My name is Nikita. 19 years of age. i answer all questions. However i answer truthfully so don't take it personal if i say something rude. I've been on this website for 6+ years. I live in Texas. And right now i go to hcc. I love hanging out with my friends, facebooking, pigging out, and going on walks. If you have a question please inbox me :D thanks bye!
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Heyy, So there this guy that I have seen since september and I always think he's soo cute and some of my friends are firends with him . But I'm not good friendss with them so I can't really just go up and start talking to him. So I have a couple options, tell my friend that i think he's cute and to talk to him for me? Or they are on the track team and so are my friends but there not friends with himbut they know that I think he's cute so they think I should go to track and try out so I can talk to them bout track and well be on the same team, but the thing is... I hate running and I am really bad so I would probly embarrass myself? And if you do say the first one .. What do I tell my friend to say to him to seem I interested but not creepy ?
Thanks
Kaaitlyn (link)
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I think you should talk to him yourself. i read somewhere that getting someone else to talk to a guy for you makes you look desperate. & just be yourself don't join the track team just be cause he's on it & you don't like running, you know? If he's in your classes maybe you can start a conversation with him, or get one of your friends to introduce you to him instead of talking to him for you. hope i helped!
Nikita the Cheetah :) ♥
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in few words, im absouluty in love with this girl. i know she loves me as well. but we split up about 3 months ago. she is now with this other guy. she said she love me and this guy is holding her back. i desprately want to be with her. and she is torn between us two. her current Bf stole her from me. he drew her in by his willingness to rush into a physical relationship. i was a bit hesitant because i wanted it to be specail when it actualy happend. so thats realy it. that wasnt nearly as short as i wanted it to be. (link)
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my advice to you is to just move on. She doesn't know what she wants & she's just confusing you. there's a big chance that she might want to be with this guy. but who knows? For now you should just let her be & don't pressure her to do anything with you. It sounds like to me that she wants only a physical relationship with that guy & she'll probably do the same with you.
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i really like this guy and he is really nie but he doesnt or i dont think he knows who i am..and i am not that strong with boys so i dont know how to get him to like me...? (link)
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you should o up to him & start a conversation with him perhaps? or if your too nervous get one of his friends that you know to introduce you to him. & just start talking to him.
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I'm a 26 year old female and I just want someone to please tell me what you think! Ok here goes... About three years ago I meet this guy... And real and kinda soon I fell real fast for him... We became inseprable, and I have a daughter that's five and she grew attached to him as well... My family did to and he and my brother became fast friends... We were so in love... And a year later he broke up with me after a argurment... But instead of telling me it was over he decided to just dodge me... He never even spoke to me or my family members... He wasn't even man enough to come to me and tell me how he felt... And my daughter who grew attached to him was deeply hurt... It really took me about over a year to get over him and to this day I still harbor hate and resentment issues towards him... So about 6 months ago I went to enroll my daughter in school... and to my disappointment his mother works there... So I had to run into her... Even though I didn't feel it I was nice and I spoke to her... And until today I really never held a convo with her... I would just see her around in school... But today I had to actually go to her office to talk to her about my daughter missing school... Because she was sick... And his mom is the school nurse... So we begin talking... And she started bringing up his sister... And how she was doing... And then she brought up him... She actually told me that he was getting married... To his exgirlfriend which is his sister best friend and the women that she wanted him to be with all along... She even went as far as to take his fiances picture off her desk and show it to me... Ok now here goes... My opinon of it was that she was super insensitve... She shouldn't have brought that up to my face and it was like she was bragging and boasting about it... It really hurt my feelings because even though we've been broken up for two years now... I still had a small hope that one day we will reunite and now it's totally out of the question... So please someone anyone tell me about this siuation let me know what you think thank you (link)
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Hey well i do think what the mother did was cruel and unnecessary, but that's life. You just need to realize that your better off without him. But i think you should talk to him, for closure. Don't bring up the fact that you talked to his mom. Just ask him why he decided to leave you over 1 argument? well good luck & i hope i helped.
Nikita the Cheetah
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18/f
Today when I was changing my pad, because I'm on my periods, I say a tiny pinworm wriggling on it. I am so afraid as it what it is and etc. Is it going to kill me? Am I rotting down there?
Please help me.
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i found this website
https://health.google.com/health/ref/Pinworms
& you should talk to your doc tor as well to get someanti-biotics.
hope i helped.
nikitathecheetah♥
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I am just curious as to why guys just flat out stop talking to you? Why can't they at least have the decency to be like, "Hey this isn't working time to move on." ? Explain please. (link)
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It's really because men don't have the balls to say what's on their mind. & for them well in their minds its easier to just ignore someone then tell them how they feel about that person.
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My ex bf and I were obviously dating and we broke up because we didnt become best friends before we started dating. we went on two dates and started dating, we learned about each other and dated. we now decided we need to be best friends before we date. so how do i handle that. how much should i call him or text him. so far we dont talk at all on the phone or text. this pass weekend i had a party with my friends, i invited him and we had a great time together (all of us as friends). we planned to go snowboarding on thursday, him and i. i guess i just want to know how much i should be texting him and calling him. with spring break coming i also want to know how much talking we should do because we arent spending it together...i know him and i should set those boundaries but i dont want to get too annoying is all. (link)
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you should call him or text him like maybe once a week? or every 5 days. hope i helped!
nikitathecheeath♥
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What is a good age to move out of your parents' house and find a first apartment/rental? (link)
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hah. i ask myself the same question. i don't know if your in college but if i were you i would get through college and find a good stable job that'll help you pay your bills when you find an apartment. there's not a good age to move out, but really its about timing. i hope i helped.
nikita ♥ the cheetah
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My subject isn't exactly what I'm trying to ask... I don't wanna MAKE him like me, but I want him to think I'm nice enough and good enough to be someone he could like. (link)
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be yourself. be nice. & flirt with him a little bit. hope i helped.
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I started talking to this guy (Josh) last august. We are talking to each other until now. He is very sweet to me, we even enjoy talking to each other until morning. I have a huge crush on him, and he knows it. We talk about school, our favorite movies, books, philosophy in life etc. We have "something" but we are not committed. It's like a pseudo-relationship. Recently, he have been talking to me about mature subjects. He's told me that he is fantasizing about me. He's insinuating on having sex, he is a discreet person. He is not a virgin, but i am. Does he really likes me? Or he just want to get in my pants?
I know for a fact that he is sweet to other girls too. But he is different to me. He talks about mature stuffs.. And i don't know how to respond to those things. I want to ask him about us. But i am scared that our friendship will be gone, once i bring the subject up. (link)
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hey well it seems to me like he's only interested in becoming sexual. i don't know how old you are, or if he's actually into you, but I'll tell you one thing. When a guy starts talking about sex and says things to you that are sexual he's more interested in knowing if he can he get in your pants. You can either a.) change the subject or b.) just stop talking to him. i hope i helped.
nikita the cheetah♥
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My grades in school are not well. i am trying to get better and pass but for some reason my grades suck. my parents just took away my xbox for 3 weeks and within those 3 weeks i have to get a "b" average in school. i got some hard classes and they really stress me out so thats a problem. i just don't want to work on school stuff forever and just think about school. i just need advice on what to do to get better grades and succeed. I also need relationship help. I am trying to find a nice lady to hang with but i just don't know who to choose and at least talk to them right. so, yeah those things are what i need advice on.... My age: 16 Gender: Male (link)
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i was the same way in high school. i didn't do anything and i ended up going to community college, not that there's anything wrong with that.I was lazy and didn't want to try so i had to face the consequences. I would've gotten into a University but because i didn't have a good GPA i ended up going to community college. When i came to community college i realized that i have to do good now otherwise i won't be transferring to a University. Same thing in your case, you need to buckle down and do your homework. Study in a quiet environment away from distractions such as tv, computer, etc.Do your homework first before you turn on the tv or get on the computer, unless your grounded for that too. As for the dating thing you should start improving your grades then worry about dating girls. Sorry to be a Debbie downer, but you need to make good grades to get into a college. You'll feel good about yourself when you start doing good. Good Luck :) i hope i helped.
Nikita
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So there's this guy i was talking to for about a month ,on texts.We hadn't met face to face but all my friends knew him and he lived near me so it wasn't like he was random.We finally met last night and went to the movies and He held my hand and paid for my ticket and all that cute stuff and I really liked him.You could tell he wanted to kiss me,but I didn't just because it was the first date.Later that night i texted him and he kept saying how he wanted to kiss and all but I told him next time we could and that I had a good time with him and that my friends liked him too,then he said he thought i wasn't interested in him because I didn't kiss him and i told him that it was because i was shy and because I didn't think he wanted me to be all over him,which is the real reason and that i think he's really good guy and all ,then he never texted me back.I texted him a little later asking why he stopped talking.Still no response.Then I texted him the next day ,just saying "hey : )" and still got no response.It's only been like 1 day but i'm really interested in him and I don't know if he just hasn't had his phone or just doesn't wanna talk to me anymore?Our date went good so I don't think it has anything to do with that.Should I text him again and ask what's going on or what should I do? (link)
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you shouldn't text him anymore. this sounds like all we wanted was some action. find someone else or just chill for a while. cause he doesn't like a good guy. i hope i helped.
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i have been smoking a lot of weed and i recently have gotten migraines from it. is that possiable? because research shows that marijuuana relieves migraines.
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nope marijuana is dangerous and it kills your brain cells and makes you really stupid. Not only that it ruins your lungs. So don't smoke weed if you want to live longer.
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Hey im 18/f my mom had me when she was 16 and my biological father gave away his rights. Then she met my adopted father bryan. he is my 2 sisters real dad. But he adopted me when i was like 2. They got divorced and he could have not seen me anymore and whatnot but he chose to. He is basically my dad and i dont think of him any different. I want to create something to show how much i love him. Is there any songs that you can think of that somewhat relate. I really like brad paisleys song he didnt have to be. Are there any other songs like that out there?
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John Mayer- Daughters
and i found a website with some country songs http://www.the9513.com/30-songs-about-dads/
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So there is this adorable/hot/cute/sexy/amazing/nice/funny guy. He's 20 yrs old, I'm 17. He and I met 3 yrs ago this thanksgiving. We were basicully together for 2 yrs unofficially. And for one year I was jus so busy with my life we didn't talk. We jus recently started talking. And we both clearly still hav feelings for eachother. He wants to take me out on a date because he misses me and he says he was in love with me. Wich I'm skeptical about since he had a small thing with 3 of my bestfriends -_- anyways he is a big flirt. He tries to have sex with a lot of girls clearly. Wen we talk I jus let him kno I think he's perfect and he always says "I'm jus perfect for you" and I told him that I jus recently got fucked over and cheated on by my last boyfriend and he got so mad and upset about it. He was saying things like you're wayy to good for that and blahh. He thinks I can get anyone and always compliments me. He's always there for me and he's such a sweet talker. I told him I'm not going to have sex wit him the nite he takes me out and he said wtf I never said we should I want to take you out nothing more nothing less. So he knows he's getting nothing out of me. So am I crazy to think this wild party boy actually wants to commit to me and only me? Or am I a fool? Pleasee helpp!
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You can't change any one. If he wants to change he has to do it himself. If i were you i would be careful since you said he's had a thing with 3 of your best friends which means he's a player. Go on the date with him and see how it goes. If it goes well then continue dating him and see where it goes. i hope i helped
cheetah :) ♥
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I was the girl who wrote earlier asking for help on how to get along better with my mom.
This morning we got in a fight over a lunch box, a stupid lunch box. Now she told me she wishes I were never born her child.
Its so hard to stay in this house with someone that would say something like that to you.
I don't know what to do. My dad won't listen either. (link)
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i know how you feel. me and my mom always don't get along but we always talk about. you should talk to your mom and tell her what's bothering you. im pretty sure if you two to talk that'll help solve the problems you two have.. i hope i helped!!
nikita
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17/f
I have the typical scene kid look :S
Black hair with blonde streaks, side swept bangs heaps of layers and my hair is kind of cut in a mulletish style.
I am sick of not knowing what do to with my hair so I just leave it down everyday and straighten it. It's kind of boring. I need a new way to do it. Can anyone help? (link)
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okay if you want you can grow out your hair.. and move on from your typical scene hair.. or if you still wanna do the scene hair thing. you should curl it if it isn't naturally curly.. hope i helped!
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wat is aubrey odays eye color?? (link)
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it's like a greenish color..
go to google images and type in her name hope i helped!
xoxo nikita
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Well im a sophomore but i have been thinking about colleges lately. But my question is whether they would consider my freshmen year as much as my sophomore and junior year because 9th grade was rele hard for me(i had a 3.0 GPA) but im doin well this year wit a 3.5 GPA. Im in all difficult classes and i took one AP class on World HIstory. I want to go to gerogetown or The George washington University.
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they look at your junior year actually.. not really sophomore or freshmen year.. and they als o look at extra curricular activities. so if you aren't any you should sign up for those so you can put them on your resume for college! well i hope i helped!
nikita
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Hi, I really love hair cuts scene kids have. Does anyone have any tips or photos of hairstyles I could show or explain to a hairdresser and they would understand and cut my hair that way? Thanks. (link)
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go to photobucket or tinpic.com and put in scene hair. hope i helped!
nikita♥
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