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A lot of people judge me on what they see but never really know whats going on. I'm not close to perfect and I'm not afraid to show it. So many things have happened to me that it seems surreal sometimes. But now I'm finally happy with myself and my life. So haters keep hating because I realized how blessed I truely am.


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okay i just had a party and this boy i like did stuff with me and my friend asked him out for me without me knowing and he said he will think about it he didnt know .. walking home from school he didnt talk to me but he only walked by me once and it looked like he was trying to hide his head.. does that mean he doesnt like me ? and all of my friends and his friends at the party said he was all over me and we were goin to end up goin out.. what should i do ? and did that mean he didnt like me ?

He either doesn't like you or he's confused right now. It sounds like he doesn't want to be involved in a relationship. I think you should talk to him and let him know that you had nothing to do with your friend asking him out for you. I think this will help him to not be so tense around you in the future.

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What can I follow as a day-to-day diet to lose weight the healthy way? 15/f

mypyramid.gov
This is an excellent website for just what you want. It can plan out your diet and much more. I think you should definitely give it a visit.

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OK so my best guy friend is in a fight with one of my good girl friends. These 2 are always like one minute best friends, one minute he hates her. I put her in my top 8 on myspace and hes like "ewww, take her out now." and i did. I know it was a small little thing, but it kinda scares me now .. am i letting him control me? If i tell him how i feel, he will get mad he is really sensitive. I dont wanna lose his friendship. What should i do?

Tell him how you feel regardless. You are the one that makes your decisions. If he is going to end you all's friendship over this small obstacle then he doesn't sound like a true friend.

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Hey. Well I think this falls under the right category. What exactly is "experimenting" and what do you do in it? Thanks!

Ummmm...I call experimenting trying out what I like and don't like. Seeing what I'm satisfied with.

I do anything that I feel comfortable with.

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There is a girl that i only think abt her i am in love with her how can i make her like me?

Unfortunately you can't make anyone like you, BUT you can pass hints to her that you like her.
FLIRT, FLIRT, AND FLIRT!!!
-compliment her
-stare at her every now and then
-treat her better than the rest of the girls

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Why does only half your answers you give get rated back?
I rate every answer i get just so they could get some sort of feedback from me.
Everyone wants to know how there advice works.

I guess some people just don't feel like rating so they don't. But I know what you mean only half of all the questions I answered actually gave me feedback, but yet I always make sure I rate people for their advice.

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my girlfriend is unhappy and i don't know what to do. i've tried comforting her and asking her what's wrong but she won't tell me.

she did tell me her "friend" said she was stupid and she sucked at life. she actually listens to her, since she's apparently "always almost right".

and my gf doesn't like me mentioningher and saying bad things about her.

what to do?

she also seems to be avoiding me.. i'm assuming she wants to break up. i don't know.

it's like i tell her i love her, i care about her, and or i want to see her...then she gets sad and says she sucks.

she's not even explaining anything. i'm confused.

I applaud you for even taking all of these thoughts into comsideration.

One of the important elements a relationship needs to have is communication. Unfortunately that's what you all's relationship is lacking. I think that it is best for you all to end what you'll still have.

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Do colleges look at just your last 4 years of high school? Or do they go beyond that?

They are allowed to look all the way back to seventh grade but I'm pretty sure that cna't look any further than that. But they mainly look at the last 4 years in high school.

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Hey. Well, I'm 13/f and am an African American if that helps at all. Well, I was just wondering-what sort of techniques or creams, etc. can I use to make my hair grow faster. Thanks!

Hi, one of my close friends is African-American and she told me to tell you that she uses "BlackN'Sassy Tea Tree Oil Triple Gro" She says it can work miracles when it comes to hair growth. Its three treatments in one jar -growth stimulant -deep conditioner -and a healthy hair dress.

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i want a cute screen name & im wanting opinions.

-really long legs
-brunette
-tall
-likes ae
-something cute?? haha
-silly
-lazy

etc etc!! anything really

thanks!!

AExoLovinxBrunettexo
xoLongleggedbrunettexo
xoLazyxHottie
xoTallxhottiexw/xaxbody
TallNHott
BrunetteBabe

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Ooh, Virginia...not so good. NYC is closer than LA, so I'd suggest finding an aent there or doing reality TV. You don't have good chances, though, I'm sorry to say. Thanks for adding me as a favorite.

Yeah I know its not the best place to try to find something in the field I want to pursue. But I'll try your suggestions eventhough they may be a little hard. Thanks for the effort!

And your welcome, you give great advice.

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does anyone know where i could find straight-leg jeans? for cheap? i rate.

-Wal-mart
-Targert
-Sears
-JCPennys
-Old Navy
-K-Mart
-Hiechts
-AJ Wright
-Marshalls
-TJ Maxx
-Winners

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I like my best friend more than a friend...is this bad?
P.S.-were both girls...

Not at all! Let her know how you feel. Let things go from there.

edit: Why would you leave me such a rude comment? I told you my opinion. If I offended you then I apologize but there is no need to be so rude.

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ok my cuz sent me an e-mail sayingmy ex bf who i still lov and he still loves me but she says he is dateing one of my friends so i called him and he said he is not who should i bleave?

Well if you trust them both then ask you friend. If she says then yes he is, then believe your cousin. If she says no then believe your ex.

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i need some cute love quotes for my portfolio for school. it's a project on what we love most about life..and of course...i chose love..but the thing is i cannot find any cute love quotes..please help..
i rate 5's for good quotes or sites to the quotes

thanks =]

here are some good websites for love qoutes

http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com/
www.lovepoemsandquotes.com/LoveQuotes.html
www.lovequote.com
http://www.best-love-poems.com/love_quotes.htm
http://library.lovingyou.com/quotes/index.shtml
http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/lovequotes.shtml
http://www.heartquotes.net/Love.html

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Soo how do i no when theres TOO much love in the relationship? I mean ... Im kinda ready to take time off and spend a night by myself. I mean i spend everyday with my bf. It wasnt a problem till now?

Why am i feeling this way?

You know when there is to much love when you start feeling the way you do. Like you are being suffocated and just need some time off.

I think you'll should give each other some space. Meaning you'll don't have to spend time together everyday,etc.

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I just got out of a relationship w/ a guy that I didn't talk to much before we started dating. He was a fun guy and I asked him to a dance and we got closer from there. Well, we broke up over a month ago, and he hasn't said anything to me at all really. He's smiled at me, but it's rare. I do want to keep a friendship with him even though he broke up with me. Should I talk to him first, or should I be patient and let it come...or tell him I miss talking to him? What would you do?

He sounds a bit on the shy side. I think you should give him some time. If he continues the behavior then you should talk to him first.

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Is Europe bigger than Canada? Or the other way around? just wondering. Thank you for any response.

Canada is bigger than Europe.

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Does anyone know of an eyeliner that is waterproof and wont smudge?

-Thanks.

These are some good waterproof smudgeless eyeliners
-Maybelline
-Lord & Berry Smudgeproof Eyeliner
-Revlon
-NYC

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does anyone know any websites that have teen diets or eating plans? i want to lose some wieght, but i need some type of guidline.
15/f
thanks

mypyramid.gov
This is an excellent websites. It was designed by professionals. It can make your own personal diet, tell you how much you need to exercise and much more.

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