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how do i congradulate a friend who made it on to a competition? (link)
give the person a card or just tell the person congrats!


Ok, Last nite my b/f told me that he smokes. I didnt really know what to do. I mean I dont want him to smoke and he said that he's trying to stop and its not really working. I dont know what to do. Can someone plz help me cuz itz like really annoying me that he smokes. I mean its not really a big deal but I just dunno.... (link)
since he's tryin 2 stop help him as much as you can. wen u see him smoking tell him to stop. or wen u see see a cigarett packet take it away from him. i hope i helped


me and my sister argue like crazy.its constant.my confidence is already low as im struggling at school.shes not making it any easier calling me thick shit etc.i try not to argue cos it really upsets my mum but i cant let her get away with it can i?what shall i do.i tried talking carmly to her but it doesnt werk?plse reply swn i rate good!xxxx (link)
ignore her. pretend u dont care. when she relizes your not paying attention 2 her she'll give up. i ignore my sister all da time!


Ok so im 15 and i live in Concord Pleasant Hill, walnut Creek California area does anyone know where i can get a job that hires 15 year olds? (link)
no i dont no but you should ask your friends, teachers, or parents. or you could go to stores and find out if they are hireing.


my best friend has done "things" with a guy that i never thought she would do i mean shes only 14 and i have known her for about 8 years and she has never done anyhting like this before...i know its like none of my buisness to what she does but i just dont know what to say to her or what to think of her anymore...what do i do??? (link)
tell her 2 stop dat wat she's doin isn't rite. and if she doesn't stop tell her if she contiunes your not gonna b her friend no more. i hope i helped. please rate!


I'm 13 and I had high cholesteral since I was 3. My parents aren't exactly cooks and we always eat food made from instant and frozen foods. I'm skinny, but still I need to exersice, but I'm too lazy because the food I eat isn't giving me enough energy. Any suggestions on how to be healthier? (link)
you should try 2 excise more even though you dont like it. tell yourself if u dont exercise your risking your life. i hope i helped. please dont rate low!


well theres this guy that i really really like..lets say his name is jared...he's nice, funny, veryy sweet and be get along great...he's everything i could possibly want!! well anyways i've known him for about a year and we've become best friends..but i like him more than a friend...one of my friends..lets say his name is timmy...talked to him for me...then a lil while lata one of his friends came ask me if i liked jared..of course i said yes...then i ask jred's friend wut he thought of me..she said he thought i was really nice and sweet and had a great personality...and he told timmy wut i said...but then jared said he needed time to think...so a few days lata he said he wasnt ready and he didnt wanna ruin or friendship...well timmy still kept asking him question but jared said things like no comment and idk or he changes the subject or just doesnt answer...he almost asked me to a school dance..but i guess he chickened out...i dont know what to think...i think i wouldve given up by now but he talks to me almost every night and he smiles at me almost everyday as school...i dunno if i should give up and settle for just a friend... (link)
for now you should seetle as a friend since jared doesn't no wat 2 think of u as. if you still have feelings 4 him in a while you should tell him face to face in private and make sure he answers u. i hope i helped. please rate!


Why do people make fun of white people? I mean, it's just a color....Also, people will make fun of me because I'm Jewish and it hurts because Jews fought for their freedom just like black people, so why is skin color such a big deal? (link)
datz just racism. you should try 2 ignore it cause people are just being childdish and ridulous.


well there is this guy...he tells me that he likes me but he always uses the excuse "i dont want a girlfriend right now" i really like him and i have for 2 years now...am i suppose to just forget about him? i dont know what to do i could really use some help...thanks (link)
you should go 4 it! if u ignore it your feelings 4 him will grow longer. i hope i helped. please rate!


There is this kid at school that I have known for about 3 years. He constantly bugs me and acts like he is flirting with me. We are both in this show at school and I was dancing for my part in the show and he screamed Work it girl! I know he was talking to me but I dont know if he meant anything my it. I dont like him at all. As a friend but not a b/f. He is always trying to go out of his way to be super nice to me to. Please help me.

Luv Ya xoxoxoxo,
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you should find out if he likes u. if he does tell him u only like him as a friend. i hoped i helped. please rate!


What do you do if your friend tells you to find someone new, because they like the same person you do and say they like them back? I believe it to be a bit harsh. If your friend cared for you, wouldn't they just leave it alone instead of saying something like that?
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i think it proves the person isn't really your friends. dont rate low!


I had moved to Cancun for like 4 months from aug.- december.. now im back in the states.. I have been with my BF for 11 months and when I was living in mex. in november he cheated on me ( meaning had sex!!) with a girl at our school.. I finally moved back when I found out.. I didnt break up with him or anything because I kind of understood since I was in another country and he didnt know when I was coming back.. he was so sorry and cried to me and told me that im the only girl he wants to be with for the rest of his life.. he also told me that they were drunk and that it was a big mistake.. I asked his best friend about it and he didnt know about it.. he told me that he must have been really ashamed of it because he didnt even tell his bestfriend... I know that if I was going to break up with him or anything like that that its a little too late.. but what can I do.. I already talked to him about it.. its just that everytime I walk by the girl he had sex with I get so disgusted and dont even want to look at my BF.. I sometimes cry because of what he did hurt me so bad..anyone have some advice? (link)
you should try 2 past dis after all day were drunk, he cryed, u moved away. for give him. i hope i helped. please dont rate me low!


How is the best way to get a tan? Sun or tanning salon. I need one bad after this winter I am so pale. Any ideas? (link)
sun is a great way try it


me and my bf like each other ALOT and i always have fun with him... lately he's been acting different in a good way though. like hes been talkin to me everytime he gets he kisses me more often and stuff like that. does this mean he wants to take it to the next level in our relationship? or is does he just like me alot (link)
it could be both. you should ask him. i hoped i helped!


does any one no any tricks to making deoderant last longer?? thanks a bunch (link)
use it about 3-4 times a day . please rate!


hey i need to memorize about a page for tomorrow about casmir pulaski for my polish school speech tomorrow and i only know a paragraph. can someone give me some tips on how to memorize things easier and/or faster? thanks, i rate good. =) (link)
for me i make a song or a rap lol. you could try it but i dont no if it'll work 4 u. give it a try!


How do you know if a guy likes you? I am in Middle school and 13 years of age. My friend and me think that this guy in 4 out of 6 of my classes and sometimes he's seems to have a crush on me. Please help me understand. (link)
you no a guy likes you wen he flritys wit u or hang around u alot all of a sudden. i hope i helped!


Ok well this may sound very dumb but here it goes . . . In P.E. we're doing swimming. Today I drowned during the class they were obviously able to resusatate me. I'm embarassed to go in school on monday. The girls in my school are very catty and news spreads fast at my school. I don't remember much of it. All I remember is trying to do a back dive into the pool and all of the water being pushed out of my lungs and trying to breathe next thing I know I'm laying o the hard floor with my class mates staring over me and the lifeguard. It was horrible and terrifying. How should I deal with the girls at school? Is it true that I could get Peunomia (sp?).
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no it's not true! don't worry bout dem you're just lucky dat your alive. it's obvious they are not your friend. i hope i helped. please dont rate me low!


well i have this g/f that ive gone out it now for like 3 weeks i like her and all she wants me hold her hand and all that but im in 7th grade 12 years old and i c like seniors holding hands and all that but holding hands with her makes me feel like ever1 is watchin me and i dont like 2 be in the spot lite. well i do but thats not the piont. should i hold her hand or wat


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holdin hands impared (link)
i think you should hold her hand once and see how it goes. if you like it countine if u don't tell her how u feel. i hope i helped! please rate me high!


ok, there's this guy. He's an old friend of mine and recently I've started liking him as more than a friend. And just in this past week his ex-girlfriend from a while back has started liking him again and I don;t know what to do. I'm afraid I might loose him to her, but last time they were going out she kind of led him on and then broke up with him. I don't know what to think, or what to do. Help and I'll rate high for good stuff! (link)
i think you should tell him how you feel but if you dont wanna lose his friendship you shouldn't tell him cause if he likes you 2 (more than a friend) then wen ya break up ya friend ship will go down da drian. i hope i helped! please dont rate me low lol!




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