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why do people on here ask about touchy questions when they dont want to hear the truth? like for instance some person just asked why people are mean to mormans or something along those lines and although ive never heard that i told the person exactly why i know mormans are unliked from where im from and he flipped on me because i guess thats not what he wanted to here. so if you dont want to hear the truth why do you ask those questions?
No way to get rid of them butI totally understand you. this kid asked me if anal sex and giving head were the same thing, so i figured he was cluless about sex so i gave him a whole lesson and then he put FU in the comment section! what's wrong with these ppl?
For the sims game for nintendo DS, how would i convince Lord Mole not to chew at the power lines? I haven't been able to figure it out. Thanks.
To get the mole guy to go away, you gotta use the soaker gun. Just aim at him and spray away! a pop-up will tell you that he promisses to stop!
I'm like a super girl aren't I? I like sports (sometimes) play video games (alot of the time)!!!
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 months. we hold hangs on the bus [yeah, corny, i know.] and hug and all that.. but what are some things like their girlfriends to do. btw, im 14, so is he. i just want to let him know i do care about him and everything..
i'm 15 and all i ever do with my boyfriends is hug and kiss and hang out during and after school!
is it gay for a guy to go on a diet?
no not to me! it's not gay if you wanna lose weight then do so. my guy friend likes to wear skirts, halter tops, and high heels to school. NOW THAT IS GAY!
Ok well theres this guy i work with and hes younger then me but really cute, and i kinda like him. Anyway he talks to me a lot but i find he talks to the other girls as well. I know its weird but i am the jealous type and i was wondering how i would determine if he likes me more then the other girls he talks to. So here are some things i can tell:
We've worked the same hours toghther almost for a week and everyday he finds some way to talk to me, either its to ask me something or joke around me, and every night before he leaves he tells me good night.
-He kinda makes fun of me jokingly about how i should bag faster and that he must faster then i am.
-He was collecting shopping carts all alone one night and he asked me to come and help him (just the 2 of us) i dunno if he meant it romantically though or if he just wanted help, lol
-i have caught him checking me out but how do i know he just isn't a "guy" and that he does this to everyone?
I guess i am unsure of his signals due to the fact thats he younger and i don't know how to determine his signs. So any help on this topic will be helpful. Thanks in advance. P.S I rate all 5's
i don't think he does this everyone. he's paying you special attention. maybe you should give him a chance and ask him out. he probably loves that you're older than him, too!
Okay welll... 13/f and i am getting a white discharge in my underwear and it does not smell good at all. I have started my period so its nothing like that i mean it might involve it but its not warning me or anything. Never have been sexually active either so i dont know how to clean better down there and have tht stuff stop coming out. also. how are you and what are u supposed to be cleaning with down in tht region?Does it help to shave?
if the discharge is like whit and clear and kind of feels like snotthen it's nothing to worry about. if it looks and feels kind of like cottage cheese then you have a problem. don't worry, it's easy to fix! since you're not sexually active then you must have a UTI. all you need to do is go down to your local drug store or supermarket and buy a douche and some body wash from a company called Summer's Eve. when you get home, undress and jump in the bathtub to use the douche [it'll have directions] and then take a shower or bath and use the body wash cleanse "down there". your vagina is self-cleansing so there is no need to be trying to stick your finger in there to clean it out! oh and if you're like me and like to put powder down there, buy powder that says it doesn't have talc, that causes cancer! you can also buy that from the SUmmer's eve company!hope i helped!
hey i just wanna know if iam not a virgin will my husband know on the wedding night??? is there a way for him not to know?
no not really. you could fake it though! do kegal exercises!. just sit down and tighten your vagini as if you were trying to stop yourself from peing. just do about 100 a day and in 3 months, it should be as tight as ever! this doesn't work if you get around...and around...and around!
I'm a tiny little person (13/f) and my mom wants me to exercise. Aside from burning off fat and staying at a healthy weight, why is it important to exercise?
because in order for your body to function correctly it must have some type of exercise. also you are young and have a high metabolism. you should keep it up to par.
okay i want to wear eyeliner and like i look good in it and i know how to put it on my bottom eyelid but how do i put it on the top? i cant figure it out and like i put it on the little like thing that sorta suctions to your eye and since its like near my eye it comes off quick. what do i need for long lasting easy to put on oh and give me your sn so you can explain better cus im like sped and no one here is from new bedford mass? is anyone?
if you are looking for thetrampy look, use liquid eyeliner. if you are just wnating your eyes to be defined,use eyeline about two shades lighter then your hair color. and use the regular eyeliner with sharpened point. if you want the goth look use regular eyeliner with a dull point all the way around your eyes and smudge it outward and if you want to make your eyes look more open (like after going to bed at 4 A.M.) use white eye liner if you are white and burnt goldish eyeliner if you are black or tanned and smudge it! hope i helped
im very confused i have a girlfriend and i like this guy (yes im bi) he is awsome im friends with him we have alot incommon n i dont know but people say he is gay so im hoping. well any way i dotn know if i should break up with my girldfriend n then c if he is gay or any thing at all or has any intrest in me.or c if he is gay n has any intrest in me n if he dose then break up with my gf. dont get me wrong i like my girlefriend and all but i like this kid more. if any one can give me realy good advice ill rate high.
see if he's gay and is interested in you first then break up with your girls friend if you really wanna end it with her. wraning though, everyone i know who has ever left someone for someone else has regretted it!
ok im 13/f 8th grade. im one of the only girls who dosen't/has never had a boyfriend. in 7th grade and down i used to be sortof a tomboy. i still am kindof, but i dont dress like i used to. im starting to dress...like regular girls. i was just wondering what it is about me that guys dont like? i like video games and fighting stuff, and stuff that guys like. a few girls think if i dressed a little different i would be really pretty and stuff. is there anything i should change/traits i should have? i wont completly change my personality, but any tips? and guys, what do yo ulike in a girl?
thanks
You definitely don't need to change yourself for a guy. that'll fuck you up mentally and the relationship won't be real. it'll be a total and complete scam! you also don't need to rush into getting a boyfriend. the right boy will coem and i'm sure some of them wanna holla but just haven't said anything yet. honestly though, you're bound to have alot of guy friends because you like the same things they do. i'mneutral though so what do i know. I have about the same amount of guy friends as i do girl friends. i've got alot of friends!
15 - Female
Okay, so, there is this guy I like a lot. I care for him a lot, I would do anything for him just about. We're pretty good friends, we keep in touch and whatnot -he lives a little bit away and he doesn't go to the same school as me-. One of the problems is, he's a really busy guy, he's got a job, school, and things he's been working on outside of school. I just want to spend time with him. It's kind of hard to be in a relationship with someone who lives a bit away, I know.. but yeah. He seems to enjoy my company as well and he tells me he wants to come down, but he has to go to work and stuff like that. We've talked about being in a relationship before, and he told me that he didn't want to be in one because he doesn't want his heartbroken again and he's too busy for a relationship... soo..
..Sorry that's all kinda jumbled. But yeah. Does anybody have any good ideas on places guys like to go with girls when they're just friends? Places that will keep them entertained and not have their brains wandering?
Aaaaaaannd... do you think we should stay friends? Is there anything I could do to make him want me more?
i think for now you should stay friends but let him know that you really like him and if he wanted to be toghether with you, you wanna be with him.
HEy!! Well, I'm having my birthday party Jan. 27. ThErE'll be mostly girls though, probably only 2 guys (onE is gay and onE has a gf, so kEEp that in mind). I alrEady know thE timE and EvErything, but I was wondEring what kind of stuff wE could do, bEsidEs sit around. LikE, what kind of gamEs and things. And what should I do to dEcoratE? Don't say Spin thE bottlE or any kind of gamEs likE that. What kind of food and drinks should I havE?? I'm sorry, but I'm rEally bad at party planning. I want to havE a REALLY GOOD party, and I don't know what to do! PlEasE hElp!!!
xoxo MEEEEE
I think you should all go out to eat and/or to the movies. that would be so much more relaxed. if you have it at your house,chances are ppl will be sitting around bored. the girl to guy ratio will be like 1:0.005! you can go out to eat and you'll al have a fun time talking a joking around then see like a scary movie! that'll be much better. it'll be like hanging out with your friends to celebrate your birthday!
Ok here is a question that ponders my mind my mind, any ideas about the answer?? Where do the dinosaurs come in the bible?? and also if God existed forever then what was he doing before he created earth??
God is a mythical story. the bible is just one big book of fairy tales!
Ok, I'm going to go through all of this and try to not sound vain or concieted. I'm just going to be totally honest because I am the 'advisor' of our group and I am totally killing myself trying to help her.
So my friend Angela and I were fat geeks two years ago. I was the one with the sense of fashion though. Last summer, she went on vacation and came back totally transformed and in shape. She has a really nice body now. I passed on all my advice to her and she started wearing designer labels and boots and pretty much copying my "style". I didn't mind though, like it's flattering to me that she would take whatever I said to heed.
Over the last two years, I got thinner too but I a little overweight and not nearly as thin as Angela.
The problem with Angela is that she isn't the prettiest girl on the block. She has a huge forehead which she has covered up with bangs but now her face is totally square-shaped and it kind of looks like a block. She has no-lips, not thin lips, just no lips. The thing that stands out about her is her gorgeous blue eyes and her body. Anyway, she's not very attractive but she's a very nice and honest (although sometimes she annoys guys by nagging and starting arguments).
So I don't have that great of a body but I'm lucky, I inhereted good genes from my parents. I'm not as beautiful as mother but I'm fairly ok.
All my other friends are really pretty too.
So we recently found out that Angela was upset because the rest of our friends complemented me more than they complemented her. Well, I was pretty mad because I didn't think she should be that superficial. People usually commented when she went the extra mile to get ready when they do that all the time to me. Honestly, I thought it was a fair trade, I was... I guess prettier than her but she has a great body.
Now guys aren't all that interested in her. She's pretty much labeled herself desperate in fun (something no one should do even if they're joking, in my opinion). Some guys say it's becasue she comes on too strong and some say she isn't that pretty.
Recently, this guy told one of my friends that he thought I was hotter than Angela. That friend told Angela and Angela hinted that she didn't understand why. When we're all together and I talk about how so-and-so might have been hitting on me, she agrees with everyone when they say that he probably was but I can kind of -sense- that "Yeah right" is on her mind.
For example, if a guy in our class talks to me a lot, the next day, she'll wear a more revealing sexy top to the same top and try to talk to him a lot.
I'm wondering what's going on with her. Does she think I'm ugly or something? Is it jealousy? Or she thinks I'm unattractive and doesn't think guys will like me? Is she competing with me? She doesn't do it with my other friends and they're prettier than me and have better bodies. I'm afraid that this thing will escalate and I'll lose her.
I need to know how to fix this- and also try to get her a boy friend because she really wants one too. I rate 5s.
Let me tell you what it is. I was so hugh at one time in my life but then i lostweight and i feel pretty and boys wanna holla and this and that. IT'S LIKE BEING A REGULAR GIRL RIGHT! well when Angela lost all that weight she thought she would just glide right in and be just one of those girls. and she's upset becuase that's not the way it works. she thought, "as soon as i lose this weight i can be normal and have a boyfriend and wear a bikini and go on hot dates all the time" but now that she has a slamming body and that's not her reality, she's disappointed. she doesn't understand why she can't have it all. and trust me, being like you and your friends is having it all. honestly, there is not much you CAN do. she has to learn to like herself for herself. i think the two of you both are superficial but have good reason to be. all the time you were fat you had to think about what other ppl thought of you and that's a hard habit to break and hard to get out of that state of mind. i think the reason she doesn't do that bratty thing with her other friends is becaue when you two were overweight, you were in it toghether and now that you're smaller, you're not in it toghether. you're doing your own thing now and she feels like if the boys can't accept her the way they do to you then there is no way that you two are still the same people. and i'm sure she doens't think you're ugly. she envies you! i guarantee it. she's jealous. she wants to be better than you. she probably wishes she was you.!
im izzy im 15 and relly confused i like just met this dude like um this year. hes pretty cool and i kinda like him... no i LOVE him! lol i guess u could say im obsessed! i got really brave nd I asked him out and ya he said NO butt his homies tell me that he likes me which is weird and i think he tries to hit to me HE likes me.. so well if he really duz likes me and I LOVE him shouldn't we go out?? i think so He's really shy& afraid to have a girlfriend. But I love him to death and I need him badly. &The sad thing is, is that I know he loves me back. How can I get him to get over his stage? What can I do to make him show his feelings? I know he likes me.. But how do I get him to show it and go out with me?
Tell him that. say "listen boy.i know you like me! and you know i like you. so just get out of your shy stage and go to the movies with me on friday!" if your brave enough to ask him out then you're brave enough to say that!
i just got my period i take a bath soon i know that you have to take your pad off but how does the blood stop coming out if u take a bath or a shower. explain them both to me fast and i will right all 5s if u hurry
you should always take your pad off when taking a shower. and it doesn't stop just because you're in the shower!i wish it did. i'd stay in the shower ALL DAY! you just have to cleanse yourself while it's still going on. it's notlike the blood falls out like a waterfall anyway. as soon as you get out the shower put on a pad or stick in a tampon. and you should try tampons. they are so comfy you can't even feel 'em!
Okay so i think i want to celebrate my sweet 16 a little early this year...well at first i wanted to take my 2 best friends to a restaurant called shogun... but then i realized it's a japanese restaurant and im not into their food....so now i'm stuck....i live in middle tennessee and can get to nashville, franklin, brentwood with ease....so if anyone knows of any restaurants around the middle tennessee area that would be great...or if you dont know anything about the restaurants in this area but have a restaurant in mind then please share...I'm open to any idea! Also...one more thing...if anyone has sum suggestions on what to do after/before dinner...that'd be great too! Thnkx soooo much!
I'm guessing you live in or neat Murfreesboro...am i right? even though i probably wrong! i recommend Joey's House of Pizza.The phone number is (615) 661-0032. you can call for the address and stuff. they have good food and it's cool and informal. coole place to chill and eat pizza. if you want a place with waiters and stuff there is an Outback Steakhouse(615) 849-9200 and an O'Charley's (615) 898-0390. not to mention a chili's extremely near by (615) 867-2855. those last 3 resteraunts have websites so you can check em out if you don't already know them. I suggest chili's! i hope i helped.
this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.
lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??
thanks!!
no... unless you fucked the toilet itself, you wouldn't get pregnant. oh and you really shouldn't sit on the public toilets. they are so unsanitary!
15/f For the past 9 years i have been constantly bullied and since september 05 i have been homeschooled. the bullying was to much for me to handle it was literally every one! and no im not over reacting. if it was a few people i would of been able to deal with it but it was groups of people from each year in my school.
And i would sit in my classes with every one chanting names at me, dont get me wrong i often fired back with comments about there bad points but i felt so mean, im not the sort of person to bully or be nasty!
I was born with cleft lip and pallette and of course i had operations to correct it but i have a few scars and so on.
I used to get comments like.. fish lips, bulldog, lipricorn, half moon and so on and i still get them every now and again when i go out.
but now i have no friends what so ever except for the people i speak to online as all the friends i did have have now turned against me and joined in with the bullying!! YEH GREAT MATES RIGHT?? erm no.
The thing is i feel so ugly, i know im not ugly ugly but im not exactly pretty either and its getting me down! what can i do to give myself the confidence boost i need?
I know exactly how you feel. my mom has always told me that i'm ugly and stupid and dumb and worthless and now that is exactly how i feel all the time. when i'm alone i feel pretty but when i'm outside with friends i constanly ask them how do i look. the tell me i'm fine but i still feel hideous. I can't really help you cuz i haven't helped myself but i know how you feel.