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Cheers! I enjoy giving advice and I think I'm good at it. Is it pretentious to say I refuse to answer questions about "Love" from people who are under age 16? I don't think love is real when you're 14, and I don't think you can fall in love in a month. I won't dignify that kind of stupidity with an answer. I also won't answer questions with terrible grammar. I just make fun of them on myspace! I know that's not nice, but it's just SO easy. And it's so unfair for me to give them a good, honest answer when they haven't asked a good, proper question. Ask me a real question and I will give you a real answer!
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I have never had a boy friend! Is that bad?? And I want one, but no one wants to go w/ me! Cause i am a tomboy! I like to skate and stuff like that! I personally think i imtate boys! Cause i can shoot a ball into a basketball and i play sports! Is this a bad thing? I am 13 and i have a lot of boy friends! I have one that is my bff and i like hima lot is that ok? Plzz i rate high!!
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Why are you so worried about having a boyfriend at such an early age? YOu have years to go! Keep being active and stay fit--I think you'll appreciate your skills much more in the long run.
Cheers.
I have this boyfriend, he's really nice but i never ever get to see him because he lives in a different town. Everytime i get the chance to go visit it seems like he has something else to do. He has cheated on me about 3 times already but we made up. He calls me every night and is a sweet heart. I dont noe if i should stay with him or break up. I feel so bad when i break up with him because ive done it before that i just go out with him again. what would i say? someone please help
Stop. Right now. He can say all the sweet things he wants, but actions speak louder than words. He's not all that nice if he's cheated on you three times. Stop playing the part of the fool! You deserve better than that, so long as you actively seek it. I don't see how hard it could be to break up and stay broken up if he lives in a different town. Let him go, find someone better, and live a productive life.
Cheers!
He's hurting so much. My fiancee. He learned last September that the father he never met died three years earlier. We were only engaged for two months when he learned this. He is so distant now I can't even reach him on this subject. He doesn't talk about it. He is so different now. I ask him. he doesn't say. It is so strange now. We went from sharing everything to sharing some things. It's killing him and it's killing me. I don't want to be selfish but I need to be the one he turns to. He hasn't talked to anyone he says. Do I need to just back off or should I pursue him. I need to get him back to good.Please help.21/f
I understand that you want to be the one that he turns to, but maybe he's afraid of bogging you down with all his problems. Maybe you should suggest he go to a grief counselor, but let him know that you are there for him no matter what. Let him know that you love him and you're willing to support him in his time of need.
Cheers.
1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?
((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))
love: the girl who doesn't know!!
There's nothing wrong with experimenting--as long as you're safe. If this is one you want to do, or not want to do, then fine. Just do right by you.
SORRY THIS IS LONG..ILL GIVE A 5 TO ANYBODY WHO ANSWERS THIS!! THANX!!
me and my friend have been best friends since 8th grade...were now in 12th grade and as the school year is coming to an end and were going to be graduating i feel like now is the chance that we need to hang out and reminice on our inside jokes and everything. the problem is..she has a fiance..she is 18 yrs old n has only been going out with this kid for 4 months... they spend every minute of there lives together and its like there is no need for me anymore. Well i've talked to her about this so many times i've decided to just give up. So i started to just hang out with my other friends. Well all of a sudden she said to me "it feels like were not friends anymore" and i said well why do you feel like that and she said " because we dont talk alot n stuff". Well the thing is everything i try n talk to her she just says oh were still friends and goes on her way. Everytime i try and hang out with her it's either oh im doing something with Russ tonight (thats her fiancee) or its well u can hang out with us if u want. I dont want to be the third wheel..yes i have a boyfriend but she doesn't like him so what am i supposed to do about that? im trying to please everyone but its not working. And when i try to just hang out with her and just me and her its like her fiancee gets all mad at me and everything. I really don't know what to do!!! can someone please help!!?
Talk to her. I had this same problem with a close friend of mine and I lost her, regretfully. I wish now that I had taken her aside and told her clearly how I felt. Ask your friend to set some time aside just for you two, a girl's night out. Her fiance needs to realize that she has a life outside of him.
Cheers!
My hair is wavy-ish straightish...kinda unruly. It's dark brown and a little longer than shoulder length and super layered with side swept bangs. For school I usually just use a straightening iron to make it stick straight. But I want to try some new styles...cute stuff, punk stuff, whatever!!! I want to keep it the same length though because I am growing it out. Anyone have any ideas??
Dye it! :) Cut it, highlight it, let it be wavy for a day. The possibilities are endless.
My family is extremely well off money wise. And so are the kids that go to my high school but my family kind of has more money then most of the people in our neighborhood.
Well, I've been talking to a few girls at school about our prom dresses and theirs are around 200-500 dollars. Well, I found the perfect dress but it's 1,500 dollars. I'm supposed to go buy it this weekend but there's a problem. It's not that we can't afford the dress, because we can and my parents think that it's a good amount to pay for it. It's that I don't want to be the only girl there that paid over a thousand dollars for a Prom dress. I don't want people to talk about it or anything.
Should I get the dress even though it's 3 or 4 times more than what everyone else is going to pay for theirs?
It's YOUR prom night. But remember, you are only going to be wearing this dress once in your entire life. And who needs to know how much it cost? If they ask, tell them the price "slipped" your mind.
My mom broke up with my dad 9 years ago, and has been living with my stepdad since. I was on her computer, and found that she has been flirting with a guy from Texas (thousands of miles away), and they are planning on meeting in Seattle this weekend.
She hasn't told anyone about it, like me, my stepdad, ect. She said she was going to Seattle for a "craft get-together".
Should I be really upset, storm out, and demand to live with my dad? Or be happy for her that she is happy...and having an affair. I guess I'm still in shock.
I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm not sure how to react. It was probably wrong to look on her computer, but I just had a hunch.
Your mom is wrong for lying. Since I don't know her personally, I can't predict her reaction, but perhaps you should talk to her about this, calmly and in private. Let her know how you feel and that you think it's wrong. If she gets angry at you for going through her stuff, than ask to first resolve the bigger issue of her affair before you talk about you being on her computer.
Cheers!
im not good at doing crunchs.. so someone please help me and tell me what other kinds of stomach exercises i can do to help me get the fat off my stomach and how long it will take to see results ! thanks soooo much !
Hm. I think if you do crunches and sit ups, you'll build the muscle underneath the fat. You need to BURN the fat, which probably means a lot of cardio and stuff that will get your heart pumping. Now, I'm not sure how long it will take, but don't expect a three day miracle. If you try one of those crash diets, you'll lose like 10 pounds in 2 days, but you mostly lose water and you'll get that back eventually, so do try to avoid those. Just be persistent!
Cheers.
Pfff.. I just realised how BORING my life is!!! I wake up at six, go to school, come back at 4, do homework, go on the computer, sleep. What a nice life eh??? NOT!! its just soooo boring! i have nothing better to do. Any ideas?
Well, that sounds kinda exciting to me. You could always do what I do: wake up, go to work, come home, go to sleep. Yeap.
Anyway, if you want something to do, use the resources you have (ie: your computer) and find something interesting to do your hometown. And if money is an issue, then save up whatever money you can get for weekend activities. You could even pull off cheapo trips, like packing some sandwiches and going to the beach (I love living in SoCAL) or a shindig/picnic with your friends.
Cheers!
hey everyone i was just wondering, because this guy liked me before and now he doesn't. he says i'm boring. i think he only liked me before was because he didn't know me, now he kinda does and doesn't like you. how do i get him to want me/like me? he knows i like him and he told me he doesn't like me like that, but we could do stuff. i want for him to regret not asking me out. how do i do that? thanks in ad advance! i rate good. any tips are good!
The only question that comes to mind is if you really want to be with someone who says you're boring? Surely you can meet someone who thinks better of you! You deserve it, to say the least.
And if you go so far out of your way to "make him like you" how long do you think this relationship can last? Would it be worth losing who you are for some guy who thinks you're boring? Think long and hard on this one.
Cheers.
I was just wondering if it will hurt getting in the butt, cause i really want to do it with my 2 boyfriends, you know like one up each hole type thing?? But I am scared whats it going to feel like.... please help!!!!
Okay, first, it's kinda sad that there are people berating you for your life choices. If you have two boyfriends, congrats! I can barely get one. :)
As for the anal thing... ah, I wouldn't know from personal experience (it does tend to make *squirk*), but if you do it, go slow. Things don't normally go up that way. And maybe before you have sex with two guys at once, you should try... that third option singularly. Figure out how it feels and if a threesome is what you really way.
Afterwards, make sure you and your partner clean up after yourselves.
Cheers.
Is masterbation a sin? Some people think it is, and some people think it's not. Some people think it is-- only under cirtain circumstances. Like if it's for lust, then yes it is, but if it's not for lust then it isn't..> Is it? Or isn't it?
Well, it's all about prospective. For a non-religious person (such as myself), there is nothing wrong with it. If you have any questions, perhaps you should talk to your religious leader about it.