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Friends with Benefits
Well I'll start it off like this...
Im 16,I went out with this guy named Steve who is now 17 about a year and a half ago. it ended cuz i cheated on him but i didnt mean for it to happen. anyways we both got into other relationships but i never stopped liking him i actually have more feelings for him now then i ever had in the past..i broke up with the guy i was with but hes still with this girl ..anyways we never stopped talkin and well we've hung out and done some sexual things in the last month and he says he considers us friends with benefits..but that he never has stopped liking me.. i wanna be more then that and he knows that..but i dont kno what to do..him and his current girlfriend dont really get along and are more of a sexual relationship..i really want to be with steve and i need any advice i can get on wut to do or try..thanks so much
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I am gonna tell it to you straight and this is a fact you are being used and fwb is always a bad idea as you are supposed to agree that you are just friends no matter what happens so I would say that you get out of it asap
Sorry but thats the only advice that I can give you or anyone in this situation.
Good luck I hope you get out of it without getting your heart broken.
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you said the your relationship ended because you cheated, does he know he's doing the same to his girlfriend? i think you should resist from letting "Steve" use you like that. If he truly liked you he would be with you and not consider you as a friend with benefit. He's pretty much syaing, i'm using you for your body. Tell him that you feel uncomfortable knowing that he's fooling around with two different girls and that you want him to yourself, just try not to make it sounds obsessive/over-protected, just explain that your feelings are getting stronger and that you think you should be together.
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Well, 1st off shame on u for cheating in the first place. But, good for you that you dumped your current bf if you had more feelings for another guy-"Steve". Well, to me it sounds like this "Steve" is a cheater himself and a horndog. If this guy really liked you as much as you like him then he would be with you. but he wants to have his cake and eat it too. i mean your already being honest with him. since you said he "knows" you wanna be more than just friends w/benefits....i would give him an ultimatum...
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what you should do is talk to him. tell him how you feel. tell him that you dont like being a second girl. and if he really cared about you he would be with you. and if he doesnt agree dont worry about him. i know it isnt as easy as it sounds but thats what ya gotta do. theres someone else out there that is better like i tell everyone else. =] goodluck
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