me know? And if anyone has gone through something similar it would be great to talk to you. Thanks

im

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I have a male Australian terrier .last week i got a female in heat so as to mate but when i put them in the kennel together they refused to. Eventually i released them letting them get to know each other but again as my dog tried to get on her back the female sat down and refused to get up. What did i do wrong or if it is not me what could be the reason for this?

well...
either just give them some time together, or... they

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I am VERY picky about what I eat... I won't eat most meats... only Peperoni on my pizza (if i have to) and hamburgers. I like junk food ALOT and I eat alot of it... I won't eat most foods other people eat. I have alot of problems when I stay the night with friends because I usually don't like what they are having for dinner.

I am about 5'3-5'4 and i only weigh about 135... it may sound like a lot .. but i have alot of muscle too...

What kinds of foods should I try eating so I will stay healthy?

Is there any way to make myself like more healthy foods?

just lay low on the junk food... try eating healthy stuff w/ a little taste... like beans w/ cinnamon, or celery w/ peanut butter

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whats a orgy? how do you get one?

orgy=orgasm: look it up, or maybe u'll find out on ur own

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k, so let's c...i realli like this one dude... and this dude use to realli like me...but now he's all kinda not kewl and stuff, and duzn't even wanna talk to me. and i still like him a whole bunch. i don't even think of any other guy. like if sumbody asks me for a list of let's say... The top 5 guyz I like..., i couldn't even give it to them, cuz it's only him... i don't even think of any other guy. and i kno he's pretty much not worth all the hurt and stuff at all. i mean, he's alreadi broken my heart once, but i still like him just as much or maybe even more than the last time, like wud do i do??? oh yah, he still sorta gives me reason to make me think he still likes me too...

~*NINA*~

just

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I have auburn/light brown hair and I want to temporarily dye it. I've been told Kool-aid will work on blonde hair.. but will it work on darker hair? My natural color is almost black... so that might have an effect too....

What color of kool-aid should I use on my hair.... and will the kool-aid wash out...

my parents wont let me dye my hair permanently again... so I need something that will wash out in the next day or two....

Please help me!

"help"-
there are many ways; lol
try:
lemon juice
herbal essence temporary dye
clairol temporary dye
spray on highlights
spray on dye
lol prolly more theres a lot out there

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me and this dude has been going on and off for about two years and i love him too death he's my everything. But theres a problem he does stuff that i really dont like, hes not cheating or w/e hes just doing something i think he shouldnt be doing, he says he loves me but right now he has to do what he has to do, since hes been doing that i really dont get to see him as often as i used to, so i feel really bad about this but i cheated on him and i have NEVER done that and i am afraid hes going to find out and then the two years of emotions will be gone, this dude is everything to me and he is the only one that has that special place in my heart and always be the one for me but what if he finds out? :'(

you just need to talk to him, and tell him how u feel (ahhh cheesy fo sheezy well anyways,) and that u need to spend more time togetrher, cuz ur drifting apart. if ur thinking of being together for a long time, and he really is "the one" then catch him, b4 he's gone 2 far.

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School is starting soon and i hate the first day of school. i always just want the first day to my self just tlking to my friends seeing if anyones changed and seeing what classes and teachers and peeps in my class i have. but i have a bf and i dont want to have a bf for the first day it just will stress me out more. ill have to eat lunch with him for the first day and hold hands and kiss i just dont wanna do all that the first day cuz i want to have my own space. we havent seen each other all summer and he really misses me. how do i tell him i dont want us acting like were going out on the 1st day of school but i dont wanna break up.

you shouldn't feel stressed to have to act like complete bf/gf on the first day of school. i'm sure there

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I have this friend. Well I think we are friends. We used to hang out all the time. This summer things changed. Nothing really changed with her boyfriend and things have been a little wierd. She does get into fights with him... alot... but b4 she used to always tlk to me about it. Now she talkes to other ppl and yea. We have been in a fight lately... and ppl have been tellin me and her both that we tlk about each other really bad... but the other day when I tlked to her she seemed lyk she didnt believe me about not saying anything bad about her. I really didnt say anything and I want to be friends with her. I dont know if she is lying to mr about being friends or not.I mean we used to go crazy about our virginity and stuff... I thought she was gunna loose it first but nvm mind that... I need sum advice... do yOu think we are friends... we are tlking again but I just want to know???

.:*Erika*:.

erika-
if u had a realli good friendship b4, then dont lose it over that. just talk to her about it, and u'll probably find out that she felt teh same way.
.:*-Sarah-*:.

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Should i let my friend come up my shirt..? hes always like bringing my boobs up.. were not goin out but we flirt a rly lot.. Hes always hinting.. He really wants to.. Shuld i let him!? plz help i have no idea wut to do
(( im 13 ))

well, if you don't even really know him that well, and u havent even been going out... id think about it, maybe go out on a couple dates b4 u let him stick his hand up ur shirt

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There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other.

I'm not sure... he could be this old perverted rapist, and you wouldn't know until you met him. I wouldn't meet him unless ur COMPLETELY sure who he is... maybe you could like send someone to see who he really is, or like (lmao) secretly stalk him for a day and just make sure who he is b4 u really meet him.

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See i liek this girl but she lieks another guy and i always try to tell her but she never liek answers wat do I do?
signed,
confused

confused-
just start dropping big hints, and try being a little romantic with her, you might still have a chance. girls love it when someone they didnt expect it from suprises them with something romantic.

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