hey,
Alot of guys tell me that they think I am hot, and that is great. but...im affriad that once people see me like in a bathing suit or when I have sex with someone they wont think that anymore because I am kinda hairy. Like i have some on my stomach too!
My question is...this is kinda gross....but I have hair like in my butt and around the hole and stuff....does anyone else have this? Is it possible to get rid of it? cause i mean...shaving might be painful. Thank you so much!
Sabine answered Saturday January 6 2007, 11:18 pm: You probably are hot! Yes, we all have unwanted hair. There's the linea negra, or "pleasure trail" which is a line of fine, slightly dark hair leading from our navels to our pubic lines. We get hairs around our nipples sometimes and in our armpits amd legs. We get it in our pubic regions, spreading to the inner thighs sometimes. I have a few errant hairs about halfway down my inner thighs which I pluck out with tweezers. Have you ever heard of a Brazillian Wax? I have never had one, but according to an article I read, they spread your butt cheeks and put the wax all the way up your crack, around your anus, and all over your labia. It's pretty extreme. We all have little hairs around our anuses. I have worked in the medical field for so long, I know it's normal. You can get rid of it. I don't know how old you are, but if your Mom still has a say, you probably shouldn't do anything yet. When you're old enough, you can shave it, wax it, or use Nair. It might be itchy when it grows back. When you have sex with someone, don't worry, he'll probably be hairier than you and he will likely have better things to think about than your body hair. :)
Raine answered Saturday January 6 2007, 11:12 pm: Well everyone has hair everywhere, but it's a matter of whether or not it's dark. Well shaving it wouldn't be too good unless it's your arms or your legs. There's not much you can do about the hair around your..hole because everyone has it and to try to get rid of it would just be very bad! Whatever you do don't try those creams or lotions that say they get rid of hair because the outcome is very painful! You get these rash bumps that itch like crazy and believe me you don't want that! If you're extremely uncomfortable with stomach, arm, leg, pubic hair then shaving or waxing are the best bets. They're painful while you're getting used to it sometimes, but if you do it right then you don't have to worry about those pesky little red bumps! Also, people should accept you for who you are and not what you look like. Some guys find hairiness attractive. If a guy really loved you when you have sex with them then the wouldn't care! Good luck! [ Raine's advice column | Ask Raine A Question ]
luvin_chick<3 answered Saturday January 6 2007, 10:45 pm: yur not the only one. i'm going through the same thing. idk y we have hairs everywhere. i have a lot of hair in my legs but i don't shave because my mom won't let me. it's awkward being around other ppl and having hair practically everywhere, but you shouldn't shave it because the outcome wouldn't be too good. atleast that's what my mom tells me. [ luvin_chick<3's advice column | Ask luvin_chick<3 A Question ]
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