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relationships
well i have this g/f that ive gone out it now for like 3 weeks i like her and all she wants me hold her hand and all that but im in 7th grade 12 years old and i c like seniors holding hands and all that but holding hands with her makes me feel like ever1 is watchin me and i dont like 2 be in the spot lite. well i do but thats not the piont. should i hold her hand or wat
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you dont HAVE to hold her hand. it's basically your choice, but if you want your girl to be happy, then yeah... hold her hand.
if you feel uncomfortable doin it in public, then try holdin hands indoors first to get used to the idea. then gradually start holding hands in public. and.. you should also stop thinking that everyone is looking at you. if most of the senoirs are holding hands, you're not gonna be any different from them, so they wont watch you cuz there will probably be hundreds of other people holding hands.
it's kind of like when you have a giant zit on your forehead, and you think that everyone's going to stare at it and laugh or whatever. but in reality, they really dont care. sooo if you hold hands wit your girl, they probably wont care either
it's your choice, and if you really like her, you wont be that scared or think that everyone will be watching you
p.s. where are you from? cuz i didnt know people still held hands..
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just because seniors hold hands, doesn't mean you have to. you can hold hands when it's just the to of you if you don;t feel like making a PDA, which is ok might I add. Do whatever you feel comfortable doing. Good luck!
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yea it doesnt matter how old you are and you defenetly shouldnt feel weird about it. if people watch who cares they will just think its really cute! l0l but anyways yea hold her hand once and c how it goes its not that big of a deal! x0
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i think you should hold her hand once and see how it goes. if you like it countine if u don't tell her how u feel. i hope i helped! please rate me high!
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