I have asked this before, but I was not satisfied with all the different answers. I am 13 and female. My crush,Stence, is 13 and male. I have been having a crush on Stence since 5th grade. I made it clear that i liked him in 5th and 6th grade, but he clearly told me he liked me as a friend, but now i am not sure if he still does. This year I am going into 8th grade and i still have a crush on him. The only problem is that he is going out with my friend, Sarah, and i am going out with another guy, so i could try and stop thinking about Stence. By the way it did not work at all. Now Stence is thinking about breaking up with Sarah, and talks to me more then Sarah does. He is my best friend and i am his. We have some of the same problems and have similar interests. I know it may sound dorky, but we both have the same apperance. Blonde hair and blue eyes. We were made for each other!! Does he like me? What should I do??
if his showing some kind of "hint" that he likes you better than his gf, and which he sound like he is already. then go for it
talk to him. that will be the only way. but dont just go and say.
"hey S. i like ya so wanna go out?"
but speak the truth and from heart. say what's bothering you, such as him leading you on and you liking him ever since 5th grade, and how you think you would be great for his gf, same interests, and etc. and come on. if guy is trying to break up with his gf, then it definetly means that he likes some one else. and trust me. i ve read so many teen romance books i know all those things by heart.
and when you tell him, it cant be like crowded. the best spot would be an alone spot for both of ya.
so if you dont mind inviting him to the movies, and ya know when you guys go in early, the movie's is practically empty and its kinda dark so you can talk whatever is on your mind.
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