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well me and my friend act exactly like the girls from the movie thirteen , we both are 13 have our tounge + bellybuttons pierced we drink alot did drugs ... cut blah blah blah yeh and all those bad stuff ... the only difference is that im actually concerned ! plz help and dont right stupid shit ! i mean the reason why im asking 4 help here is because im looking for help not negative judgements
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My advice for you is to seek help and if you cant go to some one then search on-line for support groups and people who went through the same thing. If this doesnt help then talk to me. I have a lot of friends including my self going through problems like that. devilsangel0027 is my screen name its on aim
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well its seems like you got some issues. your so young and you sound like your 16 or 17. well im 16 about to be 17 and it seems like i have done everything you have so if you would really like me to give you some good quality advice e-mail and tell me in more details what your problems are. dont worry i will respond fast.
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let me be the one to tell ya that you've done the first step to doing out of bad things.
admitting that you need help.
i've done some cutting my self, but think about it. i mean really really think.
what do you get out of cutting? nothing but scars.
so here is what you do. if you are temted to cut again, squeeze on a ice. its proven by scientist that it makes the feeling go away or some sort.
the cutting i mean.
and if you really think about people who care for you, even just one. and think about what will they do if you keep doing bad stuff?
they will be CRUSHED... so please... talk to an adult whom you can trust. and wont make such a big deal out of what you've done in the past. but person who cares about you and proud of you coming out of shadow to get help.
so i hope i helped and hope it works out
and if you need someone to talk to i am here for ya =)
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if you really want help i say you try to get away from your friend and find some more people to hang out with .. your other friends could get your mind off of drinking ; drugs ; cutting ; etc. and you won't want to do that as much anymore. you won't be able to stop right away so i suggest taking it a little at a time .. like try to stop with the drugs first because they're really dangerous ; than go to cutting ; and last go to your drinking problem or you could try to stop them all at the same time .. i just hope you could try to get your friend to stop with you because i have a few friends like that and it's really scary to see them do this stuff. i hope i helped you out a little .. GOOD LUCK!ยก!
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well first off let me tell you that altho i have 11 peircings in each ear.tongue nose eyebrow and bellybutton pieced i dont act that way. Your saying you dont want negative judgement but thats what your gonna get from most of these people. You already know drinking is bad and drugs are even wrost. But the most horrible thing about this situation is that your cutting. if your doing this to fit in to a crowd stop. and the way that you said "well me and my friend act exactly like the girls from the movie thirteen " it seems that you want to be those girls which aint kewl at all. my advice dump all friends who are doing bad things..drugs alcohol and cutting cause you did say "the only difference is that im actually concerned !" and the only ways to get over it is to not think about it and when your with those people you think about it...try joining a club at school or doing community service for your community. and if i was your mother i'd ground you. maybe grounding seems alittle harsh but believe me it will work.it will get your mind off these things..oh and for the cutting you need to get some help so go to therapy! sorry if there is any negative judgements but thats all i can say hope this helps a lil
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