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wuts up!!! i am a Sk8ing, kinda preppy, Asian chick !!! and i luv givin advice AND getting advice

so drop me an email if u got anything to ask about...

well im out~
E-mail: odgloeiv190@aol.com
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Age: 14
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Member Since: June 9, 2005
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What exactly is a prude? (link)
exact opposite of horny


ok so you kno the skin or "fat" that is usually called love handles? well how do you get rid of it.. are there exercises u can do? Its summer and it would be nice to not be self conscience about my body. I know i shouldn't be but i just want to know if anyone has anythign that would help thanks a bunch =D

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yes of course there is lots of those exercises. but most importain things is PERSERVERENCE. hmm i wonder if i spell that right... anyways ... you can jog everyday until you sweat a lot

or just do treadmil or mini stepper for 30 min everyday.

or buy one of those exercising videos

hope i helped =)


My ex girlfriend won't stop trying to talk to me and still wants to be friends, even though I have told her multiple times I do not. I haven't really told her this to her face, but I do post it on my website which I know she visits regularly. She even offered to take me to the movies. I know this sounds immature and stupid, but could you help me?
Thanks,
-Dr.Socko (link)
well i know that girls can be annoying in that stuff, and girls dont get mad because i am a girl too and i do admit that we do hang on to our last strings, but you gotta straight out tell her that you do not want to go to the movies with her, i mean if you keep making up the excuses such as i cant i am babysitting my cousin, then she will keep on asking. and i get that you dont want go out to the movies with her.

but you should consider being her friend. i mean unless she's that evil and stuff then you dont have to but just try not to be too mean and i hope things works out for ya

and remember TALK ! its the only way.

=)


I am an 18 year old girl who has been with the same boyfriend for 2 years and things haven't been great from the start.Now things are really boring and we do the same things week after week and we have no sex life at all.A couple of months ago I met a guy that works at the local pub and sing with him all the time and we get on really well.He is leaving the job now to free up his weekends and agreed to come out on a night out with me and swapped numbers.Now I can get him out of my head and don't know whether to make a go with my current boyfriend or try and get to know this other guy. What should I do? (link)
ok, to speak the truth, if you break up with you current, it will be better for both of you. since if you are not having fun, neither will he. so tell him that it will be good for both of you because it WILL. and go out with the new guy.

hope i helped =)


is there any place to find like rock piano tabs for free? like bowling for soup or avril lavigne? any help would be good!
thanx (link)
OMG what is wrong with you people who answered questions! OF COURSE AVRIL LAVIGNE ROCKS!!!!!!! and who ever calls her POSERS are the one who is Posers not her!

and that person asked for help ! not asked for Your dumb opinions! GEEZ !

and you can get free sheet music by typing free sheet music. but you gotta do some lot of research. because i dont really know the address of the site. srry and PEOPLE ONCE AGAIN!!!

AVRIL LAVIGNE ROCKS!!!!!!!!!!


Whats a good first day of skool outfight exspesicaly if your going to a new skool next year!? (link)
Ok it depends on which clique you want to be noticed by. and i am doing a big fasion project so if you really want to get in to details then drop me an email but here is some few tips

-----prep-----
1. shirt - those collared shirts at aeropostale
2. pants - cute jeans (but not from wal mart)
3. shoes - pink and white or just pink sneakers

but well they all gotta match dont they?


----goth----
1. black shirt
2. black pants
3. black shoes
4. black makeup


that was a easy one



----girly----
1. flowy skirt
2. cute top
3. sandle
4. cute purse

all that needs matching



----punk rocker----
1. weird, yet noticable shirt
2. ripped up jeans
3. converse sneakers
4. Guitar would be nice =)



-----here are NO NOs~-----
1. NO MINIS
2. NO Halter tops or spaghettie straps
3. NO see throughs ...
4. DO NOT WEAR anything with like big big decors
such as feathers and all that good stuff
5. NO business women suit
6. NO skimpy (well not too much)
7. nothing that labels ya...such as that says PREP from American eagle out. or that says Rebel. just nice shirt from store that stands out but not labeling you.




so drop me an email and i will make you over from head to toe from clothes to make up~

and hope i helped =)


OK, this may seem weird, but it's something that really scares me. Im really scared of being kidnapped. Now that it is summer, i really need to keep my window open, but what if someone cut the screen? If my parents are already in bed, I go around the house, checking to make sure every door is locked. I wanna stop being afraid. Am i being way too paranoid? HELP ME !!! I RATE HIGH (link)
well you have same problem as me. i was sooo scared of people coming and break in. i mean even tiniest sound of leaf scared the living crap out of me. but you will grow out of that like me. i am still scared sometimes but not as much now. but here is what you can do to feel safe.

1. lock all the doors.
2. have the phone available (just in case u gotta call 911)
3. have someone be with you
4. at night, get a night light so you know whats happening around. and lock your room door and all the windows...

and if that dont help, talk to your parents about it because they will help

and hope i helepd too =)


okay so currently i am at camp, and i ride a bus to and from the camp. there is this really hott guy on the bus and hes really cool and we talk alot but i dont exactly know if he likes me. i have been daydreaming of going out with him and other stuff, but how do you know if a guy likes you? he is a year older than me so would he even be interested in me? also, what are some flirting tips? i really want to be more than friends and make him a summer love. tips? i rate high! ♥ (link)
ok whatever last person said... dont say you wanna "mess up" because some guys think thats a turn off.

so just speak the truth.

tell him how you feel about him and if you cant tell in person, write in a note. because sometimes thats better.

so go for it and speak from Heart!

and some flirting tips

1. SMILE SMILE SMILE (thats the most importain thing)

2. this might not work for few people, but tickle yes i said tickle. ask if that person is ticklish

then go from there,~

and if you need more help let me know ~


Well my mom ALWAYS calls me a whore and a slut i dont know what to do about it. My dad wont talk so i dont know how he feels and it drives me crazy when she calls me that. I always wonder...well what if I really am...but no one at school thinks I am. Why is my mom doing this to me and do you have any ideas on what I can do to stop it??
thanks (link)
Always!?

well i guess the story might be diffent from you and your mom, but if you think you are dressed conservative and such...

then you should talk to her. why is she doing that? i mean even if you DO dress like that, she shouldnt call you that, i mean for being a mother is being RESPECTIVE and COMFORTATIVE towards her child... so you should talk to her ...

and if she just keeps doing that, and such, talk to a trustworthy adult and tell that person what's bothering you and stuff. they will be more than glad to help you

and KEEP YOUR HEADS UP!!!!

Mother or not! you shouldnt be called like THAT!

GIRL YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT!!
so if you need some one to talk to, email me or what ever you want to to!

and hope it works out

=)


I have a guy friend and I think we mutually like each other. The thing is, I won`t see him next year. What's an easy way to give him my # [don`t say email address/instant messanger] and what`s a way to do it without looking awkward. (link)
oh thats cool because i just got a number from my guy friend... even though it was kinda awkward because he was my best friend's bf and i used to like him but anyways...

just say like... In person...

"look, we've been getting along great and you've been such a good friend. and i will miss you a lot next year. i hope we can keep in touch though! so here's way you can contact me."

then give him a note that contains your email, and number...so it doesnt look like you just wanted to give him your number...

thats how i did it, to my other guy friend and he gave me a hug and his number too...

so hope this works out =)


okay well i got my period on friday, and i'm going swimming like saturday or sunday probably. my period lasted a week last time i got it and that was the first time. so should i be worried? because i know if i use a tampon there probably wouldn't be enough blood or whatever.. and can't that cause tss? i'm just scared if it will happen in the pool or something

thanks, i rate high for good answers that will work (link)
well TSS was caused by using tampons, then half the girls would've gotton them

TSS is a dieses that you get when you leave Tampon for longer than 3 hours...

so you have to change it frequently and it wont probably happen if you just use it one day and if you just remind your self to change it...

hope i helped =)


Okay, so I do crunches, and I'm in pretty good shape, except for this really annoying kind of...roll of...fat...like, right under my boobs.
I'm a singer, and I expand my ribcage when I sing and contract it (kind of?) when I don't. Could that be why?
I really can't figure out why it's there, and why I can't get rid of it.
My crunches go like this: 25 every morning, 100 every other night, and on the "other night" I still do 25 crunches to keep my muscles going ('cause I know if I stop I'll want to stay stopped).
Is there a way to get rid of that obnoxious roll of fat under my boobs? Any special excercises I could do? It's really annoying me. I mean, it's not an absolute necessity that I get rid of it, but I'd like to. It makes me really self conscious in swimsuits, 'cause the rest of my stomach is pretty toned.
Thanks in advance for the help! (link)
I know... what you mean... that roll that doesnt seem to go away...

no its not because you are a singer...

its because crunches are only for like certain places... so you should do an exercise that affects all through the body...

hope i helped =)

and if you really want to know specific exercises, then you should go talk to like physicians


Okay..im a redhead..and alot of times wen i go out and meet guys n stuff theyre interested in me..but theyre more interested in the blondes or brunettes. Im not your usual redhead..i have tan skin and my hair isnt as frizzy and i dont have that many freckles. Do guys not like redheads? (link)
well it was in the magazine polls (ya know those teen ones cosmo and seventeen etc...)

that guys do like redheads and people with freckles

but its just guy talk...

all that really matters is whats on the inside...

but to your question ...

NO

they DO like red heads


I'm going to the beach for the first time in years. What things should I make sure to bring? (like make-up, how many bathing suits, what bathing suits, and other stuff..) (link)
beach list

1. swim suit (it depends how do you want to present your self. if you dont mind wearing same swim suit then just one and it also depends how long will you be gone)

2. Definetly Sunblock...

3. extra underwears

4. probably 3 towels (but again, it depends on how long you will stay)

5. your normal daily make up

6. extra sets of clothes (many many, if you are going for long time)

7. extra pair of shoes (flip flops are good)

8. and MONEY $$$

hope this helped =)


I'm really into the punk look...does anyone have good outfits ideas? Thanks I rate very well:) (link)
cool i am doing a fashion project on diffenent style

such as prep

goth

punk

girly

and etc...so drop me an email or something so i can totally get you made up =)


I'm so confused about my style...I like all different sorts of music, and I have so many different views. One day I'll be wearing Abercrombie, the next day Hot Topic type stuff...how do I find a style and STICK with it? (link)
OMG thats so awesome because i am exactly like you. i mean one day im preppy girl style... then the other day i am rebel.

but think about it. what is so bad about dressing in different style?

it only means that you are very fashionable in different ways....

and believe it or not, people secertly want that in them selves...

also, its good that you dress differently because then you can express you feeling that way~

i mean if you are feeling down, dress like a gothic punk ish girl

and if you are feeling perky go for preppy

and if you are feeling like rokcing out

then go for classic punk rocker girl type

its not bad that you dress diffently

its actually good...

so think about in that perspective and hope i helped

and if you still want to dress in only one style

drop me an email, because i am currently doing a fashion project

=)


well me and my friend act exactly like the girls from the movie thirteen , we both are 13 have our tounge + bellybuttons pierced we drink alot did drugs ... cut blah blah blah yeh and all those bad stuff ... the only difference is that im actually concerned ! plz help and dont right stupid shit ! i mean the reason why im asking 4 help here is because im looking for help not negative judgements (link)
let me be the one to tell ya that you've done the first step to doing out of bad things.

admitting that you need help.

i've done some cutting my self, but think about it. i mean really really think.

what do you get out of cutting? nothing but scars.

so here is what you do. if you are temted to cut again, squeeze on a ice. its proven by scientist that it makes the feeling go away or some sort.

the cutting i mean.

and if you really think about people who care for you, even just one. and think about what will they do if you keep doing bad stuff?

they will be CRUSHED... so please... talk to an adult whom you can trust. and wont make such a big deal out of what you've done in the past. but person who cares about you and proud of you coming out of shadow to get help.

so i hope i helped and hope it works out

and if you need someone to talk to i am here for ya =)


how do i make my boyfriend NOT so shy? i mean this kind of shy can not be talked out of him...hellpppp (link)
well it depends on how SHY is the guy.

there is these typical type

1. too shy to talk (hopeless but i can help)
2. too shy to hug (will hug gradually)
3. too shy to kiss (most guys are that unless they are really...uh...can i say this word? horny?)

and if his number one. (which is same type of guy friend i had) call him and start asking him question about him self and get it the the conversation.

and if you cant think of what to talk about ...let me know what "clique" he is so i can tell ya exactly what to talk about~

and if his number 2.

then you START hugging him . such as saying hi, or saying thanks. but if he seems kinda shocked by that, then you better talk to him, because i know that some people are super shy but still


and if his such as number 3.
(which is most of guys =)

just when you thank him, give him a kiss on the cheek and when you say hi =)

and if he get use to that gradually, kiss him on the lip.

and when you break off from subtle kiss, then look at him and see if he has one of those i want more of that eye then definetly go for more but less subtly and more romantically

so hope this helped =)


I have asked this before, but I was not satisfied with all the different answers. I am 13 and female. My crush,Stence, is 13 and male. I have been having a crush on Stence since 5th grade. I made it clear that i liked him in 5th and 6th grade, but he clearly told me he liked me as a friend, but now i am not sure if he still does. This year I am going into 8th grade and i still have a crush on him. The only problem is that he is going out with my friend, Sarah, and i am going out with another guy, so i could try and stop thinking about Stence. By the way it did not work at all. Now Stence is thinking about breaking up with Sarah, and talks to me more then Sarah does. He is my best friend and i am his. We have some of the same problems and have similar interests. I know it may sound dorky, but we both have the same apperance. Blonde hair and blue eyes. We were made for each other!! Does he like me? What should I do?? (link)
ok there is only one possible answer for this one.

if his showing some kind of "hint" that he likes you better than his gf, and which he sound like he is already. then go for it

talk to him. that will be the only way. but dont just go and say.

"hey S. i like ya so wanna go out?"

but speak the truth and from heart. say what's bothering you, such as him leading you on and you liking him ever since 5th grade, and how you think you would be great for his gf, same interests, and etc. and come on. if guy is trying to break up with his gf, then it definetly means that he likes some one else. and trust me. i ve read so many teen romance books i know all those things by heart.

and when you tell him, it cant be like crowded. the best spot would be an alone spot for both of ya.

so if you dont mind inviting him to the movies, and ya know when you guys go in early, the movie's is practically empty and its kinda dark so you can talk whatever is on your mind.

so try that and if you need more help, you know where i am =)


ok, i have a boyfriend Trystan, he's shy but I really want HIM to kiss ME. how could i drop hints for him to kiss me? thankss (link)
well first of all thanks for asking me for the advices ... and...if you really want to give him a hint...

just invite him to a nice home movie. (for a movie, go for NOTEBOOK they got killer kissing scene.)

and dim the light =)
and well if its kissing scene, look at him. he will look at ya... if not, go aww so he will look at ya =)

then slowly lean to him. if he leans you to then go for it

also there is a slowly gradually working kiss

ya know when he give you present, or drops you off at your house. when you say thanks.

hug him instead of just thanks and gradually go for a kiss on the cheek.

do that for a week. if you are comfortable

go for a lip but just light subtle one not heavy duty lock...=)

and if he dont freak out then after you break off from subtle kiss, look at him and you kno those i want kiss look, then go for more =)

hope it helped!

and if it doesnt work, just flat out ask him. he will feel better that you want to talk about it.

and it will put you guys in a whole new relationship where you can discuss almost anything =)




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