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Loving him as more than my friend...
I have a friend who I dated in High School and I have been in love with him since I can remember. He broke up with me then due to personal matters and we stay in contact. We are now both divorced and he is still very anti-love relationship. We have been intimate on occasion, but I want him so bad it hurts and I continue to play it cool but its so hard. How do I assist in turning this relationship into more than just friends?
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You probably pretty much know his history. Has he been burnt so bad that he'll never get over it do you think? You really need to talk and tell him how you feel. If he thinks there is no chance he will ever feel the same, then you'll have to decide if you want to waste your time or find someone who wants a deeper relationship. :)
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Call him and ask. There's nothing wrong with being strightforward and getting what you want. This always produces results, but not always the reult you wanted. Hope that helped.
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I spent three years with a guy and i fell inlove but sudenly he just stoped wanting me in that way what i did is i established the fact that i might not be able to move on but i could try. I went out with this guy eric and now im completly inlove hes amazing the trick was to find someone better. Find out if your Friend would like to be more and if he says no then thats it. Its how he feels and you have to try moving on.
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Try to let him notice you more and more each day. Like for example wearing a knockout outfit and pretend that he's just your friend and don't let him notice that you're very inlove with him. When he's around, maybe you can try flirting with the other guys just to make him come to his senses and do something about his feelings towards you. If he still doesn't do it then maybe he really has a problem.
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