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I need mental help, but where do I go to get it?
I have mental problems or so I think I do. Sometimes I just want to give up because it seems easier to just freak out and let it go. I really don't know what to do though. I just feel like everyone is happier than me and there's not one person out there that's as sad as me. I think my mom wants to move away but that will just cause problems that means I have to start over. Which my fear is that nobody will like me and I'll have to be sad and stuff. Guys are really mean to me and I don't really understand why it's not like I hurt them in any kind of way. I don't want to move I just want a happy life.
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You can have a happier life, it's really easy, don't loom your head down just yet you. Think of it this way, when you move it'll be a new begining and a new chapter in your life, don't think of it as something bad, just think of it as a great oportunity, How so? you ask will like this ^^ just elave your old self out there, the sad and the worries alone. Look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself "today is my day and no one will take it from me" buld up your confidence and people will notice a new you. Confidance makes the man and im sure you have a lot of it just eeking to come out. Not everyone is happier than you, some people do have it worse so don't feel like they're having fun all the time. Don't always be afriad of new things and people, meeting new people's the greatest thing ever cause of the new ideas and interests that some poeple have. I met you right? maybe not personaly but enough to know your problem and solve it am i right? new things scare everyone which is why our country's not using new and potential good fuels to help us, it scares them. "change why im afraid and just going to look the otherway"
Don't worry about guys at this point, you should really worry about studiing and working hard on yourself for now. If you show that you're more into your own beat on life guys will wonder what kind of exciting person you are and will ghet to know you more, friend or more than. I used tot think like you a while back but i just looked up in the sky and realized that life is nothing BUT changes and it will never stop, people will be friends and the next day hate you, time will never slow, love will never last but there's a reason, cause it's a challenge to see if you're worthy of making your life a happy one. Now the question is, are you up for it? are you up for the challenege of saying "fuck this, i can, i can do this and no one will take it away from me" Dream and keep that dream for in life that's all we'll have. School is only temperary but life last more. ^^ Anyway i hope i helped a lil. Keep up the good work and hope to hear form you. ^^ take care now, i know you'll make it.
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Trust me. There ARE people out there who are even sadder than you are. So now you know you are not alone.
Have you considered that a fresh start may be just what you need? Guys are mean where you are, they may not be at your new place. You may just have that happy life. Make sense?
As for getting help, the first step is telling your mom what is going on and that you feel you need help. THEN choose a therapist. If you don't know who to chose, ask your family doctor for a referral.
Or, you can find a support group online. Here is a link that directs you to a group of your choice if you want to do online support:
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well hopefully this move will make you feel better because where you are right now it sounds like that you don't like the place a lot and a new start could mean new friends and you can start all over like if you ever did any thing embarrassing the new people wont know about it and I'm sure not everyone is happier than you so cheer up :D Hope all goes well!
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