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Just a summer love.
16/f
This past summer me and my best friend hung out with a group of guys. We spent like the whole summer with them. We all started out as friends. Then one day my best friend told me that one of the guys liked me more as friends.
So we had a little thing. We held hands and kissed and things like that. I guess you could say we were dating.Everything was going good and we had a lot of fun when we hung out.He would always text me and stuff. And at first i loved it. But he wanted me to hang out with him almost EVERYDAY. And i wanted time for my other friends too. So i kinda ignored his texts and didnt say anything to him for a while.(yeah i know that wasnt the right thing to do)After that we just didnt even talk anymore.
Well anyways now that school has started and i see him every single day, i think im might still have a thing for him. And i drive myself crazy thinking about how it would have been if we still were together.I want to be friends with him again. The only thing is, he doesnt even look at me. And i know that he is mad but,i have NO CLUE what to do!!!!! PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!
Thanks to anyone that answers, i really appericate it! (:
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Start talking to him, but do it slowly. Text him first and ask how he is doing. A day later you can call him. Depending on how he is reacting start hanging out with him in school, and take it from there.
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Like you said, ignoring him totally probably wasn't the best thing to do. But I understand why you did that. If you really want to be friends with him again, be the mature one and go up to him in the hallways. IMing and texting isn't going to get him to listen to you. You need to be strong and jsut go up to him and tell him that you're sorry that you stopped talking and that you really want to pick up where you left off. Tell him you wanted to be with your friends too and that you didn't think that he'd understand that. Just make sure you tell him how you feel, and since you're trying to win him back, be nice about it. I really do think will understand as long as you're true and sincere.
I really hope this works out.
Keep me posted!
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well just simply go up to him and say "im sorry that i didnt talk to you for a while but i wanted to spend some time with my friends because they were worried that i wasnt there friend anymore i still like you" and then you take it from there.
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