I am 16 years old. I am currently studying to take my A+ certification in Computer Maintenance Technology.
I have been through so many different things in my life, some more so easier to deal with than others. I got through it all, and I'm here to give you helpful, safe advice to help you get through them also.
I'm very open to any type of questions, I will help as much as I can. I'm also very easy to talk to, understanding, and non-judgmental. So don't be afraid to ask anything.
Gender: Female
Location: Waynesboro, VA
Age: 16
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is it possible to get pregnant if u get raped? (link)
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yes it is possible. especially if he didnt have a condom on. id get checked
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i'm 5'4.5" and about 110 pounds. i think i have a pretty good body, but kids at my school think im anorexic. it gets me so mad, they dont need to bring me down just because they're fat and im normal weight. america is so fat that they think people at a healthy weight are anorexic or bulemic. ANYWAY (sorry for going off topic) i want to add some meat to my arms and legs. I just want those two areas to be a little more "meaty". what can i do? exercize is hard for me, because i never have time for it. are there any drinks or foods i can use to help me gain weight just in those areas? thanks for your time and advice! (link)
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get more protein! eat more meat.
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Hey I have a qusetion. My friend told me to go become a lesbian. How do I do that? (link)
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you cant exactly do that right away. it depends on weather or not you like girls. and it takes a while to realize if you are or not. so if u dnot like girls and dont plan on liking them dont listen to them
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can someone help me divide when to drink 8 glasses of water throughout the day? it's pretty hard now since i have to go to school and i don't bring water to school because my class is crazy and would destroy it or have a water fight with it (link)
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well when youre at school go to the water fountain. lol thats the only thing i can think of while youre at school
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is it true that wearing thongs for you is bad in any way? if they are can you explain please? (link)
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nope. girls usually wear them to hid the lines of underwear. or for their boyfriends.
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hey,
Alot of guys tell me that they think I am hot, and that is great. but...im affriad that once people see me like in a bathing suit or when I have sex with someone they wont think that anymore because I am kinda hairy. Like i have some on my stomach too!
My question is...this is kinda gross....but I have hair like in my butt and around the hole and stuff....does anyone else have this? Is it possible to get rid of it? cause i mean...shaving might be painful. Thank you so much! (link)
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I personally do not have but hair. but my best friend does. and no body is going to go searching in your butt for butt hairs. but i wouldnt worry about it. shaving isnt as painful as you think.
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how do you know that you have black heads? cuz i have black dots on my nose and my aunt keep talking about buying me medicine but i looked really close in the mirror and it seems that it's hair because one time this girl leaned really close to look at my face and she asked if i shave my nose =( (link)
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they are from clogged pores its basically dirt. get some kind of face scrub. and wash your face daily
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whats the diff bewteen a zit and a pimple? (link)
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nothing. they are the same thing
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Well I'll start it off like this...
Im 16,I went out with this guy named Steve who is now 17 about a year and a half ago. it ended cuz i cheated on him but i didnt mean for it to happen. anyways we both got into other relationships but i never stopped liking him i actually have more feelings for him now then i ever had in the past..i broke up with the guy i was with but hes still with this girl ..anyways we never stopped talkin and well we've hung out and done some sexual things in the last month and he says he considers us friends with benefits..but that he never has stopped liking me.. i wanna be more then that and he knows that..but i dont kno what to do..him and his current girlfriend dont really get along and are more of a sexual relationship..i really want to be with steve and i need any advice i can get on wut to do or try..thanks so much
boys name has been changed (link)
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what you should do is talk to him. tell him how you feel. tell him that you dont like being a second girl. and if he really cared about you he would be with you. and if he doesnt agree dont worry about him. i know it isnt as easy as it sounds but thats what ya gotta do. theres someone else out there that is better like i tell everyone else. =] goodluck
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I love the skinny jean style, but I'm having a hard time finding them!
Does anyone know any good stores that carry skinny jeans? (link)
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hot topic. look at stores in the malls they are most likely to be in there because they are popular
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what are some tips to get abbs? and how long can it take? (link)
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get more protein. work out. do crunches. go to the gym. it depends how big you are right now on how long it will take.
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is there any way to make my boobs grow? haha i know this sounds weird but.. yea thanks. (link)
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you shouldnt be ashamed of the size of your boobs. they will grown in time. i wouldnt worry much about it. but drink some milk it might work. i drink alot of milk.. and i guess i have normal sized ones. people say that works.
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Im really skinny im not anorexic or anything its just how im built..but i want to get bigger thighs, not fat, muscle. so what are some things i can do to get that? (link)
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eat more meat. like protein. and go for a jog daily. it will make the leg muscles more stronger.
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k so i have oily skin and i get the random zit, it usually hurts and it lasts about 5 days. what kinda ointment do u suggest i use? something cheaper that u can buy from like zellers or shoppers, k thx. (link)
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buy any kind of face wash to start off. one that is oil free. wash your face 2 times a day. unless it gets too dry. just once or every other day. but its good to keep your face clean. not all the dirt and oil will clog your pores which is what causes zits. if it doesnt go away go to a doctor he can give u medicine for it. make sure you still wash your face though! especially before you put it on. or it wont help
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Hello, recently I have had major problems with my friends and I have really only been hanging out with my mom. We have fun and all, but is this healthy? She seems to be the only person I can count on who actually likes me for who I am.
Thanks! =) (link)
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of course its healthy its great to hang out with your mom and talk to her.
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my friend lets call her "S"
well she gets mad at me for likeing guys that she dosnt approve of and my last boyfriend dumped me because of what "S" said to him i felt like i was falling in loved with him but "s" messed up every thing
should i still be her friend even though she messed up whati had with him
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if she is making a big deal because u like him dont worry about her shes not a true friend. if she was she'd help you figure that out. if u really like him and he really likes you try it out.
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I read somewhere that you will start getting discharge one year before you have your period. well ive been getting whitish to clear discharge in my underwear for the past 3-4 years, and i still dont have my period. i have spotted twice before, about a year apart. the last time was last year. i have pubic hair (sorry i know this is all kinda gross, but these are all symptoms of getting your period soon) and my breasts are still developing, and i grew a lot taller. so why havent i gotten my period?
i am athletic to the extremes (i'm on a swim team), i'm 15, and my mom got hers at age 13. each year my doctor has predicted my period, but it never happens. she has never bothered to examen me down there.
should i be worried? i want to get my period eventually, like i wanna have kids in the future. i heard about this disease where you never get your period and cant give birth.
any advice, comments, or feedback in general would be very much appreciated!!!! thanks!! (link)
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dont be scared. people get them at different ages. some get it at 16 you should get it anytime now. most likely you will have cramps before getting it. but just because you arnt getting it right away doesnt mean u have that disease for sure!
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So i have stretch marks, yes we all do. But there on my stomach and it annoys me. Ive been working out and trying to lose weight so my question is will they go away once i lose weight? (link)
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no they wont go away. they will get lighter after time though. its just a mark from the skin being stretched to fast. a good way to get it to lighten faster is cocoa butter. rub that on there twice a day. hopefully it will help you.
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for the most part, i straighten my hair everyday. in the morning before i go to school it looks fine, but then by like 2nd period[which is like 9:15][i do my hair by 8] its starting to get wavy. it wont stay straight for a few hours. is there any way i can fix this? thanks in advance! (link)
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get a better straightener. also there is this good stuff to put in your hair before you straighten it to make it not frizzy. called shine solution by design line. also maybe you can turn the heat up on the straightener. and it will work better.
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my mum keeps calling me names .and every time i try to do something she yells ar me help me plz (link)
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ignore it, im sure shes just upset. my dad does that alot. but i know he loves me. i call him an asshole when im mad at him! rofl. i still love him. its just stress.. maybe stay away from your mom when shes acting like that. talk to a friend about it. and when your mom isnt in that mood try and talk to her about it. ask her why she calls you names. tell her it upsets you. let her know.
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