Hey I'm wisemen, I'm 15, I'm single, my yahoo i.d. is wiseguy_2011, and I'm always here to help ask anything and I'll try to answer the best i can so that you will be happy. I'm a very peaceful guy so i don't get mad often, any relationship problems ask me, because most likely I've been in the spotlight once. Thanks!
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i like this kid named ty
so i told my best friend (molly)
to tell him i like him
so for like a week or 2 after he found out i liked him he never stopped staring at me (yayy me)
but then like a month after i told him he asks molly to go on a date with him! (not so yayy)
whats up with that!?
EVERY ONE LIKES HER!
what do i need to do to get through to this kid that im interested (he should already kno!)
i've already tried looking into his eyes when we talk (i think i scared him)
i tried the whole flirty thing
(maybe i dont kno how to flirt!)
oh gawd i dont o_0
HELP!!!!!
ps
-i sit next to him in SS (if that helps)
-hes in practically all my classes (link)
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well maybe he was waiting on you to ask him out, because some guys just don't feel comfortable asking girls out. when him and Molly break up wait a little while for him to think about who he likes and hopefully its still you. Hope all goes well!
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I think I am falling for this guy, i realllly like him. But he has a girlfriend. He just started going to my school today, so I get to see him very often now.
I dont know where to start.
He has a girlfriend, but I am falling so hard for him.
He is suppppppppper sweet, he's attractive, i love his personality. He's like perfect.
idk what to do.
help (link)
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o.k. since he has a girlfriend just become his friend right now and if he breaks up with her then he would probably choose you to date since your a friend. to become his friend just start off with introducing yourself and what your like and your personality. Hope all goes well!
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im in love with a guy who i know i cant never be with..even though we talk right now but i know i am waisting my time but somehow i cant get him outta my mind specially when we talk as soon as i come to forget about him he calls or doez something to make me want to stay in the game..i know for a fact there are other gurls in his life but still i cant have the courage to j cut him outta my life...wut should i do? how am i suppose to get over him wen everything i do reminds me of him??????????? (link)
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well i think you should give him a chance and if anything goes bad like cheating on you (hopefully not) dump him. If you don't want to give him a chance then try and think about another guy you like or study on your school work. hopefully all goes well!
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I have mental problems or so I think I do. Sometimes I just want to give up because it seems easier to just freak out and let it go. I really don't know what to do though. I just feel like everyone is happier than me and there's not one person out there that's as sad as me. I think my mom wants to move away but that will just cause problems that means I have to start over. Which my fear is that nobody will like me and I'll have to be sad and stuff. Guys are really mean to me and I don't really understand why it's not like I hurt them in any kind of way. I don't want to move I just want a happy life. (link)
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well hopefully this move will make you feel better because where you are right now it sounds like that you don't like the place a lot and a new start could mean new friends and you can start all over like if you ever did any thing embarrassing the new people wont know about it and I'm sure not everyone is happier than you so cheer up :D Hope all goes well!
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Ok so this kid i like has been ignoring me and im not sure if he is mad at me or not and i want to talk to him i just dont know what to say
help plzz!! (link)
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well start off with introducing yourself then start talking about your like and your personality and hopefully he finds out something you both have in common and the conversation will go on from there. Wish you the best of luck!
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Ok so this kid i like has been ignoring me and im not sure if he is mad at me or not and i want to talk to him i just dont know what to say
help plzz!! (link)
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well if he doesnt know you at all start off with introducing yourself and tell him what you like and what you are like such as personality wise. then he will start talking back if he finds something you both have in common then the conversation will go on from there. wish you the best of luck!
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Okay so recently I've become really annoyed and irritable.And I don't meant to be.I start saying things I don't mean to the people I care about and I regret it.Is this normal? Maybe it's a sign I don't know, But I've been really bitchy to my boyfriend and I don't know how he takes it. It's really not intentional, But I'm already a teaser to where I call people dorks and freaks and stuff. I really hope I'm not becoming bitter and getting tired of my boyfriend.Everything's just happening all at once and I'm stressing out big time and I don't know how to handle it.Anyone knows what's happening to me or what I can do to prevent this? (link)
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well maybe because your not eating breakfast for me breakfast gets my mind moving and i can think through what i want to say before i say it and if you are eating breakfast try to think before you say something and who ever you are teasing i would probably talk to them or anyone you hurt in saying something.
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ok here goes my question..
everyone is always talking about oh i got to 3 base and everything. can someone please tell me wut the bases are. wut base is wut??
please and thankyou!
luv,meganlynn (link)
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o.k. well its like in baseball there is first second third and home. its just a little slang for telling people what they did with a guy or girl like first is making out. second i think is a girl given a guy head. third is a blow job. and home is all out sex. thats what i think but it sounds right.
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16/F ok so you know how friends sing in cars together or just blast their music and sing out loud? well i cant seem to do that with my friends. i sing in my room all the time with the music blasting but i cant with people around.. what can i do? (link)
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maybe you could take choir or start of with you singing to one person like a little brother, sister, mom, dad, cousin or someone and then build up from there.
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does anyone know any excuses that i could tell my parents when i come home with a hickey? they would kill me if they knew but i dont know what to tell them if they see it.. help! (link)
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try saying you got hit by a paintball or you got hit with a wiffle ball on your way back.
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Yesterday when I was talking to my BF, I asked him if he got mad at me the night before and he said yea. Me and a bunch of our friends were sitting around a table in my friends backyard. There werent enough chairs so I sat on my BF's lap and one of my guy friends sat on my friend thats a girl's lap. There is an inside joke we have that she's a banana and I wanted to "squiish" her so I sat on the guys lap who was sitting on her. It wasnt even in a way at all that even seemed more thn friendly and my BF knows that and he knows I wouldn nver cheat on him in any way. I would never touch a guy I felt was in more than a friendly way. He got mad at me and I knew it right away cause he got really quiet. He also told me to never do it again when I feel I didnt even do anything wrong. I wasnt like rubbing up against the kid or making it seem at all more than just sitting on him. But the thing is, he's actually slept over a girl friend of his's house before I met her and all I knew was she was his ex. I did not get mad or jealous. He also went wasnt home for two days and idnt call me either one to tell me where he was or anything. I had to ask his sister. I didnt get mad at him for that either. I don't think I could trust him anymore than I do right now but it just makes me so angry he got madd over that. (link)
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well this shows that he really cares about you and you forgive his mistakes so i would advise that you talk to him that you forgive a lot of his mistakes and you would like him to do the same for you.
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This is reallllly long, I'm sorry!!
To start off, my last relationship (also my first) was horrible. I don't know what I was thinking. I went to camp with him, we kind of sort of shyly talked and I liked him, he asked me out and I said yes. We hung out 3 times in a span of 2 months and he smoked in front of me (after I told him I hate it) and just used me... and cheated on me with at LEAST 4 girls. Those are just the ones I know about. I don't care about him at all anymore, I never think about him, we didn't talk before so we still don't now.
So my point is that that relationship kind of left a mark and now I have some of the same fears. I am now in a relationship with a boy who was one of my best friends. We both kind of admired each other from afar before we met, then when we did we liked each other's personalities too and realized we liked each other. And, lucky us, we had a mutual friend and eventually it was like our 2 groups of friends merged and now we are an inseparable pack. haha. So after a year or so of liking each other he finally asked me out (he was so shy. He had actually been in a relationship with one of my "friends" who no one really likes. And they didn't talk the WHOLE time. It was pointless. And my friend KNEW I liked him and still asked HIM out! And he was desperate I guess, and that mutual friend from before convinced him to do it.) Other than this though he was so shy and I didn't think he even liked girls yet, haha.
Everyone thought us going out would be awkward since he used to be so shy with girls. But after a few days of a nothing-changed-still-good-friends relationship, we started treating each other like more than friends. And we have been great ever since (It has been about 4 1/2 months).
Sorry for such a long prelude, but it does take a while to understand.
Anyway, he is so good to me. And having had that horrible relationship before, I feel like I am not being grateful enough for what he does for me because I am always a little skeptical.
I am a very jealous person, but I don't like anyone to know that, so I try to keep it hidden. He doesn't really talk to many other girls except my best friends which is fine. But there is one girl I always thought liked him and I thought he used to like her, and sometimes I still worry about it. He has dealt with me asking about her and worrying and annoying him about her multiple times and he is still okay with it. He says she is too difficult to talk to and doesn't have anything important to say so he could never like her anyway. He teases her, but most of the time it is her that initiates talking to him. I know that's how boys flirt so I asked him about it. He said that that isn't how he flirts. At first I didn't believe him, but then he told me how he just teases everyone else and when he was "flirting" with me he never did. And it's true, he never really did tease me. But does that make sense? Is he just the guy who flirts differently or is he saying that?
Anyway, a while ago my friends who were going out broke up. My boyfriend said something like "well I can see where James (the guy who broke up with the girl) is coming from. I mean we are sophomores in high school. We can't expect to last forever. Like right now I see no reason for us to break up at all, but I don't think it will last forever"
Well, it hurt but I knew I shouldn't be naive and expect us to be together forever since we are so young.
After a while we were talking and I told him that I made 11:11 wishes that he would always love me. And he said he would love me forever. I want to believe him because it is such a sense of security knowing that he won't be gone tomorrow, but what he said before holds me back.
He says I make him happy and that before I was with him he was just okay, never actually happy. The way he describes it, like I compliment him and he has fun hanging out with me, sounds half like maybe I am just an ego boost. I don't know.
Also, he told me the other day that he doesn't think of me as a girlfriend. "We treat each other like boyfriend and girlfriend, but I just always think of you as more like my best friend. I guess it just never hit me. I know you are my girlfriend but it takes me a while to realize it sometimes." He's not stupid, don't worry. I just wonder if that is a good thing?
I feel like I am forgetting something I wanted to ask. But I just feel like I need someone's input on this. I have no problems with him but these things just stay in the back of my mind and I think about them too much. (link)
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he just a guy that flirts differently i flirt that way to because i dont like teasing girls that i like because that could make them mad and not like you. its a good thing to think that you are his best friend because that means its easy to talk to you and you like that dont you?
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I am an intelligent junior in high school and as of now i have yet to have a real boyfriend. i look at other girls walkin around w/ their guys and i get so left out. i dont know what i m not doing. i mean, when i like a guy, its pretty frickin obvious but i can never get them to notice me like i want. and if they do its one of those "courtesy talks", like they'd rather be doing something else.
i will probably graduate 1st in my class, as much as i m working now...
but my lovelife has yet to begin and i feel like i m working so hard, but still not feeling as satisfied/happy with my life as i want (link)
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well instead of having a courtesy talk try a conversation about who they like or if they would like to go somewhere with you its always good to finish first in class but whats the point in it if you didnt have fun on your way there. so talk to a guy if they would like to do something with you and see what they say.
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15/f
this is gonna sound way conceited, but i promise, im not trying to be. im much prettier then my friend. i mean, shes like fat and everything, so i mean obviously, guys dont like her much. plus she acts really stupid alot. anyways, since im a freshman, ive made alot of new friends. and so when me and her will be wlaking down the hall, just about every person says hi to me, and i stop and talk and make yano small talk. and she gets mad, and walks away. anyways, whenever i talk about like guys or something, she like finds some way to insult them. and its just really annoying. what should i do? (link)
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you should introduce her to the people that say hi to you and then maybe they will start talking to her and say hi to her.
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Yesterday evening my parents went out for a meal and me and my friend decided to drink a bottle of champagne we got very drunk and went out for a bit when we came home my parents friends were around along with my neighbours. Inever get to see the friends which had come down from somerset it was there last day staying with my nieghbours i just said hello to them and walked up the stairs i didnt want to go in the room because i was to drunk. When i was upstairs my parents were shouting emily come down and chat with us say hello i just shouted im trieed sorry and "no" I feel so bad my parents said i was really rude and i dont no what to say to my neighbours when i see them! ??? HELP (link)
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sorry im not it the greatest mood right now but um hi glad you could come over.
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How do you get a backround and a picture on your advice column?
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on the left hand column you will see under Welcome then your name profile setting and column settings thats where you would go.
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hey!
ok, well im in 9th grade and im going to a HUGE halloween party. I mean ive been invited to parties before, but not any that is this big- most of the grade will be there-. I guess you could say that im popular, but not really really popular, ya know? If that helps any..
Ok, so on to my question, im 14/f and i have no idea what to wear.. I dont know if people are even going to be wearing costumes.. but lets say they are... what to wear?? I want it to be something that people will think wow thats awesome, but not to BOLD, and something sexy but not to sexy, or it doesnt have to be sexy at all, but nothing childish..
and if they dont wear costumes, what should i wear? Just normal clothes, or should i brush it up a bit, how much??
Sorry im just freaking out..
Anything will help, and thanks soo much for your help!! (link)
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if they do dress up you should like be a rock star with a guitar hero controller for your guitar or a real one if you have it then then dye your hair or spray it a different color or something and then make-up and if they arent dressing up go in your regular clothes that way you are the way you want yourself to be.
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Why does everyone hate me so much. I don't have to do anything to them and they hate me. Tell me why? (link)
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well maybe its not what you do to them maybe its what you do or how you do something try and not do a lot of things around other people because they have to see it to hate you but im sorry everyone hates you but i dont because i havent seen you do anything.
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16/f
This past summer me and my best friend hung out with a group of guys. We spent like the whole summer with them. We all started out as friends. Then one day my best friend told me that one of the guys liked me more as friends.
So we had a little thing. We held hands and kissed and things like that. I guess you could say we were dating.Everything was going good and we had a lot of fun when we hung out.He would always text me and stuff. And at first i loved it. But he wanted me to hang out with him almost EVERYDAY. And i wanted time for my other friends too. So i kinda ignored his texts and didnt say anything to him for a while.(yeah i know that wasnt the right thing to do)After that we just didnt even talk anymore.
Well anyways now that school has started and i see him every single day, i think im might still have a thing for him. And i drive myself crazy thinking about how it would have been if we still were together.I want to be friends with him again. The only thing is, he doesnt even look at me. And i know that he is mad but,i have NO CLUE what to do!!!!! PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!
Thanks to anyone that answers, i really appericate it! (: (link)
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well just simply go up to him and say "im sorry that i didnt talk to you for a while but i wanted to spend some time with my friends because they were worried that i wasnt there friend anymore i still like you" and then you take it from there.
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I just got a HORRIBLE grade on a test. Definitely failed. I've never gotten a grade so low, and I don't know what to do or think. I can't make it up or get extra credit. I keep crying and I've never gotten under a B+ on my report card. I know you guys can't help me magically change my grade, but any words of comfort? Thanks so much. (link)
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i remember the first time i failed something i was really mad i wanted to punch the teacher but my mom said its o.k. just lets study a little bit more and i didnt get another bad grade the rest of the year so let it pass you, forget about it, just get the next one and ace it.
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