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Well I'll start it off like this...
Im 16,I went out with this guy named Steve who is now 17 about a year and a half ago. it ended cuz i cheated on him but i didnt mean for it to happen. anyways we both got into other relationships but i never stopped liking him i actually have more feelings for him now then i ever had in the past..i broke up with the guy i was with but hes still with this girl ..anyways we never stopped talkin and well we've hung out and done some sexual things in the last month and he says he considers us friends with benefits..but that he never has stopped liking me.. i wanna be more then that and he knows that..but i dont kno what to do..him and his current girlfriend dont really get along and are more of a sexual relationship..i really want to be with steve and i need any advice i can get on wut to do or try..thanks so much
boys name has been changed
Well, 1st off shame on u for cheating in the first place. But, good for you that you dumped your current bf if you had more feelings for another guy-"Steve". Well, to me it sounds like this "Steve" is a cheater himself and a horndog. If this guy really liked you as much as you like him then he would be with you. but he wants to have his cake and eat it too. i mean your already being honest with him. since you said he "knows" you wanna be more than just friends w/benefits....i would give him an ultimatum...
thanks for awnsering my last question but to all the people that didnt read i have a crush on this boy name anthony and all my friends think he likes me back anyways he has a girlfriend how 'bout if he makes a move and i let him what should i do HELP
Well, if this guy likes you & you like him back, i would go with the flow & see what happens. but if he is serious w/his lil girlfriend then he may be a potential player. and if he were to dump his grl for u for example, who knows if he would then do the same thing to u as soon as he finds another grl he likes..
where can i find information on designing t-shirts and such online?
i tried google.
not sure if u wanted 2 buy sum personalized t-shirts or did u want find info on how 2 design them urself...
www.designashirt.com
www.zazzle.com
www.creodo.com
Can you get a girl preggers by doing it up the batty?
unless your a farrot or sumthin
ok well my boyfriend went away for christmas to L.A and is even staying for da new years and isnt coming back until the 3rd so today i went late christmas shopping because i still hadnt bought him anything which isnt a big deal because he doesnt have to know but i really couldnt find anything that i thought he mightve liked i wouldve bought him cologne but i didnt because i bought that for him on his birthday so i ended up buying him a really expensive hat its his favorite colors and all but the only problem is he dont wear hats at all he doesnt even own a hat and i just recently talked to him on the phone like not even an hour ago and told him how i really cant wait to give him his gift and i just found out he got me a reallly expensive gold necklace and winnie the pooh ring ! and now i look back at what im going to give him and im not going to lie im embarrased ! what would any1 do in my situation????
Ok, don't panic. Its really the thought that counts. He sounds like he really cares for you and he will appreciated ne thing you get him. But go ahead and give him the hat, give him the receipt in-case he wants to exchange it or sumthin. And if your feeling that guilty and not fully broke yet, buy him something else...along with that hat. A watch? A sports Jersey? Gift card to favorite store?? A video game (if he has xbox or sumthin like that) :-)
Hope i helped. let me know what happens!!!
I had protected sex on the 16th, saturday. I started my period late sunday night [right on schedule] Is there a chance that I could be pregnant? My period wasn't as long as normal & definitely not as heavy. Is it possible that having sex just made it irregular?
Thanks =]
First of all, I dont think your pregnant since it was protected sex & your period arrived on schedule. But your absolutely right, having sex can cause it to be different or irregular. But, sometimes our periods can just be irregular certain months. thats normal. stress can be a big factor in this as well. dont worry. :-)
f/16.. ok i have stretch marks on my upper arms and on my sides.. why? i mean i used to lift weights and then i stopped.. ok that doesn't make sense i guess im just wondering why i have them and how to get rid of them. ahh!
It could be part of puberty. Or your body is just not as tone anymore since u said u stopped lifting weights. Gaining weight can do this as well. Unfortunately, stretch marks are permanent. There's laser surgery to remove them, but all else (ex. creams, lotions) they basically only fade the stretch marks, not get rid of them.
Right on my lipline there is a realy small pimple sort of like a bump. You can't really notice it though. It is not in the corner of my lipline nor the middle but closer to the middle. I get it from time to time and i don't know what it is. I sometimes start to freak out and think its herpes. What can it be?
It could possibly be the lipstick/lipgloss ur wearing that causes this allergic reaction. Or sometimes stress can cause reoccurring cold sores.But if you are truly that concerned then go see a doc. but i wouldnt worry if i were you, unless its on other places on ur body as well that these sores keeping reappearing.
ok so im going to see the gynecologyst for the first time. and well is there any way that they can tell that i've had sex? because my mom is going with me and im 16 and she doesnt know.
will the doctor tell my mom?
first of all, the doctor will probably ask you first if your sexually active. This is just better for you, the doctor knowing because you may wanna get tested for any std's and stuff.and there's no real way of telling if you are a virgin or not...and then you have patient-doctor privacy. i wouldnt worry to much. but if your mom knew it would be best. this way you can practice safer sex w/ birth control as well.
hey, starting in the afternoon today my boobs became very tender. they hurt so much. is it from my boobs growing? or what is it?
could be growing, could be getting your period soon, or your preggers.
I think hes feeling "down" or having second thoughts about us.I need to start a spark!!HELP!!plz if u have any advice comment!
THAKZ!!
i dont know if yall are sexually active, but spice that up alittle bit. or be more social, go out for dinner and go bowling. keep it simple and sweet. or go clubbing. or just give him some space..
so i have basically a two in one deal here.
1. can you get pregnant while on your period?
2. can you be pregnant but get your period the first month? in other words, your pregnant but you still get your period, and then after that month you miss it?
thanks!
1. anything is possible.
2. my mother got her period for the first 3months, after that it stopped.
Ok i have naturally straight hair. So my way to scrunch it is after i take a shower i towel dry, brush it out, put mouse and gel all over my hair and put it up into 2 tight buns and sleep with them. The next morning i take it out, blow dry a bit and add more mouse and gel and hairspray.
PROBLEM: it only stays curly for like 1 or 2 hours and then it starts getting straight or slighty wavy and it loses that "wet look" .. i want my hair to last for a WHOLE DAY at school. Any advice? Thanks!!
definitely, get a perm. if u luv curls and want it long term. if not, just buy tresemme curl enhancer scrunch it up and put rolls in or braid it b4 bed.
I have an ingrown hair/pimple on the back of my thigh. It hurts really badly. I cant sit i cant walk. My mom already took the pus out of it yesterday. I think she may have to take it out today. What can i do to make it hurt less?
Hi Hun! Ok, disinfect it w/hydrogen peroxide->neosporin->ice pack->elavate it w/a pillow or sumthin and let it heal on its own.Take advil or motrin for any pain. Hope this makes you feel better!!
I turned off my pop-up up blocker, and added this site to my exceptions, as in it's a safe site.
And it still blocks all of the 'pop ups' from that page, which isn't rly what they are they're just like view yr profile pages that open a new page.
and I want to look at them, but it makes this little sound and it just doesn't appear.
can anyone help me?
Make sure you dont have any virus protection or firewall software on ur pc doing this. Delete anything in your restricted sites area & under privacy on ur iexplorer internet options
well i have been going out with this guy for eleven months and our relationship has been pretty good but only problem is i feel like i have gotten bored of him. i feel trapped cause he hates me partying hanging out with my guy friends etc. i feel like i cant have fun anymore and ive felt like that the past eleven months that we have been going out. and theres this other guy that ive liked for a reeeeeally long time.. longer than ive liked my current boyfriend. the guy ive liked for a long time is my type of guy. i have so much fun with him and i like him so much. i love the way he treats me its hard to resist him. but i jsut cant break up with my boyfriend. he would kill himself because he loves me so much. he is so serious about me.. he is erious about marraige with me in the future. he is already out of high school but problem is im still in hs. he is going to the army in a month and he told me not to break up with him cause he plans on marrying me when he comes back. he gave me so many expensive presents for xmas and if i broke up with him how big of a butt would i be?? i dont want to break his heart bcause he doesnt deserve it but i also dont think he deserves me. idk what to do cause i know id be happier without him but i sometimes have to ask yself if i really would be happy without him. idk what i should do.. what should i do?
Well...First of All, you shouldn't be in a relationship w/ne1 who will kill themselves because they're so obsessed w/you. That's not healthy for neither one of you. Second, your happiness comes first! So...if that means being w/ the guy of ur dreams...THEN BE WITH HIM. Last, Your current boyfriend deserves someone who will love him back the way he loves you!