Well, I'm a serious sometimes funny type of person and usually my problem evolves in my love life :) ain't as lucky as you are.lol. I'm 16 and somewhat emotional. They say one of my assets is being sensitive to the feelings of others and one of my bad habits is playing with my hands while looking for words.
E-mail: phinyf@lycos.com
Gender: Female
Location: Philippines
Occupation: student
Age: 16
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I have a friend who I dated in High School and I have been in love with him since I can remember. He broke up with me then due to personal matters and we stay in contact. We are now both divorced and he is still very anti-love relationship. We have been intimate on occasion, but I want him so bad it hurts and I continue to play it cool but its so hard. How do I assist in turning this relationship into more than just friends? (link)
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Try to let him notice you more and more each day. Like for example wearing a knockout outfit and pretend that he's just your friend and don't let him notice that you're very inlove with him. When he's around, maybe you can try flirting with the other guys just to make him come to his senses and do something about his feelings towards you. If he still doesn't do it then maybe he really has a problem.
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I NEED SERIOUS HELPPPPPPPP!
My friend and I recently had a huge fight.
She started to spread rumors about me.
HALF OF THE PEOPLE at school want to murder me.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Confront your friend right away and ask her why she is doing this. tell her it isn't right to spread rumors just because you are not anymore friends with her. Talk to her sincerely and as much as possible try to avoid fighting her again. Be gentle and maybe you'll be friends again and the rumors will stop. Maybe she'll come to her senses and ask forgiveness from you too.
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im failing math, not by much, i have a 69 and a c is a 70, i just took a test and think i did pretty good so it should be a c now but i have to get a report card signed with the f on it and in like a week were getting our official grade cards with my f on it.i cant show my parents it, ive always been a great student until this year, now im getting only 2 a's , one b i pulled up from a c, a high c, and now this f.and im just so upset with myself for it and now i have to tell my parents who are putting it on me to raise my grades and reminding me that this is my worst grades every and i just cant do it(tell them), i especially dont want my dad to know and its almost the end of the year so i hardly have time to bring it up and if i do bad again im screwed for sure, how do i tell them? how do i bring up my grade?(im not sure my teacher is giving extra credit work anymore) and how do i not fail by the end of the year?
how do i tell them?
ive never even had a c befor this year
how do i tell them?
sorry its so long (link)
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Ask yourself first. Are you so sorry for failing? Then if it's yes then are you willing to accept the consequences? If yes then when there's a time that your parents are in a good mood then have a heart-to-heart talk with them but if you still have a chance to make better grades then take the chance. Do better next time and don't let any problems interfere. Just show to your parents how sorry you are and tell them that you'll do your best next time.
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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do? (link)
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Weigh the situation. What do you want? to go on flirting with other guys and by the process hurting your boyfriend? or not flirting with the guys but feeling happy since you didn't hurt your boyfriend. if you choose the 1st then think of the consequences. What if your boyfriend feels so bad that he'll break up with you. It won't be easy so as early as now make your decision.
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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong? (link)
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Not everybody drinks and take drugs and all vices. It'll just ruin lives and lives. Try talking to them again the bad effects it'll do to their lives. Don't follow them. Feeling like an outcast is better than ruining one's life and regretting it but can't change it anymore. Nevertheless you can just stay away from them. They'll just influence you in doing vices but if you can save your friend. Save her. Being a true friend means caring for your friend. But if she doesn't listen no matter what. Just let it go. At least you tried.
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I know I sound pathetic and stupid but my mum really hates me she even said so..... (link)
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Try to think what you have done to make her hate you that much. there's a reason why she hates you. Maybe you did something that made her really angry and you didn't say sorry. I believe she'll cool up if you say sorry for what you've done. Sincerely. Sincerity is the key here. Once she knew that you're sincere then she'll forgive you but don't do it again. Even so, there's the case that she hates you for no reason at all. Do something good that will make her realize you're not that bad at all. Sometimes when we get angry, we don't know anymore what we're saying out of temper but trust me after a while she'll cool up.
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WILL RATE HIGH...i am lost...my best friend is going out with this guy that she knew liked and i told her it would be ok if she did go out with him (vice versa). he doesnt go to our school. i met him through my friend who knows him from outside activities. he liked her for a really long time, but she never liked him back, until now. this guy knew i liked him to but we both didnt know if would work out if we started dating. anyway, he asked my friend out and theyve been going out for a month now. i talk to him on the phone almost everyday and he confuses me.he's like leading me on, almost. he tells me he's gonna break up w/her for this and that reason, and i dont know how to respond. do i want them to stay together, and be a good friend, but i dont really know...i like him still...ive been out w/one guy since they've started going out and i broke up with him b/c i liked this guy...he says for me to wait for him...am i just wasting my time...waiting for something that will never be??? i really need help...WILL RATE HIGH. thnx!
....stuckinthemiddle... (link)
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Let him keep his promise first and that's to break up with her before you start a relationship with him. He might date you both with his girlfriend because he doesn't want to hurt his girlfriend. Let him make a decision and if he decides to be with you then he'll keep his promise. If he chooses his girlfriend then let go. you'll just get hurt.
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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do? (link)
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Try testing your other friends. Like for ex. you talked about her with your friends. If they express disgust then just keep quiet about it. Weigh the situation and be true to yourself. Who do you prefer? But if they don't express disgust then do it. Make friends with her.
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ok i like this guy ALOT and were going out but my friend also likes him and shes not talking to me because im going out with him but she also told me over and over again go out with him he really likes you and i kept telling her no no because of you and he told her before we were going out that he didnt like her he liked me so now im going out with him and i dont know wbout my friend...
i need help! (link)
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I think you need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your friend. Ask her if it's really ok. with her. If she says yes then go on but if she says somewhat like a no then tell her that you like him alot and you don't want to lose her as a friend. Talking to her would really help and would lessen your guilt.
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I think I'm pretty.. but I stand next to girls at my school and my cousins who can be so beautiful, and I feel as if nothing stands out about me.
I'm pale.. like not disgustingly pale its just I dont tan easily.. and I have light-brown hair, and brown eyes.. and I mean sounds boring, but I admit I like how I look when I have makeup on, and sometimes without it. I mean, I'm not the makeup type. I skateboard and dont wear dresses and stuff and say I hate makeup and all that.. but the truth is I just want to stand out.
I have thick hair.. how can I make it look thinner? Should I get it permanately straightened or are their any special products that last and dont leave my hair greasy and stiff?
Also, what mascara is good? Sometimes I wear great lash.. and I rarely wear even THAT for makeup.. or eyeliner.. I mean I'm just trying to stand out that ONE DAY so people know how beautiful I can really be. It sucks because I'm a good person, and people say Im beautiful or pretty I just dont SEE it right now ya know?
Also, how can I lose weight around my thighs and butt area? I mean Im not fat at all but I feel a bit unproportioned..
I just wanna stand out.. and be confident..
any tips??
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It depends on the person on how he/she is feeling about his/her body. You can be confident wnen you liked your body but apparently you aren't satisfied. You can exercise a lot to lessen your weight especially exercises concerning the thighs and look at your cousins and girls at your school .Think. What is not in them that maybe can stand out in me? for example if most of them are white then you can go to the beach and do sun bathing and be tan. That way you'll stand out. In the hair category. If most of their hairs are straight you can make your hair curly and maybe put a wisp on your hair. You can do dying too. If you're open to it. You can put any color on your hair. Just look for ways to stand out and you'll definitely do.
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I'm a 15 year old female. I really like this one boy, but the thing is he's always teasing me or hitting me. Sometimes it's actually funny and we play around but other times it really hurts physically & emotionally. Very little of the time he'll come up to me and start a normal conversation, flirt, etc. I have a strong feeling he likes me the way I like him. I know that if he told anyone, his immature friends would start on him. He wouldn't straight out tell me either because he's shy about that kind of stuff. What could I do to make him realize that if he makes a move, I'll go along with it? (link)
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Be open. I mean whatever he talks there, show to him that you are open-minded with regards to your relationship. If you aren't shy to do this, you can maybe hint to him throught talking to him about love life's and all that. See what'll be his reaction. If it's a positive then you're doing good, if negative try to have another tactic to let him make a move.
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I'm 13/m So whenever i have a girlfriend i dont know when to make a move. So please tell me the perfect time to. (link)
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Just read her body language. Yep! there is such thing as that and as they say actions speak louder than words so if you want to know more about it. Just search it in yahoo or visit this site http://www.askmen.com/
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i know that pneumatics means mechanical properties of air and other gases, and how it works and stuff like that. i guess i dont understand it enough to know examples of it though. what would some examples be? thanks (link)
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Just search it in yahoo. There are many websites for informations there. Just type examples of pneumatics in the search tool bar and look for the closest related information site.
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how do i tell a guy i love him?
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It's better to show him first before telling him that you love him. For example taking care of him in times of difficulty and the lowest points of his life is one sign. Another is being always at his side whenever he needs you. Actions speak louder than voice. He will know it once you do these ways.
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hi..i asked a question about using baking soda as toothpaste..and so i did but when i use it it hurts my gums really really bad!! i use it everyday but only in the afternoon and in the morning and night i use regular toothpaste but sometimes i put the baking soda on it..in the afternoon i just dip the bristles in the cup and then brush my teeth but my gums burn and hurt real bad and when im done they tingle burningly and throb&i dont know what to do, am i using the baking soda wrong?? i dont wanna stop using the baking soda because my teeth are really ugly yelow, and the toothpastes with the baking soda in them dont work to whiten my teeth, and i tried like whitstrips and gels n stuff, and i dont have any money to buy super toothpaste or something so someone tell me why this is happeneing or help me somehow! thank you! (link)
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They say excessive baking soda can strip the enamel off your teeth. Most dentist agree that baking soda and peroxide do very little in cleaning one's teeth but they do give the sensation of a cleaner mouth. Baking soda can also aggravate tooth sensitivity. Just try searching for toothpaste with fluoride and those that are minimally abrasive. They say also that crest white strips really work well. Just visit this forum for more info.
http://www.tribalwar.com/forums/archive/topic/289527-1.html
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I dont know how to do very much with me hair and i want to learn how to do those twistie things so if someone could like give me a site or something with steps that would help me a lot thanks! x0 (link)
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I searched in yahoo and saw a site that you might be interested in.
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/promstyles.htm
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I have a project for which I've been asked to interpret the lyrics of my choice of song.
I've chosen 'Glycerine' by Bush and, although the song is brilliant, I can't get get one clear meaning from it. I'm really terrible at breaking stuff like this down and I need a little bit of help.
It would help if you know this song but, if you want to give it a try anyways, there lyrics can be found here: http://www.geocities.com/SunsetStrip/Venue/2561/lyrics/glycerine.html
Could someone tell me THEIR interpretation of the song?
Thanks in advance. (link)
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For me, the interpretation of the song is like this, nothing is temporary in this world. (My interpretation in the first verse) so you enjoy what you have now. In the second verse my interpretation is that her companions are not that true to their selves so that's why she's alone even if she's not. Most of our companions seek what's good for their selves and not for their friends but when we rise like what the song said then we'll suddenly have many companions.And the interpretation for the other verses is that when we fight our friends or companions, that's the time when we needed them most to understand us and help us in the complicated things we have to undergo in our life.
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My boyfriend an I have made plans for the future. I never ask for advice, I rather give it.. but I find myself at a loss of words when him and I tackle a few subjects. Our relationship is amazing, everything is going right, and is headed in a positive direction. However, for quite some time now.. I've believed strongly in a few select topics. And he refuses to be open-minded about these things. He relies on the excuse, "It's how I was brought up." I'm sorry if it's being unsympathetic, but I just don't see that as an excuse. He's an adult, he can make up his own mind. Everytime we talk about these things, it starts a debate, which neither of us can seem to win. If there would be one thing that would end our relationship, it would be this. He denies that he's closed-minded and it's a pointless argument everytime to him, but he refuses to change and I refuse to be okay with this. Any advice? (link)
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I think if you won't act now then you might not have any chance to save your relationship. Try telling him what you are feeling and the effect it would have in your relationship. We don't know, he might reconsider after you've explain to him that it'll really affect your relationship.
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is there anyway i can get a guy to know that i like him without being obnoxiously flirty? im really shy so flirting isnt really an option for me. i rate high! i dont want to just come out and say that i do like him because he could just be like "i dont like you that way" and i couldnt handle something like that (link)
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Look him in the eye then smile at him. He'll know ur interested.
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How do *you* flirt with guys.. i want everyones ways hehe
thanx (link)
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I don't flirt with guys but just to show you're interested, look him in the eye when you meet then smile at him.
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