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ex-girlfriend
in few words, im absouluty in love with this girl. i know she loves me as well. but we split up about 3 months ago. she is now with this other guy. she said she love me and this guy is holding her back. i desprately want to be with her. and she is torn between us two. her current Bf stole her from me. he drew her in by his willingness to rush into a physical relationship. i was a bit hesitant because i wanted it to be specail when it actualy happend. so thats realy it. that wasnt nearly as short as i wanted it to be.
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I agree with Razhie. She's telling you she loves you because she's lying to you or she's really mean.
Honestly I would move on. She isn't worth it.
If she truly loved you, she wouldn't have left you.
--Jack
(18/m)
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Talk to her and let her know that she needs to make a choice because you can't just be stringed along, no matter how much love you have for her (which I can tell that you, which is very sweet). Explain to her how much you love her, want to be with her, and why you wanted to wait longer (which I think she should admire, most guys do the whole rushing thing and it never works out). Best of luck my friend, and remember, if she doesn't leave this guy, just know you are a great guy and you'll find a girl who will treat you just as good, someday.
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if she have a choice let her have a choice, maybe that you and her where meant to be , or maybe you and her werent mean to be
just tell her how much you love her and if she doesnt take you back, thas something else because you already share your love with her
you cant give up hope from love
maybe your soulmates is standing next to you there you never know dear
good lluck
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did you really post this up at 2 in the morning? if that's the case, it seems like you must have been hurting... and if im not mistaken, I can sense a mild pain in your words... but there's no need to keep your head down. yes, love is simple and complicated in this case and in many cases. people we truly love sometimes leave us. some leave with reason and some without. you stated that she loved you as well--but the real question is, 'how much' does she love you? 3 months feels more like 3 years, doesn't it? even if it wasn't that too long ago... when you're left heartbroken, you'll feel like you've been left that way for years and that it's only natural to feel that way.
If her new bf really did steal her yet you say that she loves you--take into consideration that if she really did love you, she would come back to you? find ways to communicate if you'd like... and maybe your broken heart will turn around to mended.
It hurts a lot to see someone whom you truly love bonding with another, when really you would want to be the one bonded with.
If for some reason you have second thoughts just be strong with what you feel. Because nothing can ever break your strength--no matter how much you get hurt, your strength is your armor. Conjoined with time, slowly but surely, things will heal.
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Look honey,if she really does love you in like the true meaning of love, then she won't be torn between 2 people or she won't have to choose or no physical interaction no matter how good and amazing would make her not be with you. Cause if she loves you, then she'll find being in someone else's hug just not right, and uncomfortable and the sex will just be repulsive and she'd keep thinking of you and seeing you. And also the sex part is not something to stop her from getting back to you, cause i mean, she can do it with you, and it would be even better doing it with the person she loves.
So here is the thing, prove your point that you want her and that you love her and that you wanna be with her, and if she really does love you,she'll come back on her own. But for now, there is nothing you can do about it, and don't blame the other guy, maybe he's a good guy, and he didn't steal her, cause you had already broken up and she agreed herself to date him, so its not stealing, and hey ,i'm not saying she's a bad person either, she might be just confused, maybe after you broke up, her being with someone else was her way of coping with the breakup and moving on and getting over you, cause maybe she didn't think that you'd ever get back together or that you still loved her.
So just prove your point, and if she loves you, you'll get back together, let things fall to place on their own.
If you need any other help or if there are any other updates, please be free to contact me.Best of luck!
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my advice to you is to just move on. She doesn't know what she wants & she's just confusing you. there's a big chance that she might want to be with this guy. but who knows? For now you should just let her be & don't pressure her to do anything with you. It sounds like to me that she wants only a physical relationship with that guy & she'll probably do the same with you.
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People can't get stolen (unless, they are kiddnapped by force) people choose to leave. Your ex choose to leave you for another guy.
It's sad and dissapointing, but it's also normal - it happens.
If she says she loves you but is with someone else she is either very, very mean, or lying to you.
Given that, you are best to move on.
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I'm really not trying to be rude, but I highly doubt her bf "stole her from you". She was willing to be with him, so he's not the only one to blame.
In my personal opinion, it sounds like she can't decide what she wants. I don't know this girl, I only know what you tell me, so I could be wrong.
If I were you, I'd move on with your life. Go out and have fun, date other people. Don't focus on this. Why should you be miserable thinking about her when she's with another guy? Again, I could be wrong about all of this, and I'm not trying to be rude, but the way I see it, she may be trying to juggle both of you, or use you as a backup.
If you start enjoying life and date again, or just have fun, that could be enough to make her come back, but then it's up to you to decide whether you want to take her back.
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well my advice to you is to take yourself out of the situation.stand back and dont pressure her into soemthing she may not be sure about doing.she needs to be sure she wants to be with you because if shes not then it wont last as long as youd like it to. so just6 give her space to clear her mind and to make her miss you.she needs to think it through and you need to tell her that she needs to choose because she cant have both of you.let her know the risks,that if she chooses him then she wont have you and that will be it for you and her relationship. hopefully she will realise what shes lost and finally make a decision to come back to you
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