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ok so im going to see the gynecologyst for the first time. and well is there any way that they can tell that i've had sex? because my mom is going with me and im 16 and she doesnt know.
will the doctor tell my mom?
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first of all, the doctor will probably ask you first if your sexually active. This is just better for you, the doctor knowing because you may wanna get tested for any std's and stuff.and there's no real way of telling if you are a virgin or not...and then you have patient-doctor privacy. i wouldnt worry to much. but if your mom knew it would be best. this way you can practice safer sex w/ birth control as well.
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there's no way you can tell if you've had sex or not. he will be able to see if your hymen is still in tact or not but that doesnt really mean anything as it can be broken during exercise. your doctor will understand that you might not want to say anything in front of your mum and so may ask to speak to you alone or just wont ask you at all. you won't be the first person thats been in that position.
you could always ask your mum if you could go in alone. just say that you want some privacy or that your old enough and could go in by yourself.
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the doctor has no way of knowing if youve had sex. depending on wether or not you still have your hymen, he can get a reasonable idea. but you can be a virgin and not have it, or (slightly less liekly) not be a virgin and have it. either way, the doctor is not allowed to tell your mother unless you tell them they can.
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Theres no real way to tell if you've had sex unless you've actually said you had sex. The doctor will ask you if you've had any sexual experiances, answer truthfully. But they dont tell your mom anything if you dont want them to.
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